Why avoidant and anxious partners find it hard to leave

Want to know how to fix an anxious-avoidant relationship? Today, you’ll learn how to navigate an avoidant and anxious relationship and why it's so hard to leave or end this type of relationship. Our attachment styles form early in our life and can be detrimental to adult relationship success. I will share how normal it is to have an anxious attachment style and an avoidant attachment style and why it's a big mistake to end this type of relationship.

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[manupasta]

I had to leave my fearful avoidant partner because they gave up on me completely and was sabotaging the relationship. I was extremely unhappy being with her anymore, and some of her actions were purely disrespectful for anyone to put up with

[kimcreate]

I can vouch for this being true. I’m anxious, he’s avoidant. 41 years married and we still have conflicts because of our styles.

[clouddancer]

Thank you for not making people disposable. 🙏

[MsSilvain]

Thank you. I just learned that I am an anxious style person. It helps! Thank you!!

[SarahNissen]

Ooh, addiction to not getting my needs met! My avoidant partner and I broke up tonight. He wasn’t really ever able to meet my needs and I just put up with it. I often did what he wanted and he rarely did what I wanted, until we went on vacation a week ago. I guess that was the turning point.

[ellebelle]

Sorry but definitely disagree these two have ‘nothing wrong with them’. False. Both are a trauma response and both are highly toxic if left unchecked.

Secondly ‘nothing can be done about it’?!? Ah, no. Trauma can be healed. And therefore it’s possible to become secure.

Thirdly, ‘it’s a really dumb idea to break up with someone based on attachment wounds’?!?! Um, there are plenty of good reasons to leave a relationship dynamic like this, especially if extremely polarised toxic and abusive.

Just wow.