How to Handle a Toxic Relationship? | Sadhguru

Sadhguru responds to a question about dealing with people who are abusive and looks at the best thing one can do for such people – transform them.

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[explorer.samrat]

Nobody can explain such a complex matter in such simple way....Thank you Sadhguru!!❤😊

[Typeher]

This man has done more for me than anyone else in my whole life

[MegaThefuture]

If you truly manage to ignore them believe me you will solve the problem, Sadhguru is right, I could not escape my family and this is the only method that worked, I changed myself and learned to ignore.

[borntodoit]

dont react (you don't respond ro them)

ignore them (you attach no importance to them / their chatter)

transform them (you could try to change them) or

disconnect from them (you leave them never to deal with them)

my family were toxic

i disconnected from them 30years.

while hard it was easier than dealing with them.

proof even when mum passed after 30years i went back to say goodbye...no remorse no guilt no kindness from them...no even a hello.

lucky for me i was grounded knowledgeable about myself & the world. i was the best version of myself (smiles hugs kisses & happy warmth)

boy did they not like i was a success

[nijr]

I removed myself from a toxic environment a couple years ago. You feel a responsibility to help those close to you but removing yourself is always the best thing to do. If it is a relationship you want to keep you poke your head to say hi here and there and wait till you have respect and they listen to you. If at any point you feel uncomfortable again you remove yourself and keep distance until you are comfortable to say hi again. Best of luck. Om Namo Shivaya

[Madhavi]

Many people who believe they are in toxic relationships are actually dealing with over thinking, over reacting, over arguing. Most of the times they argue on common outcome but different paths and different ideas

[prsharma]

I have been going through the toughest time in my life. What Sadhguru is telling, really all are true and when we immersed in somebody intensively, then there is no way to come out from that situation. In that situation, we must start ignoring their rude way they are talking. That would be best way to come out from anxiety. But it is easy to say but very difficult to follow.

[murua]

Feel so much better after listening to Sadhguru🙏🏽❤️

[amarendraborah]

Relationships thrive on mutual trust, mutual respect, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost !

[WhyTheHemant]

Just When I needed You came up.

ThankYou Sadhguru.
Namaskaram.

[plantspeak]

Ignoring is easier when, like an insect, a person is consistent and predictable in their abusive behavior. The most difficult is dealing with the inconsistent and unpredictable abuser who is more like the beloved animal who, on many occasions, has been loving or protective, but has also bitten you in the face.

[raymondtendau]

If someone is nasty to you first try love. If that does not work, try compassion. If that does not work distance.
-Sadhguru

[neetabora]

My mantra - never deal with them. I simply walk away from such people and create lovely & happy environment somewhere else. 😊❤

[carisma]

When you ignore someone who is toxic, this behavior triggers their anger 😡

[this-abledtheextravertedhe]

❤️🥰❤️ I did this in my marriage… results, pretty amazing. He still won’t do EI, but did find his way to a system of meditation. I do my thing; he does his and we respect our journeys.
I enjoy watching meditation work in person. Absolutely beautiful 🥰

[rohittamidapati]

The men of power had figured out to divide and conquer, but this being learnt to simplify and include. 🙏🏼

[Lr_youtube]

- don’t deal with them
- if you can’t get rid of them, insulate yourself against them

How to insulate yourself?
- don’t react, don’t get provoked
- perceive it as neutral: don’t give a negative meaning to their talkings
- learn self defense

[Ahavagoldman]

Thank you. great question! Perfect resolution.

[vidyamadamanchi]

Yes indifference is considered the highest level of virtue even in psychology. I guess the attachment to that person is more painful than the words itself.

[homemakersvlog]

So so so lot of thanks Sadguru Respect nd pronam 🙏🧡🙏