Can A Relationship Work After Several Breakups?

On Again/Off Again Relationship Findings:

- Easiest to win back
- Hardest to keep alive

Why Is It So Difficult?

- Same problems are present
- Only one party wants to fix them
- Becoming a secure attachment style isn't an overnight fix

How To Ensure Your Relationship Can Survive:

- Tactical empathy
- Five Kind Acts For Every One Unkind One
- Tap Into Your Partners Love Language

[adamoart]

Mines did, but the downside to that is the more it happens the more toxic the relationship becomes. If the core issues aren't being addressed and worked on, you'll find yourself in an on again off again relationship

[j.p.]

You know what? I can do all of these tactics, and he'll be happy with me, but in the end my needs will not be met and he'll just do whateva he always does... It is a 2 way street... I've been in a 5 year relationship and we broke up 20 days ago for the 3rd time. Every break up makes me work on myself and change, but he comes back the same. That's why there will not be 'together forever'.

[sonjalalelu]

On's and Off's mostly mean that both are not compatible, also when the chemistry is awesome.

[sell]

Always give someone a second chance but never a third...

Life is too short for unhealthy and painful on again off again relationships!

[mercurymajesty]

damn....i'm the initiator of this stupid cycle... didn't realize it came from a place of chasing but i have been more aware of my incessant need for intensity in relationships and inability to cope with coupled boredom.... so it's better if i stay out of relationships until i learn what i want and how to settle..

[sscbls]

My ex left me of 6 months the dynamic was amazing the communication amazing or so I thought, the chemistry and the sex was amazing, but her ex boyfriend of 7 years returned, he found about me still took her back she dumped me and the next day she was with him, a week later they are engaged story of my life

[biankafucskodancefitness]

When he Breaks up saying our relationship on the surface is amazing.... but the work is too much LOL

[mzfernwood]

First time 12 months ago… chased each other for 6 months back together 4 months… I pulled away this time as I knew he was… no contact again…. We are both FA attachment style, might actually be the reason we are so dysfunctional 🤷🏼‍♀️

[tianna]

Wow, thank you so much. I’ve been waiting for this!! Im in your facebook group and i’ve been posting a lot about this.

Thank

[georgieswlrd]

If u ask me nah but then again I don’t give 2nd chances so yea

[lunaleiwhite]

What if you like all those love languages? : P Receiving as much as giving

[ivydune]

My ex hates me and I don’t think he ever liked me that much. I was just sex

[Khalil.battat]

Hey Chris
I got a difficult situation here, my gf broke up with me for the third time in a year
She broke up with me and block me right after the break up, but before the break up happened she was telling me that she’s so sorry for breaking up with me two times and she feel sorry that she was toxic and she was overwhelmed and then 30 minutes later she told me that I’m her angel and I did everything for her and I did a lot for her and then she msg me breaking up with me and saying leaving me for good with no return this time and block me on everything single thing
And I really treated her very well and out of the blue every time she break up with me and it seems like she’s an avoidant and I’m so tired of this cycle and I told her last time when we got back together communication is the key and it seems like nothing changes
I’m in no contact now but I don’t know are she gonna come back? Or time to move on?

[jackjames]

Should I take her back if she was cheating?