How to deal with toxic people... | Buddhism In English Q&A

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Mahamevnawa Bodhignana Monastery,
Hewagama, Kaduwela, Sri Lanka.

[goo]

You can’t control what or how others treat you, but you can control yourself how to respond. Toxic people are not worth for your words, walk away or ignore them. Your silence is the best answer to them.

[greatTVfXQchiel]

"Sometimes, toxic people can be found in our family." This hits me so hard.

[singha]

“If you need to prove them wrong, don’t get angry with them- prove them wrong by your success!” 
“Toxic people come to you to get your anger, so don’t provide that anger!” Good advice

[dr.risha_govind]

Note to self
6:00 smile, never show your anger
6:48 weak people express anger
7:30 be the best version of yourself
9:07 don't try to prove them wrong
9:43 stay silent
10:30 love yourself
Thank you for this wonderful video 🙏

[shirektft]

Not talk
Not react
Not show your angry
Not show your sad face
Only listen
--> You Not receive toxics --> They keep toxic !!

[genvillarante]

I am not Buddhism... but i love this teaching. if you love your self you wont your self get angry...

[ehnxbyb]

I'm Christian but I always love listening to the wonderful Buddhist teachings❤

[robbieanderson]

If people disrespect you, give them
The gift of missing you

[susankingston]

Don't give them what they expected to get. Calmness is a marvellous virtue.

[thirstyhungryforgod]

I always stay away from toxic people otherwise they'll damage you more. Ask God to surround you with God's people. Being alone gives me peace and joy, I'm not alone I'm WITH God. There's no place like being in the presence of the God. People are being killed by their BFF. BFF will betray you, jealousy, Be with God.

[rebeccahenderson]

So glad I watched this again! This is now at the top of my Health folder.

[larad]

Smiling at angry, toxic, screaming ppl can be dangerous in certain situations. Your smile- no matter how positive- can be misinterpreted as arrogance and sarcasm, and the situation can easily escalate

[carolking]

What a beautiful person. I have two toxic people in my life. They have caused me a lot of stress. I am very old and have had beautiful lifelong friends who sadly all passed now. I have never come across this situation before and this program has encouraged me enormously. Thank you so much, you kind and gentle man.

[tourwithani]

I have a lot of toxic people in my life and most of the time if someone yells at me I yell at them but now I learned that I should be positive in front of bad people after watching your video, thank you❤❤❤❤

[catherinechia]

Master, i am a Catholic, I learnt this afternoon from my lady colleague, that a male colleague, who is new, made false allegation against me etc etc. The interesting part of me is, I didn’t feel anything, like anger, hurt etc. because I know the Lord is with me. I also remember your sharing, always smile

[keepitreal]

Walking away from toxic people is a therapeutic step forward & positive. No words need to be exchanged, just a letting go, is all that's needed.
You'll only know how great the feeling is, once you do it.

[Alessandra-ba]

I have always justified toxic people.. I believe toxic people are just victims of their own stories, experiences, decisions etc. But I came to the point where instead of letting them draining me, my happiness and my energies I put a distance with them, to me that’s the way to love them but to love myself too

[robertholman]

What the world needs is more love and kindness ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[matildarosebroadway]

Just wanted to leave a comment for this buddhist monk, thankyou.
Your videos have helped me so much with my depression and anxiety, in such a very short time.
I appreciate you sharing your teachings with all of the world 🌎 ❤

[jaikrishnanjai]

❤️Budhisam ❤️ is not a religion ❤️it is Culture of uplifting life values ❤️ peace ❤️calm ❤️ happiness ❤️ Life ❤️❤️love u supreme BUDDHA ❤️❤️..