Breaking Up When You Live Together: We Broke Up Should I Move Out?

Breaking Up When You Live Together: We broke up Should I Move Out?

Deciding what to do after a breakup or separation can be quite complicated, especially when you live with your significant other.

Indeed, breaking up when you live together can be one of the most complex situations and I am often asked we broke up should I move out or stay to try to work things out with my significant other.

Coach Alex Cormont the mastermind behind WithMyExAgain was in the Love Advice Studios talking about what to do when you live together to maximize your chances of success and to be in a healthy relationship with the one you love.

Hope that you’ll enjoy!

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[jopac]

i have to agree. from my personal experience, moving out or having your ex move out is the best. if you arent emotionally stable it will just hurt more and there will always be tension. its not healthy at the same time. People need that space from each other to regain themselves and find solutions to be better.

[mushu]

I'm so happy I found this channel. It's just what we both need right now. I'll suggest we watch this episode together. I just want to know what to do now.

[nadiav]

HI, I need some advice.
My boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. We broke up about 4 days ago. I have anxiety and usually would let it get the best of me. I would pick on little things he would do that I didn't like, and he eventually had had enough of it. When we broke up, he had told me he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore, and needed some space to be single, as he didn't want to be in a committed relationship at the moment. This came as a shock to me because he really was acting as if we were the same we had always been... I was unaware of these feelings he was having. He would tell me he loved me, but didn't feel it, and said he was saying he loved to me to convince himself that he did. When we broke up, we had promised to remain friends. He does not want me to give/throw away any of the things he has given me, and said he's not ruling out the idea of us possibly getting back together again in the future. At first, i begged and pleaded for him to take me back, which I'm sure he found off putting. Then i heard about no contact, and wanted to try it. So i sent him a text saying he needs to figure out what he wants because his happiness is very important to me, and that I hope I'll still be around when he's ready, but for right now I need someone who is 100% about me and is all in. Now i am planning on not contacting him for at least 3 weeks. Am i doing this in a positive way? Do you think he will come back to me? I love him very much, so much so we had been planning our future together. It just sucks he doesn't see that right now.

[urssssu]

I found myself in a very hard sutuation to get back with the ex as we're living in the same house and i can feel drain out sometimes and fed up.We broken up 5 months ago after 6 years relationship.Ive noticed when im going sometimes on my own for couple ot days.she misses me ane texting, but when im home we only speak in the evenings after work.I think this is a mistake ive done as ive gone in the friend zone.When i try to push more she&s backing away.Try to be playfull and we had good evenings but sometimes i just feel fed up stuck in the same position ane not advancing.Now i join swimming so i wont spend time at all with her un the evenings mucking around as friends.Dont kbow how much patience ive got left.
Wish to everyone good luck to get back with their girlfriends.

[justinosborne]

I’m going through this now. We live together. I’m doing stuff to keep myself busy like working out at the gym, working more hours, fishing, etc

[RobertRiggin]

For me its her living without any consequence. She still has a place to come home to that she only provides what she feels like providing and expects anything of me to make sure that I'm doing what needs done to keep the house and maintain it while they do whatever they want wherever they want. I don't want to be the person that makes her have consequences but in doing so and hoping that someone or something helps her see how she's using and abusing me I've turned myself into a doormat.

[telepathtee]

This is very interesting. I'm so glad you put this video up. My recent bf and I have been living together in this beautiful apartment and we had a huge blow out (I'm sure the last three months or maybe four were leading up to it. It had to do with my drinking and controlling and aggressive behaviour. Am in AA now thank God) but he hasn't called the moving truck and only comes every other weekend to pick up change of clothes - I have two kids from a previous relationship that see him as a father figure - he said two weeks after he moved out that he needed a break because he didn't have the emotional bandwidth to deal with our relationship. It's been almost 7 weeks since he left. I really want him back and am changing my ways - but my concern is that we have this apartment and when does a break turn into a breakup. I don't want to lose him either by giving him this space.

[yacirpereira]

What if my ex during no contact time asks us to get back together what do I say

[asherleh]

But what if neither of you want to get back together?
There is so much focus here on how to make it work and how to get back together, but what if that's not the plan or want for either party?

What if, you're simply living together because that is the only viable option...

[sebdesormeaux]

I’m a big fan of coach Alex and his perspective on these questions! I’d love to know what he’s thoughts are on first love break ups

[mattholmes]

My wife and I are living together and we have two children together. 3 years old and 1 year old. She wants out of the relationship and I of course do not. She says she's unhappy. She works around my work schedule so we don't ever need a babysitter. She wants to wait till we're financially stable to make any crucial decisions about our marriage. I sleep on the couch, we don't show any affection toward each other, we don't say I love you, we don't kiss, we don't have sex. We act like everything is normal for our children. I just don't know what to do anymore and I would love some advice from you guys. Thank you!!

[neal]

Hey I've not contacted her I was about to sort my self out she didn't even have the courtesy to see how I was getting on then it was her birthday so I text her she didn't even bother texting me back she o think she hates she has gone complete silent the last thing she sed was the lil bit that she did care has gone now to and she is not Intrested I don't know way to do please help I know silence says alot but I feel like she's jus gone so mean mean and cold I've gone on the path of self development but she hassernt even reached out eat should I do please help

[TheLuckyever]

I am very sad. I just am very down:/ please help me.... I am lost

[dikshadudeja]

i was in living relationship for one year. we just broke up in last few days .
but we still live together.
M not emotional
but i should live with him?
bcoz we bought vehicles together and home also together,
and i want him back
but bcoz of some personal issues of study, he cant come back
can u give me any strategy to have my ex back

[ShondaD_]

So if I think that it might be good for me to move out because we hardly talk, do I sit down and talk to him about his thoughts of me moving out??

[daisylea]

My fiancé and I just bought a house but have now broken up, I instantly feel more positive as ex’s and happier, like I should have been in the relationship, we’re living together still but don’t see much of eachother, I’d like him back but just because I’m happier it doesn’t mean he’s changed and that was the problem, any advice?

[Noble]

Hi I need advice
Me and my ex we're together for 2 years and we broke up after a big fight and her parents were involved in the break up we have been separated for a little over a month and within a week of the separation she moved another man in with her and is claiming he is the love of her life and she always loved him and that I was nothing but a placeholder

[micheledoddkelton]

Alex my boyfriends ex girlfriend moved into his moms house after they broke up they tried to patch the relationship up but couldn’t she doesn’t want to let him go even though he has went no contact with her and made us official his mom doesn’t want to hurt her feelings because they have 10 years of history now the family is not able to meet or visit at his moms house because she is there his mom comes over without telling her where she is going last night we went out for family dinner but it was behind her back I want to grow my relationship with my boyfriends mother how do we all approach this situation

[corabrockington]

What happens when he wants you back but trust was an issue however he wants to stay by himself in his own place

[realsporttv]

I was living with my girlfriend in her house.she gets angry over every little details and of recent she is asking me to find my way out that she is no longer interested in the relationship.she is asking me to stay as long as I wish take my time to sort myself out for a new place that she isn't in a haste for me to live.what should I do ? Should I move out immediately and let her miss me or remain in her place to see if we can talk and turns things around for good.because this is not the first time she is asking me out.she always feeling insecure that I will hurt her.