Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out | Matthew Hussey

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This week’s video will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.

I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.

I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option.

Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot.

This is a video you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence.

P.S. I’d love to hear your comments on this video. What’s a “dark pairing” you’ve experienced that made life really difficult?

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[MiciousDawn]

One of the best quotes I’ve ever come across that I now live by is: “empathy without boundaries is self-destruction.”

[lkasjddasjlk]

Got chills when Matthew said when you get that quiet moment when you realize that "this is not what I want". I had that profound moment where my reality connected with my intuition. I had this moment right before I broke up with my boyfriend this year, where I realized "I do not deserve to be treated like this".

[TheRimbaldine]

"Compassion without standards is a receipe for masochism" - 👏👏👏

[tiffknox]

Incredibly Selfish + Really Charismatic is my fav dark pairing. Over and over again. I have to remind myself not to fall for someone’s potential.

[REG]

The hardest part is when you know what the right answer is but you still can’t find the strength to make the decision, because you’re so stuck on the happy moments and lovely qualities in this person. 😞💔😢
Lord help us all! 😩

[Kimbirlyjoy]

I call them “Heart vs. Head” issues. Your head knows, but your heart won’t let you follow through. Matthew is teaching me to listen to my head.

[emmabourgeaux]

Lacking of empathy + lacking of communication=inability to grow together nor make it work. The bell went on when you said « does it get easier? » thank you 🙏🏻

[Simplentertainments]

6:20 Q1 - Is their big flaw offset by a redeemable quality (that can neutralize that flaw)?
13:19 Q2 - Is it getting any easier?
16:25 Q3 - What decision do I feel drawn to in my wisest moment?

[senkaelezovich]

Don’t change who you are just because someone treated you badly, don’t let ugly in other kill the beauty in you

[tomdrummy]

When you question anything, that is your soul trying to guide you in the right direction. Everyone has a soul, but many can’t sit still and be quiet long enough to hear it.

[Boertje]

The hardest thing I’ve ever done in relationship was to leave a wonderful man whose life was going in a very different direction from mine. Not a bad direction, but a direction, trajectory, that we both realized was not compatible. We’ve stayed dear friends for over 40 years, and I thank God we did not try to “make it work”. It would have been very draining and frustrating. We have the benefit of wanting the best for each other and seeing that we’d never have been able, at a core level, to give each other what we needed and wanted in life. We had four amazing years together, and parted as friends, supporters, cheerleaders. My life was so enhanced from knowing him. Much love and health to you, V.💖🥰

[Mooncat]

Intuition is the best guide, and ‘doesn’t matter what anyone says if you don’t feel good in their company then move on ✨😊

[forisma]

6:16 1. Is their big flaw offset by a truly redeemable quality?
13:21 Is it getting easier?
16:14 What decision do I feel drawn to in my wisest moments?

[AlexZetoSings]

I had a partner who was conflict avoidant and overly sensitive. We couldn't have any sort of conversation about our relationships, or my needs, no matter how gently I presented something. Most of the time he would break up with me 😬. Learned a lot from that one.

[everleighxoxox]

“Empathy without boundaries is self-destruction.” The most impactful quote my inspiration, my mom, has ever shared with me. This realization was a crucial part of one of the most pivotal moments in my life thus far.

[christmasaddict]

I had a guy that was overly critical but also very hard to please and nothing I did was good enough. It was demoralising and soul destroying. Fortunately, I take the stance now that if I’m not enough for them, they should try to find somebody else rather than trying to change me into something I’m not. Ill be enough for the right people and I’m enough for me, that’s all that counts.

[mickeyspartan]

Once you seriously question if you should be with someone or not, there are already some problems, even if you don't want to acknowledge yet.

[raspberryswirl]

With my ex, it was anger, arrogance and a refusal to take responsibility. There was also hyperambition and lack of presence during the very little time we had together. Throw in some verbal and emotional abuse and an alcohol problem, and it was a ticking time bomb. So glad I got out.

[oceanscience]

I just want to say that because of your advice, you have just saved me from an abusive relationship, I hope you truly understand that what you do is not just changing lives, but saving lives. Thank you truly from the bottom of my heart 🙏🙏🙏

[SamarElatta]

I really appreciate how this video started, it’s easy to judge or be quick to say leave.

My parents were married for 40yrs until my dad passed away and I learned marriage takes work.

My takeaway from this video is if you have an awesome person, they’re not toxic but can grow in certain ways and you see the relationship improving. Stick with it and remember to keep doing your own work as well