The 5 Signs Your Relationship Is Over | Mel Robbins

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How do you “know” if someone is right for you?

The simplest answer: Only you can decide that.

In this video, I share the 5 signs your relationship is unhealthy, or at best, not going to last. Don’t see yourself in these? That’s great!

But if you do, know that even though heartbreak is painful, the pain of regret and time wasted can be worse. You are worthy of an awesome, supportive, and loving relationship, so get to work on loving yourself first. 🧡

Bonus Sign #6: If you saw the title of this video and had a gut reaction, lean into that. Listen to what your intuition is telling you and do the work to prioritize yourself.

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[janemmanueldeguzman]

"You deserve someone that brings out the best in you" - This hit me hard...

[dn]

A doctor once told me
*“Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. If a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does. Find yourself again and you will find happiness”*

[elvinagabriell]

4 out of 5 signs we had, we broke up 1 month ago, we had 5 year relationship. It still hurts so much but I have to be strong and I will get through this. I deserve someone who knows what he wants. I deserve better.

[angelajones]

Answered the question about my 15 year marriage. I dread when my husband comes home. We have nothing in common and I’m tired of pretending to like the things he enjoys just to keep the peace. I’m becoming more argumentative and standing up for myself more often.

[fredseymour]

The relationship might be over guys, but your life is just beginning!

[joemac]

Here’s the thing, you’re likely to feel one of these things in ANY relationship at one point or another. You can’t always trust your emotional state as truth, because feelings can change over time and sometimes it’s your perspective or things outside the relationship affecting how you feel

[Dr.Yassine-As]

Because you don't want to lose your lover, you stay in this toxic relationship but trust me you need someone who deserves you who loves you so much and understand you

[MrHydevsDrJekyll]

The best relationship is with yourself. That’s where it all starts

[jojopoeticstyle]

5 signs
1. You don’t feel like you are yourself
2. You’re consistently questioning how you should communicate ?
3. Not knowing where you stand
4. You’re starting to get annoyed
5. You’re questioning whether or not you have the same values

[opinionatorX]

For those who may be experiencing this means you most likely saw these things but found the one or two good things to hold onto. You most likely settled. It's time to let go.

[roseying]

My partner was cheating on me while we were leaving together for 2 years. Although there were so many some red flag, but she never stopped telling me how much she loved me and want to spend the rest of her life with me. So I kept on believing her lies and shoving the red flags. . Never knowing that she was having an affair with a guy that I know and they both kept it a secret. I got to find out when I open up to a very good business partner. How I have been noticing some red flags and he advised me on what to do and to find out for sure if she is being faithful. It was then that I realized that she was having an affair with this guy and they were secretly making future plans.. I was so heart broken by this but still grateful that I did the needful to actually find out. It is really such a painful thing how people plays with ones emotions.

[CherylMuir]

"Any relationship where you have to twist yourself into somebody that you're not in order to keep the peace, it only starts a war inside of you." ❤️

[PlastiCityOf]

This video hits hard. I feel every point. Now it’s just about being brave enough to end things.

[luthfimuhammad]

I'm at a rocky point at my relationship, and yet not a single one of those points apply, not one bit. Thank you for that, it makes me more determined to save it.

[kingab]

All accurate. I just got out of an unhealthy, long term relationship. I realized that I could no longer be myself around that person. I was walking on eggshells to keep peace . It was hard to make the decision because after being in a relationship for over 2 years and making plans for the future, there was a sense of huge loss ... loss of dreams that never came to fruition . And as most relationships that last for long, there is an attachment. I think I knew sooner that it's not going to work but I was too attached and too invested. Love truly is blind. It sometimes takes time to see the red flags even when they're waiving in your face.

[vova_rn]

Absolutely love it!
My wife and I were married for more than 14 years and most of the time it was difficult and stressful!
I am a 56 year old man and I was physically abused and assaulted by my wife more than 3 times…
Verbal abuse was like walking in the park…most of it in front of our daughter.
My wife assaulted my daughter when she was 6 and a half years old.
I was waiting for my daughter to be older and now she is 14 and I started working on divorce!
Yes, I am not super healthy but even if I have a few good years to live without stress and drama, I will take a chance 😊

[KingKull]

Comfort is the only issue when it comes to relationships. If you are uncomfortable then the relationship is over, or it never really started in the first place. The bottom-line is this; your relationship with your partner should feel like home.

[Tina-sigz]

I’ve been married 46 years and this is exactly how I’ve felt at least 40 of those years. Past annoyed.

[dollyme]

This was exactly my sentiment before and told myself "If you don't know where you stand, then YOU already KNOW where you stand".

[abijahjames]

People cheat because they want something they can’t have. Doesn’t matter what their partner is like. They can be stunning inside and out. People get bored and then want to partake in something inappropriate to get a thrill by chasing someone else they know they shouldn’t. It’s like people who save up to buy a new car, are happy for a day, and then want to buy a new house. There will always be something more. There will always be something better. If you’re that kind of person, don’t be in a relationship. It’s super easy to not be in a relationship. It’s 2021. Screw a different person every day. It doesn’t matter. But don’t tell someone you love them and then chase after someone else. If you’re not happy, leave. That’s it. I really want to and thanks to *discreet phase resolution* for the phone evidence