12 Early Signs A Relationship Won't Last

Are you looking for the red flags and signs a relationship isn't working? A rocky start to a relationship doesn’t necessarily equate to a miserable one. After all, conflicts and misunderstandings are bound to arise in any relationship. However, a lot of the problems you’ll be dealing with later on usually occur in the beginning. Are you currently dating someone? Are you looking for red flags? If so, watch this video. Share it with someone who might need it.

Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Denise Ding
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animation: Grace Cárdenas Cano
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

[tooba]

I feel like if you watch this, you definitely care about your relationship.

[vaishnavijaiswal]

Not me getting ready to overthink my non existent relationship🤡

[evajuliazuhdy]

0:55 1. Your relationship is solely about the romantic pull
1:29 2. You don't like their friends
1:57 3. You spend too much time together
2:24 4. Your relationship feels one-sided
2:48 5. You feel controlled
3:18 6. You can't be yourself around them
3:51 7. You don''t feel accepted
4:26 8. You fight all the time
4:49 9. You don't trust each other
5:37 10. They're regularly mean to other people
6:07 11. They're passive aggressive
6:41 12. The timing isn't right

hope this helped

[Zman]

I watched this about 2 months into my last relationship and went “oh thank god I don’t have any of these signs.” Came back again 7 months after that relationship ended. The signs just hadn’t surfaced yet since they were still in the lovebombing phase. This video is 100% correct 🤷

[rubiefultonn]

the fact that my girfriend literally broke up with me over text while i was in the middle of watching this video 💀💀💀

[LandoBando-pjox]

No hate but, dont break up with someone just because of this video

[jeffreyma]

In the case of my wife and I, we fought quite often early in our relationship. To the point where she didn’t think we were going to make it. One important factor was the way we resolved those fights. Through mature communication and the willingness to try and adapt we’ve been able to learn how to co-exist better. I believe being able to resolve fights is one of the keys as you’re bound to get into them eventually.

[natashamasha]

I used to be passive aggressive in my LDR. Honestly he had every right to leave because I was making our relationship difficult so instead he stayed and helped me uncover the root of the problem. We are going still dating and about to reach a 3 year mark. It's not perfect but worth making it work😊

[smolphroggie]

When your boyfriend is a red flag but you're colourblind 💀

[NidusFormicarum]

Bad comunication and not being able to resolve conflicts and collisions is what ends relationships for me.

[carsonosulli]

Is there ever really a perfect time for a relationship though? I feel like if two people who are very goal driven end up falling for each other, then they’ll never really feel like it’s the perfect time fit a relationship

[violettzzzz]

me: is in a healthy and loving relationship

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[asahi]

"You spend too much time together"


Couples living together during quarantine: ...

[quantaviousdingleton]

Im in a recent relationship with my crush and she always treated me like I’m worth something great. Everyone at my school treat us like we’re worth nothing.We always encouraged and cheered each other up when we were feeling blue. Talking to her and hanging out with her brings happiness into both of our lives. I honestly don’t want to be with any other girl but her. And watching these videos made me realize that this relationship is going to be really strong. We are both going to the ninth grade and I now know that we will still be together through high school. 😊

[geo.-.]

this video validated my feelings on my relationship, it feels so good to be in a healthy relationship, and know that our small disagreements are ok, as long as we talk them out :)

[LogicPsycho]

“Some people will leave you soon no matter how, but it's not the ending of your story, it's just the ending of their role in your story. cause life goes on"

[KyHundley]

It is important to maintain your identity in any and all relationships...

[architectofdreams]

1. Watching videos or listening to people put ideas into your head about why your relationship wont last. 2. These thoughts convince you they are real. 3. Convinced it will happen, you self-fulfill these prophecies. 4. You sabotage yourself and your relationship unwittingly, but purposefully. 5. You end up being the reason the relationship doesn't last. 6. You feel vindicated in your earlier predictions. 7. You are convinced these videos and/or other people must be right since what was said came true. 8. You carry this out with every relationship you attempt regardless of any potentially different outcomes. 9. You share this so-called wisdom with your friends and family. 10. The toxicity of this mindset continues to spread like an out-of-control virus, therefor avoiding the real issue, which is yourself.

[dinab]

What an extremely soothing voice! One of the most soothing voices on YouTube. The person speaking in your videos + the cartoons make your videos so soothing to watch. Thank you

[anjalimane]

Not everything we lose is a loss. Sometimes, you're relieved free from the pain of holding on to the ones who aren't meant to be in our life.