Jordan Peterson - BREAK UP with YOUR PARTNER when they DO THIS

As much as you want to help out your partner be the best version of themselves, there will always be some that will just keep trying to drag you down to where they are at. To this Dr. Peterson believes is the perfect time you should let them go because you are only fighting a lost cause.

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[PalestineLivesOn]

You can never pull people up to better themselves if they don't want to. But they can definitely pull you down if you stay trying.

[stacym]

One of the most thought provoking things I’ve learned recently is that most of us aren’t with the right person because we never took the time to work on ourselves being the best we can be… you attract what you give off which is also what’s inside. If we heal and get to a happy healthy place then we will attract the person who can ultimately partner with us.

[melaninking]

“The purpose of life is to find a mode of being that is so meaningful that the fact that life is suffering is nolonger relevant.” Jordan Peterson

[coopfam]

“Stop associating with lying psychopaths and maybe you’ll be fulfilled and happier” 😢 that hit

[Craig.Fawley]

The Crazy thing is: there will be people in the comments section who are the narcissist, watching this video thinking the problem is with their partner, but really it is them.

[Lord_necromancer]

One of the best things that ever happened to me in my entire life was catching my now ex-wife going down on her professor in a Walmart parking lot. Yes, ruined my life. Took my money to pay for her college and did that to me? But in the years since, everything has been better. I'm better off financially, I'm in a better relationship, I'm happier, everything is better in my life because she is gone. Believe me when I say - being in a bad relationship is not better than being alone.

[elisabethseaton]

He's correct. I once heard a cruise ship comedian's "old maid" ventriloquist dummy say why she never married. "I'd rather go through life wanting something I didn't have than having something I didn't want!" Best advise I ever heard!

[boirampai]

One of the most painful lessons I’ve learned is how we make ourselves weak and ruin our lives by the people we let in our lives. Sometimes it’s the people we’ve kept, for whatever reasons when it would have been a lot more beneficial to walk. Painful as this may be part of growing also requires us to leave some relationships behind, it could be family; our partners and life long friends, thank you Dr Peterson.

[kassimalsultan]

Most important thing I’ve learned over time.. leave when you see the first red flag. They will keep popping up and the longer you stay the harder it becomes to leave.

[smc]

This is true of toxic friendships, family relationships, etc. Sometimes your only choice is to cut them out of your life. Walk away, and never look back. Take care of yourself because no one else will.

[azzystyle]

Facts. I hit bottom with the end of my last relationship last November.

Now I'm making more money, I lost 45 pounds, I'm happy and confident, and I'm so clear headed.

Hitting bottom was the greatest day of my life

[leahbrening]

"Stop thinking that you have the capacity to redeem somebody that is not after redemption." Very true. I spent 8 years knowing this truth in my heart and head, but still hoped that my actions towards a person I cared deeply for would be the exception. Big dose of humble pie. It wasn't, isn't and never will be. If that person see's the light one day, it will be because they wanted too. It hurts like heck to give so much of yourself to a person, but I can not blame anyone but myself.

[davefordham]

Speaking as a divorcee I can definitely identify with a lot of the things said in this video. But I knew like the back of my hand that if we ever did separate that I would never go back into another relationship and so it was and here I am 11 years later. But the signs were definitely there quite early on and yes it is the little things. The disapproving look, the putting down, the reluctance to do things together, the acts that deliberately annoy or irritate, the long silent treatments, being made to feel you're inadequate, other people's sides taken against you and on and on. Individually, those things don't actually amount to much but you can expect a subset to be always present and quite frequently, when things are really bad, they all rise together with differing degrees. But you say to yourself things like - what about the children, can you afford to leave, think of all the people you have to explain it to, think of all those places that you only go as couples, what if you don't find anyone else and if you do will the children like this person? The envisaged pain of the absence of someone beside you deters you from taking the leap. But there comes a point, and strangely you know it's coming, when you estimate that the pain of staying together now far outweighs the pain and consequences of separation and it could take many years before you come to that realisation.

Marriage or any kind of relationship is a gamble. You may do your utmost to secure its survival but there comes a point when you're simply flogging a dead horse. Why is it a gamble? Because you keep depositing new funds just to keep going the dream that it will come right in the end. You embark on a new baby, or a new house, or an expensive holiday or some costly gesture that you think might change things. But whilst things of that kind might on the surface improve the liaison a little, it is almost certainly short lived. You haven't solved anything. All you've done is alleviated for a short while the constant pain in the background which returns quite often with a vengeance. Such partnerships that I describe are basically doomed from the beginning and the best advice from my perspective is probably to leave the casino as soon as you can. There is no happy ending when these things are in place.

Partnerships or marriages that last and withstand the test of time are ones where you feel inside, almost spiritually, that you are loved unconditionally and you reciprocate with equal measure, intensity and meaning. Those relationships are rare but if you find yourself in one, count your lucky stars. I would estimate that they probably make up only about 20% of all couples. It's the way the world is - most of us never actually find our true soulmate.

[alexrcanez]

I agree. Sometimes people that do not want to work on themselves are really difficult to spend the life with. As I divorced out of infidelity, I learned that I should have put clear limits and understand that love is not putting up with a person's unwillingness to work together. Thus, as a priest told me, "you will thank God for delivering you from such a harmful relationship where you were the only one rowing...".

But it hurts... really does.

[harleydee]

You can only hope to have a partner that has worked on themselves as much as you have on yourself

[joewilkerson]

I just lost the love of my life after 11 and a half years together. I was so lucky to have her in my life for the short time I had her. I don't think I will ever be that lucky again. I will forever miss and love my Amanda Nicole Wilkerson.

[one]

This was me!! Married to ex wife for years! Got out on my own, and learned all of these things he's saying! I'm realizing how good life actually myself!!

[Giuliana-zxgd]

“Maybe you should stop associating with lying psychopaths…”
Yes, Mr. Peterson, I do. Thank you for your bluntness offered with truth and wisdom.

[elizabethy]

" You are trying to redeem someone who is not redeemable". This phrase is just what I needed to hear. I tried for years, BUT, I DID learn. Suffering has a purpose!

[lugan]

I dumped a girl whom did these:
Told me to shut up in front on her friends. The only way to get along well with them
Told me to shut up with their family, same reason.
(I am not that dumb, I am a 36 year Mexican physician, fluent in three languages)
Told her I give out an amount of money to my mother every month. She replied - well once we live together that’s going to change.
Made her male friend to tell me out of the blue -give her The Ring.
Demanded me to pay absolutely everything to the dime and nickel.
Constantly complained about me getting up in the morning at 5-6 am every day. (I am a bloo#y physician, i have patients to asses. Moreover I have businesses in the US and in Mexico).
I love dancing, she told me to stop dancing.
Anyway, I couldn’t talk her out that evil comments. So I dumped; for 6 months she insisted She wanted to return with me despite me being allegedly a macho and misogynistic man.
Jajaja she can go out of my life. Now I sleep like a child in his moms arms :)