End the Relationship if They're Not Willing to Grow | #shorts #complextrauma #narcissism

If you've realized that someone is unwilling to change, it is up to you to end the relationship for your own well-being. You need to ask yourself why you haven't left. It is up to you to make the healthy choice and up to you to question why you haven't left yet.

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[yellowdayz]

There are multiple reasons victims of abuse do not leave.. May the Lord help those who haven't left yet. It is hell on earth.

[piotrmarcisz]

Trauma bond, children, financial issues, exquastion energetically and in nervous system, not thinking straight, health issue, dread about reaction on your walking away etc.

[bernicemorrissey]

This statement is true to a point...it takes a long time to really recognize that the victim is married to an evil person given how manipulative narcissists are in abusing others.

[franciscocardenas]

"Why are you not willing to end it?" Probly because the narcissist has the person so confused, and they and they don't even realize it, that's why.

[SpiritedAngel-sk]

I have to agree with your message..
Many people comment on money, age, fear of abandonment, fear of the aftermath... These are all probably created by the narcissist....So true what makes you stay in a toxic energy 🤔

[magnellah]

What I find with narcissists is the inconsistency. It’s not always bad, and they can quickly alter their behaviour to win back your favour. For people with CPTSD who want to believe the best in people, this can persuade them into giving them chance after chance

[Siya_]

Don't have money to move out! Money is the problem and it sucks

[sas]

That’s usually an abandonment issue….fear of abandonment

[fionam]

I came to the conclusion that I was addicted to the narcissist and like all addictions it’s difficult to change

[debg]

I'm gone! 2.5 yrs....He didn't even think he had a problem! Left with nothing... stuff ... brought dignity and self respect with me! 🎉❤

[clarkkent]

The fear of abandonment causes many to continue enabling instead of helping

[danetteperez]

Not willing to give up . Fear of another failure in life.

[psjk]

Being addicted to HELPING might be the reason. Not having learned to live your own life and have interest in your own life, but instead feeling a right to exist by being the HELPER.

[PrettyMamaPatchwork]

Yes I had to take control of My life. We teach people how to treat us.

[youareprecious]

Awareness of my vulnerability, feelings of inadequacy, fear that no one will love me because I'm broken

[daisymay]

Can't leave..too old also, lack of physjcal strength and mobility.

[shirleysiegrist]

My therapist asked me to consider this question, “ Why do you continue go to where you are hurt? “ regarding my covert, narcissistic mother.( she also believes it’s possible my covert narcissistic mother is a sociopathic narcissist.) some people get a secret enjoyment out of hurting others. My initial answer was guilt. That is always how she manipulated me. I’m trying to move past that guilt and protect myself. It’s very difficult, especially at my age. It has taken me all of my life to recognize this and break free.

[TheDaragh]

Right on. I am afraid of losing my In-laws, not knowing if the pets we shared that are with him are being neglected....

[RR-pnkf]

Once I took accountability for my actions & the victim mentality after I left my narc bf my life began to change for the better!!!
I didn’t realize I had become toxic as well!
Hard to face but w God’s grace it helped me overcome!! 💝

[TawnyaHodson]

Took me too many years to understand this and even though there’s a lot of grief I’m so glad I went no contact. It makes holidays alone really difficult, but the alternative is way worse!