Narcissist may try to control people be keeping their belongings or by leaving things at their homes

Narcissist may try to control people be keeping their belongings or by leaving things at their homes

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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[aliciaayala]

I'm dealing with this now. He won't give me my valuables. But won't have a convo with me. Lolol I just want my things

[razbearymoon]

That's why they love having kids, because what better way is there to stay connected in their eyes? Smh

[dkorb]

I always found it strange that she said she never wanted to leave too many things at my place because then she would never get them back— turns out I left too many things at her place. I never got them back. Asked for them months later— was then accused of harassing her for asking for my stuff back. It’s ridiculous the games they will play. Narcs thrive in the court system— let the stuff go it isn’t worth it. They do it for control

[NellyBellz]

I always tell them to throw my stuff out. Throws them off guard.

[viciouscircle]

Tell them youre picking up your stuff in person or that they can get their stuff in person but have someone with you that they are used to keeping a facade with. That way they are forced to act more appropriately and are caught off guard when youre not alone.

[SutanaMonae]

Wow, trippy. I’m literally going through this right now. I got the clarity I need

[BROOKBANKS]

I held stuff for a year I gave more then enough time. Had to tell him my house is not a storage or rest stop. The Narc said throw it away several times. Then I donated the stuff to good will. Now he hit me asking for the stuff I told him kick rocks. I know I deserve better.... I feel at peace I have a new great job and my health is better.

[hellosunshine]

Broke up with him, he came back trying to act changed. Left his work clothes at my house, some hygiene stuff and took my key. He refuses to bring my key back. I finally threw the stuff out and got my locks changed smh

[vanessacline]

It took one time! The narc left things behind as a means to keep dropping by. I collected everything and dropped it to my father’s house. My dad called him and told to go there to get his stuff..Interestingly, he never went there….😂

[whittenj]

My ex-husband left a car on my lawn for 2 1/2 years claiming that he didn't have key or title but he did. Finally a person was willing to take it without a title. He even would tell his step brother he was going to give him the title and keys but never did. So he used the car to mess with me and his step brother who wanted the car. People of course didn't believe me that he did it on purpose but he did.

[SammiQPatriot]

They could also destroy whatever is either left behind or what they take of yours with them (without you knowing), in my case it was precious photo albums, high school yearbooks, some of my artwork, and other memorabilia from my childhood, and photo albums of our baby son, it was all neatly put away in one big box which was labeled. Pretty sick that he destroyed albums of pictures of his own son. He claimed 2 different things as to what supposedly happened to the box, it was “lost in the move” and another time said it “fell off the truck” in the move, but I know better, I found out he burned it all, pretty sick. And really sad because my son later asked in his young adulthood, why neither of us had hardly any baby pictures of him.. I still had a small “brag book” album that I used to carry on my person in my giant purse I had back then.. which is why they were safe still.. so I showed it to him and told him he could have it if he wanted to keep it. I didn’t fill him in as to why that’s all there were, but he didn’t know about the abuse his father put me through either.

[duck]

Just left him, he won’t give me the key to my house back!!😢 says I have to have a conversation first. It’s extremely annoying!! I don’t wanna talk to him. I already know how it’ll go. Ohh also he had one of his Amazon packages sent to my house 😮‍💨

[caroline]

When I went no contact, my ex narcissist friend came home saying she wanted to give me something back. She entered my home unauthorised and I had to call the police and report it!!!

[syndisings]

My ex narc earned himself a 2-year no contact order getting physically violent with me. Yes I kept forgiving him. I'ts been 1 year and all of his belongings are still here. It's a daily trigger for me.

[brittanyhunter]

Now I’m embarrassed, but I’ve done this to the narc in the past because I really didn’t want him to leave at the time…now, I’m no contact, but I have thought that I am the narc from time to time.

[kountry_bumpkin]

My ex did this and then after a couple months later said her and her new supply were coming with a uhaul to pick up her washer and dryer so I put it outside the garage…3 months later It’s still at my house so I’m using it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[r.w.]

Lol and that is why I'm now a single bunny dad 🐇🐇🐇 when my ex became homeless she couldn't take care of her pets and begged me to take just one of them for her for two weeks while she got her self together. Welp that was 6 months ago. She insists that since it's "her" bunny (who she cannot provide a home or food or care for) I must allow her to come to my home at any given time despite the peace bond we now have. But I love the 🐰 now he's my best bro.

[theSamJuan]

This makes a ton of sense. Thank you for making this video.

[Julie-qnrj]

Only material items, I'm not materialistic so I don't care I can easily live without the items, although I did like my hodrod t-shirt ☹️

[chaunaewoods]

Yea gal took my shit lol tv washer and dryer set and patio set & moved to another state! thank you for breaking this down!