MALIGNANT Narcissists: Everything you need to know (Part 2/3)

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[mnikaluza]

These people can make you literally “sick” physically and mentally.

[carriebell]

They will also steal all your stuff and when they do give you something is broken! They steal your money, your soul and anything else you have the courage to have!

[Erikprc]

N O C O N T A C T ! ! Stay super strong and don't reach out to them! EVER! Don't fall for the indirect hoover by proxy.

You already know the drill. Love bomb, devaluation, discard, hoover, and repeat. Don't be hard headed! You're worth more than breadcrumbs and deserve a person who is present and ready to put in real work into a real relationship!

Don't be impatient.

[Gratitudejoy]

My dad is malignant narcissist, sexual abuse, superviolent, always menacing, my mother is a communal narcissist and left me hanging each time and my ex-partner was a psychopath.... I have survived🙏

[KellyOShea]

I witnessed 3 childlike fits, actually acting like a child in front of me. A grown 48 year old man. That combined with physical intimidation, well I'm divorcing, and moving. Listen to this woman, read her books, do the work. Thank you... ❤️☘️

[shannonjones]

I have learned more from you than any other person in my entire life. I love your brilliant work! Thank you...

[goldilocks]

Is there anything worse than a malignant narcissist? Yes, yes there is: a COVERT malignant narcissist. These tend to be the high functioning doctors, lawyers, etc. And their position is their cover for their abhorrent interpersonal behaviour and dysfunctional private lives. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Society needs to stop admiring and worshipping people automatically based on their facade, since we never really know what lies beneath.

[pierrechevalier]

My ex was covert narcissist, her father was malignant narcissist..chaotic family and im so grateful for getting away from that toxic environment...disgusting people

[peterpan]

Watching this is giving me a panic attack.. "All being a good person gets you is taken advantage of"

[leewells]

I am going through a divorce with a malignant covert narcissist wife. They are so evil and cruel, pretending to be loving, caring people, but they are not at all. Keep exposing these people because they destroy their own families, spouses, children with the damage that they do to truly loving, caring, genuine people.

[cristinamariadegesu]

100% my mother. I was always afraid of what her reaction would be, even into adulthood. Pure evil.

[infinitetundra]

The Malignant Covert is a Hell I wouldn’t wish for my worst enemy.

[miriammatthews]

This is exactly what happened to me. I lost everything. But God is building a new life for me.

[dhanyaslifeventure]

Once you know who they are, don't ever look back on them.They would definitely wanna see if you could be alive and happy without them, do that.They will be half dead.

[katherinefenrickson]

I was married to a malignant narcissist. My life was a nightmare. He stole my life from me. I will never be the way I used to be anymore.

[MomDroogs]

Yep! Malignant narcissist defines my 89 year old mother. My dad beat my mom, and my mom beat me along with many other HEINOUS forms of abuse against me, her scapegoat daughter. My sister was the golden child. 63 maddening years of dealing with this toxic mother and her mental illness. She will not die, she will not leave my sister and I alone sending in many flying monkeys on her behalf despite both of us have been no contact. After many years of triangulation my sister and I have reconnected. We both suffer from PTSD, sever anxiety, multiple physical ailments from the abuse, and sleeplessness. Will be tuning in for Part 3. What now? After all mother is “old, sick, and all alone”. “Why are you abandoning your mother?” Triangulation attempts with our children, her grandchildren, and cousins, friends, her minister, etc. and the list of flying monkeys is unending.

[christiec]

I knew a couple malignant narcissists. I never really could understand why one minute they can be charming and the next be so abusive. They are out of my lives of my children we'll never know them.

[reboundingfromnarcissistic]

Why does it feel like society protects narcissists? I’m sure people knew I was being abuse but they treated me as if it was my fought

[powerfit]

Once again, you hit the nail on the head! My MN came from abusive/alcoholic parents. He often said he hoped they were rotting in HELL. I should've seen that red flag and ran. He would bring up his abusive background to make excuses and explain why he was so horrible at times to the people around him. He could be incredibly cruel and vindictive. He would feel bad but try to explain it away and ultimately come back to HIM being a victim. Seven years of this and prior abusive relationships left me with C-PTSD. I've been blessed enough to find very good counselors to help me heal. If you're dealing with this type of person or any abusive person PLEASE get out. If you can't do it right now, form a plan and activate it when you can. Keep a list of domestic violence safe houses hotlines and addresses where you can get them...HIDE them or code them if you need to. Please be safe!

[digitalHistorian]

This is my stepfather. I was (at 12) the scapegoat from day 1. Over 30 years later and I am only now starting to really understand how deeply it all effected me. Constant fear, humiliation, and shame.