Malignant Narcissistic Female

This video outlines the chilling world of the malignant narcissistic female. Exploring the dark traits that define her personality—lack of conscience, absence of morality, and a disturbing blend of cruelty and sadism.

Looking at how these individuals manipulate, control, and destroy those around them without remorse. From psychological tactics to real-life examples, this video breaks down the dangerous behaviours of malignant narcissists and how to spot them.

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[Kicklighter.A]

What's frustrating about all of this is that once you understand the pathology of a narcissist they are so easy to spot and avoid. Unfortunately this knowledge can come too late for many of us, including me. Thank you for bringing this to the public's awareness.

[okestone]

It all adds up to one thing: pure evil. I have seen this in my sister who hides it so well most of the time until she is triggered and then she unleashes the most unbelievable level of cruelty with zero remorse.

[Lyrielonwind]

A malignant mother would do whatever to alienate father from his children and would pit siblings among them. They also pick one to be the scapegoat.

[creativelife]

Lack of conscience - that's what's scariest

[kingbee]

The cornerstone of narcissism is being able to control the people around them and using that to regulate their emotions.

[visitorcat]

Narcissism 101...the spirit of jezebel causing chaos and confusion while gaslighting for power and control.

[queenqueen]

im a gay male and i've been around SO MANY female narcissists its crazy how they've been the most abusive towards me than men have.

[katydid]

This is what my mother did to my dad. He came from an abusive childhood, then married her. Twenty years later, he died of a rare cancer in his early 40’s. I swear the stress of living with her killed him.

[jans]

This is very accurate! Why do not more psychologists and social authortities + family courts know about this? These women are allowed to damage their children.

[BeTrue]

I'm so thankful for this channel. This is literally an exact description of my eldest daughter to every detail. My younger daughter is the sweetest thing ever. Exact opposite. My eldest smiles when she lacerates people. I didn't know what narcissism even was until a year ago. I thought she'd grow out of it, but she's didn't. She treats me so badly. I literally run from her in fear of her next evil attack. I need to listen to this many times.

[tjanehogan]

Pure evil - my "mother" is a malignant narcissist. I am the family's identified patient/scapegoat. After years of abuse and family mobbing by proxy, I went no contact. She tricked and poisoned me at a time when I was vulnerable and needed help. Still recovering and trying to pick up the pieces. Experiencing a lot of institutional narcissism and gaslighting (also medical) in the system, which triggers my C-PTSD. Trying to escape. Want to work again and not be pushed into disability. Sending love and healing wishes to all narcissistic abuse survivors. Thank you for your work and interesting insights, Darren.

[tag_]

Nailed it, Darren! Excellent breakdown

[katydid]

You described my mother better than anyone else has. She possesses all the traits you described. Thank you Darren, I have clarity now.

[anniemac]

My mother is a malignant narcissist, compared with other narcissists I've had in my life, my mother is on another level completely. Her vicious, cruelty schadenfreude, sadistic and plots for revenge rules her life. Evil, is her intent. I am 65 now, I have complex ptsd, estranged from my mother, but she still lives, and controls the people around her by dominance, threats, power and wealth. The damage caused is life long, despite years of therapy.

[alasdair]

This describes my wife in the last few years of our marriage as I tried to stand up to her. She is primarily a covert narcissist but with these malignant characteristics that were used when necessary. I distinctly remember the pleasure on her face as she hurt me emotionally and when I was physically in pain

[prant]

Sadistic, that’s malignant narcissist. “I was joking!” I heard that all the time.

[hecbethyname]

Wow, this was my x to T. She was later diagnosed as APD, clearly there's a fine line between a Malignant Narcissist and APD. She'd have sex with anyone in my life she could, and then encourage that person to abuse me verbally or physically. It lowered my expectations of others and made me more independent than I otherwise would have been. It also made me happier than I ever was before I met her. Strange how things work out.

