'If you feel resentment in a relationship...' | Jordan Peterson #shorts #relationships

Jordan Peterson explains what it means when you feel resentment in a relationship with someones. He also provides relationship tips on how to overcome this resentment and enter into negotiation with your partner. #relationshipissues #relationshipadvice #jordanpetersonadvice

⚪️ ⚪️ ⚪️ This short is extracted from Jordan B. Peterson Q&A 5-22-2021. #shorts

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[smegmawolf]

when you’re being oppressed and have something to say but the resentment comes from them never listening to what you have to say

[chanmonymiller]

I like that last line, the goal is to find a solution better than what either you could have separately.

[ddee]

When honesty goes out the door... so do I.

[lesleysears]

Love ya Jordan! ❤❤❤❤ The world is a better place with you in it 😊🎉

[BottleofDreamswastaken]

Sometimes the issue may be in your head and it's worth fighting for.

[OKAYOKAY]

There is no negotiation when it comes to adultery.

[GiveWithLove]

Emotional intelligence is extremely important, and when they lack that and to work with you with the desire to truly fight for the relationship your only option is to say goodbye.

[zerykiz]

You'll know which one you are after talking to your partner/spouce.. Good chance is you'll end up separate regardless. Resentment is contempt, contempt is like rust.. If you you let it work on things for too long there won't be enough material left to make it work. Be brave, ask early, try long.. But in the end leave before you lose your mental health. Life isn't about happiness, but survival.

[kate]

Wise words....never heard it put this way!

[monamonet]

We both should get something better together then we had separate

[Intuited.]

I felt the resentment creeping in again today, and then I had the idea during our argument, to repeat positive affirmations and visualise a positive outcome for the both of us inside my mind without him knowing. The resentment faded away. "I am in Harmonious Separation with Because we both deserve to be Happy Free and Loved. We both share Harmonious custody of our daughters. No matter what...there is no other option" I've been wanting to separate from him for a while now, but he keeps "insisting" that we must stay together.

[bilstein]

Or, you put a lot of effort into the friendship and they do nothing back in return. That's what started my resentment.

[jojomasipa]

I am full of resentment after 30 years of marraige. I feel miss used (NOT ABUSES) and I hablve NO joy. My husband gets quiet fits and dont display emotion or discuss ANYTHING. He gets angry when confronted and will stop talkkng to me for weeks. I am just done. All the suggestions sound so easy to do, but I am just so over this

[Adragos]

I feel resentment in my relationship because I have tried to communicate my needs but it goes unresponsive and in full of deep regret for marrying the woman I did and feel it was one of the most foolish things I could have ever done. It's completely unsatisfying

[chantakchantal]

I resented being ignored and to see our relationship was always last on the list and of course after giving so much I pulled the plug. Enough is enough, the immature other party always turned everything into an argument to avoid talking quietly.

[victoryamartin]

I have resentment under both conditions. I am being financially taken advantage of by 2 oppressive, stonewalling Narcissists, so I can't resolve anything by discussion; I've tried and only got screamed at for not appreciating them. I also am horribly traumatized and stressed out about not being able to get them to leave my house, so I'm trying to discover how I might make peace with a situation I cannot change and develop endurance and love for people who cannot love me.

[annalyssabird]

Luckily, we've learned this lesson, and come out the other side much stronger, always worth a discussion 😊

[revelationishereeverhart]

I've seen it happen like this, where the relationship had "both" dynamics of what Jordan described!

[GundamReviver]

In my case, the best thing to do was abort mission. I was better off alone then with my crazy ex. The I later found a wonderful girl thst did indeed make my life better. So good luck to me I guess?

[ivyluray]

Crazy to use the word immature, from my perspective. When you consider that someone might not be willing to do those things due to repeated mistreatment. And also I think any resentment at all is a sign to leave. I don’t resent any of my friends, and if I did they wouldn’t be my friends… hopefully y’all my point. Relationships should make you happy… and if they don’t, then make yourself happy, and then maybe you can be happy in relationships too