7 Signs Your Relationship Is Ending

Are you thinking of ending the relationship? Or are you contemplating whether your relationship is actually working out or not? A relationship involves two individuals who love, support, and care about each other. However, it’s not always going to be easy to maintain a relationship.
In today’s video, let’s take a look at signs your relationship is ending.

Researcher & Writer: Ananya Sawarkar
Script Editor: Denise
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Ira Alifia
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

What's the first sign you notice when your relationship is ending?

[UnbekannterZivilist]

This popped up an hour after my breakup 🙂

[anastasiapedersen]

The worst breakups are the ones you don’t even see coming </3

[linaelwood]

1. 0:41 No one can agree what the problem is
2. 1:12 You would rather spend time anywhere else but with them
3. 1:47 You’re getting ‘cold feet’ about the future
4. 2:19 You’re both firmly growing in different directions
5. 2:58 You only see their flaws
6. 3:42 The prospect of another partner seems more appealing
7. 4:15 Your arguments are escalating

Hope this helps ❤

[Gungumstyl]

1. What IS the problem? No one can agree
2. You would rather spend time anywhere else but with them
3. You're getting serious cold feel about the future
4. You're both family growing in different directions
5. You see only their flaws
6. The prospect of another partner seems more appealing
7. Your arguments are escalating

[dg]

I broke up with my girlfriend earlier 2022. I am still pretty depressed about it tbh. I really loved her. We did so much together only for it to end so hideously. It was quite devastating. I look back and I just feel guilty for not being better for her. It is still hard to move on but there's no other way than forward I guess. We don't talk much anymore. And honestly I don't mind being single. I don't have to worry about that emotional crap. But now I feel like I will never find anyone because of my personality. I am just bad at character. It sucks.

[xitogun]

We constantly get this idea with modern mental health about knowing when things are ending, cutting things off, walking away, or Nipping the bud. But I feel like we don't get enough information about knowing when to fight (work on) for love/relationships/marriages. So many people on social media talk about being lonely but I think it's because we've gotten used to communicating online so much and learning to constantly let things and people go. Maybe it's time to turn against the norm and we learn to figure out how to keep meaningful people and relationships in our lives.

[The_Viscount]

The best relationship I've ever had is also one that my logical mind knows became untenable and unhealthy by the end. That said, when a person is lonely on a Friday night, it is easy to see a past relationship through rose tinted glasses. On the flip side, when things are going poorly, it can be easy to ruminate on what is wrong until you convince yourself it is unsalvageable. It's important to take a step back and ask yourself if you are getting swept away by emotions one way or another. This isn't always easy to do, but it is a skill, and one can improve skills through practice. Mindfulness helps with many things.

[richardgroves]

The fact that people often do grow apart has lead me to the conclusion that it's a mistake to make a lifetime commitment to anyone in the first place. You're not hitching yourself to a fixed quantity and you may end up twenty years later tied to someone you would never dream of committing to.

[shelby]

Oof this one hit deep. My husband and I have been married for 5+ years, together for over 11 years. We lost our fur baby in September and I have not been handling it well, she was the only one who comforted me through our difficult marriage. And this past Wednesday before thanksgiving, he told me he believes it’s over and we need to separate. The hardest part is when one person is done, it doesn’t matter how you really feel anymore- I didn’t want a divorce, I wanted counseling and I wanted to work harder. He said no and refused counseling. Best part of my life right now? We’re broke so currently living with my in-laws and their multiple family members in one tiny home. I can’t afford to leave yet so may have to take out another personal loan before I’m on the street. It’s heartbreaking after giving someone your entire 20s, it feels like your youth was wasted

[MonkyDollqueen]

We become what we think about. Energy flows where attention goes

[SARIYASHEIKH]

This precisely described my walking out and ending a long term abusive relationship with my partner. I'm at peace now and started healing. Lately been focusing on myself and healing ❤

[gnarthdarkanen]

Resentment and Contempt are the big alarm bells, where the writing is in bold-print on the walls... It doesn't get mentioned too much, but around the time relationships turn toxic between otherwise decent or even good people, there's usually an incident or two where they just started rearing up as issues...

AND that's DEFINITELY when one should consider "getting space in the relationship" at the least, and probably leaning toward breaking up altogether. You can't have Love for someone you find contemptible. ;o)

[marri]

I broke up with my boyfriend 1 month ago and while watching this video I realised that all the signs were there.

I feel much better and happier now 😁 please don't stay in a relationship just because you feel like you have to for the other person, your happyness is important too ❤

[TheAncientTale]

I’m not in a relationship, but I feel like this is pretty important information I should have for when I do if I ever get into one.

[rycrez]

i really needed to hear that last part of nothing good comes east and to give it more time thank you

[Elli_Hamato_Todoroki]

This video was uploaded the same day I broke up from an emotionally draining relationship, the break-up made me cry and seeing this video on my recommended got me close to crying again since I’m not yet totally over them

[williamfrieden]

Greet video, not in a relationship, but good work as always!

[kokichisscarf]

I love how this got recommended to me just as I was thinking abt my current relationship eventually ending 🗿

[sunburstshredder]

One important caveat: just because you identify with all of these doesn't mean that your relationship is doomed. It may be possible to salvage things by talking it out, whether it's between you and your partner or with a counselor, or by taking a break. That said, don't force yourself to keep things going if your gut feeling is that it's not going to last.