[peneljsmith]

sounds an awful lot like a former friend of mine from childhood. Even then, she would grin if seeing me in pain. And she returned to my life when I became physically disabled and poor, just to brag at me about how well she was doing.

[FirstLast-rbzj]

One of the most difficult problems with this kind of abuser is how good they are at being covert about it and exploiting plausible deniability. It's almost like the person is an enemy agent in disguise who has infiltrated your life in the same way someone would the enemy camp. I would write about this but will just give one brief example of the lengths such people will go to that might appear normal to others.

Some time ago this person kept picking on me with a certain pattern of behaviour that made it obvious it was covert hostility and bullying. They did something to really upset me to the point that I expressed as much very openly. They kept coming up with excuses and strange unbelievable stories none of which I accepted as none of them were valid. To put it simply, they had touched and destroyed my own personal project in a manner that could not possibly have been accidental while left unattended. I had already told them no and to stop touching it, it was incredibly personal and nothing to do with them. There's absolutely no justification for that and yet they would not concede any fault.

This really hurt me and I made it very clear. There's more to it than just being my property but I don't want this to be too long. They only had to recognise this which was incontrovertible but instead kept coming up with explanations all of which were irrelevant because if they thought that there was a problem they simply had to ask me. It wasn't their project or their problem to fix but they kept finding excuses to give themselves permission to access my property.

All they had to do was acknowledge fault but instead they went behind my back to someone else who in passing had to talk to me saying I wasn't being very nice to that person not having the full story and not aware that I had not done anything wrong but instead my reaction to them was because they had done something to me. They had been presented my reaction as if they had done nothing to provoke it. I had naturally told them off for what they had done and they had then gone to everyone else to tell them they were the victim and had done nothing wrong.

None of this worked on my so they escalated their tactics. They came by while I was working and told me they were about to go out and that they had left the back door open then to lock it if I went out. This was nonsensical and not quite an established protocol in the house. They could have locked it themselves and I always lock it when going out. Leaving it unlocked when someone is in the house is normal and it's trivial for them to lock as it was just down the hallway, they had to take a detour to tell me this.

Later I had stuff to do elsewhere and then locked it. I eventually get a phone call from them sounding really angry demanding to know where I am. I didn't go along with it and was angry in return since I had done nothing to be talked to like that. They were then saying do you know you locked me in the backgarden and they had to break in through a window with their bad back out there for hours.

They tried to make it out like I had hurt them to manipulate and reverse the situation. I just didn't buy it. They came in screaming at me that I locked them out. She had hidden in the garden and locked herself out deliberately without her phone in a way to make it like I had done it to her. The whole thing was a ridiculous plot. She then went to tell everyone how she'd been locked out by me only it was a setup.

When it didn't work on me they suddenly started to act like a toddler trying to get sympathy talking in a wobbly tone about how they have a bad back and just got a bad report from the doctor on the cusp of crying trying to elicit sympathy. It was an appalling display for an adult and an act of desperation when all else had failed.

The problem is in these cases is that it's hard to comprehend just how devious these people can be. Even in respect to their own offspring. Even now this person and those close to them keep reminding me to check there's no one in the garden when locking it as if I had actually made that mistake when the whole thing was a pretence. They told me they were out and to lock the back door but instead were hiding in the back garden to invent a crisis that has never happened before in years nor after.

Part of the abuse after that consists of treating you like that's something you always do as though it happens all the time and as if you can't be trusted which makes no logical sense when you consider it. It is to frame you as the villain. How does it suddenly happen when it hasn't happened in several decades and then become regarded as something that is now a constant liability on my part? If it were such a big deal they can just take out a key as well as their phone with them and there's more than one door. There's even a table with a overhang out of the rain for putting things upon.

[lsomethingrsomething]

Yes, this is my mother
Who has moderate dementia now. This behavior doesn’t change.
But at least I’ve been aware and not a victim for quite some time now