Why Your Avoidant Partner Gives Up

Why the avoidant partner gives up. In this video Coach Craig Kenneth shares information on why avoidant partners often give up and leave relationships.

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[roxb]

Success story here. 🙋‍♀ I saw my ex. after 2 years of no contact. I have been working on myself, with your courses and therapy. Once I saw him, I felt nothing. We talked but I was shocked that my feelings were gone. With the course, I knew he was not a good match for me and that chapter is closed. Thank you for everything you do, Coach. I kept my story short here. keep up the good work coach.

[skoopiecheckecheaks]

As an extreme avoidant myself, I just want to say, that it is childish and immature to blame everybody but yourself. This behavior is unacceptable no matter who you are.

I agree with coach here, that this guy is living in his own delusional bubble.

[DonaldMeyers-vc]

Sarcastic Craig is my favorite Craig. You can tell he did stand-up

[EthelHill-hd]

Amazing Video, I just cant believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. Ive tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him Im frustrated I dont see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I dont know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him

[ericacatherineleins]

I love the way coach Greg analyses relationships with a little humor.You can’t pull a fast one on this coach! Great clip!

[capet]

Yep. He said it’s not working. He said has too much risk, is scared, what ifs…said we see things differently. Exactly as coach Craig is saying here.

[KingRagnar-asad]

Coach Greg your videos and energy are amazing! I broke up with my DA ex 7 weeks ago (dated 5 months but we were an official couple only for 2 weeks). She took full responsibility of her actions, said she lost attraction and can't do the relationship rn but left the door open for a future return! She's been radio silent since (probably monkey).
Been in NC since the break up and was thinking of reaching out next week as some DA coaches reckon you can reach out to a DA after 2 months as they're afraid of rejection and prefer of moving on rather than reaching out.
After this video I won't and thanks to all 3 of you for this amazing content and support!
God bless you 🙏🏻

[justinemail]

My ex said we were too different. I then had a flashback of when she broke up with her ex before me, she said they were at different places in the their lives. Around our break up she thought we were moving too fast (almost 2 years) I then found out that she ACTUALLY broke up with her ex because they were moving too fast... they were together for 4 years. The saga continues...

[robbiewdrumm]

Yep… “differences!” No counseling, low self esteem, my fault, etc etc. That was/is my ex wife of a year and a half. I’m in no contact for a few months now and doing well.

[ShawnG-kvxm]

This was very informative and insightful. Thanks Craig for sharing. The email coaching is very immersive for us listeners who watch your channel. I’ve encountered this type of avoidant personality style before with someone who I’ve had to be in no contact with for almost 13 years. It was the only way to dodge the bullet. I’m thankful for not having broken it. Obviously this person never came back which was rather telling. No matter. The repair was far beyond gone and enough of the blame shifting and differences story were already laid out like a clean set of sheets after our initial breakup. The path of moving on was oh so obvious. Just a bit of personal reflection as this particular segment triggered some past experiences and memories. Thought I’d share a different perspective on how I handled it.

[ClaytonColey-zi]

Odds are that he didn’t really find someone. He’s trying to make her jealous.

[DeeDee-kyvy]

I love it when craig gives that reaction face, craig knows whats about to happen :Ddd

[pdubs]

Dont know if this is an avoidant saying, but i heard "i have to work on myself because around you its always cloud 9" while being thrown away.

[dmitryisaev]

This story was a brutal experience. This guy is really something. My avoidant ex ditched me when I reached out to her after she broke up with me. I was clueless about no contact and attachment styles and did it my way for 3 months, not reaching out and ignoring breadcrumbs like her asking somebody to call me to nudge me to reach out first. We celebrated X–mas separately that year. Then I reached out and dog and pony show started. She avoided romantic dates, didn’t initiate anything and finally cancelled our upcoming date. And then sent me a short video from a concert, making it look that somebody invited her. Then I noticed that it was „resent“, so she just sent me someone‘s video to make me jealous and hurt… So, I stopped contacting and have been in no contact for 1, 7 years. I am pretty sure that the show is over… When they start doing their show it is hurtful unless you are strong and secure…

[HeinrichAbrahams-wxlt]

Avoidants never take accountability they always blame the partner for everything

[CecilScaleModels]

Friends with your ex? Once a cucumber is a pickle, it can’t be a cucumber again.

[rubenrodriguez]

My ex told me that "we have different values" and that there's going to be a "divergence" in our future."

[debralavorata]

What a great and needed video!! Mine is a super avoidant.His mom just recently passed, and he told me he was just getting to know his mom for the last eight years because he was in foster care for years.He has five siblings, but I don't know if he was the only one in the system, but I have a feeling he was, but he won't open up about it or other things.Currently I asked him what he's going to for his birthday and what he'd like as a gift, got no answer....0. He's totally incognito, I don't know what to do

[KingRagnar-asad]

Coach Craig your videos and energy are amazing! I broke up with my DA ex 7 weeks ago (dated 5 months but we were an official couple only for 2 weeks). She took full responsibility of her actions, said she lost attraction and can't do the relationship rn but left the door open for a future return! She's been radio silent since (probably monkey branching ). I'm inclined on giving her a 2nd chance but she has to show me she's worked on herself like I am currently doing.
Been in NC since the break up and was thinking of reaching out next week as some DA coaches reckon you can reach out to a DA after 2 months as they're afraid of rejection and prefer of moving on rather than reaching out.
After this video I won't and thanks to all 3 of you for this amazing content and support!
God bless you 🙏🏻

[capet]

He said therapy doesn’t help. I am responsible for his reactions.