What happens when the Narcissist Loses control over you?

In relationships with narcissistic people, sooner or later people begin to realise something's not quite right. They may set boundaries, go Grey Rock, no contact and so on. So what happens when a narcissistic person realises they are losing control over someone? In this video outlines some of the common behaviours including vindictiveness, trauma bonding and manipulation.

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[DarrenFMagee]

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[imbalancedstatus]

"Charming in Public, Abusive and Mean in Private"

[cynthiafortier]

When I called my sister out on her bahavior, she told me never to call her again. It's been a happy and peaceful year!!

[bevan]

The best thing you can do with a narcissist is get away from them completely.

[bettywindish]

Narcissist people never ever stop abusing you. After 55 years it's still the same. But I've changed. I have let go of this person. I don't hate her. But Iam now free. It's wonderful.

[forensicbadassprofiling]

When a narcissist can't control you, they control the way others see you.

[kirstyjarvis]

In my experience, when a control freak runs out of control. He/she will try and control how everyone else thinks about you!

[andrewcollins]

This guy knows what he is talking about. These kinds of people would rather see you die than to let you escape their grasp. I know personally.

[REXOB]

The closest I ever got to an apology was "If I did that, then I'm sorry". Qualifying it with the "if" means they don't accept responsibility for their actions.

[donnadaisy]

Life lesson: do NOT give these sick people any information of which they will attempt to use against you. Just don’t tell them anything about you. This has helped me tremendously.

[Littlelunasoul]

I love that quote - “they wet the bed and blame the blanket” - Perfect description!

[annefagrew]

Wow, this describes my ex 100%, started off being the perfect gentleman.... flowers, romantic gestures, etc.etc. then bit by bit, chipped away at every last bit of me... 25+ years always thinking try a little harder, perfect home, garden, cook... didn't like my friends, eventually one day I realised that if I was on my own, I could work a lot less & have peace... 21 years have passed & I've NEVER regretted 1 nano second

[kellyjackson]

God bless everybody everywhere, who is struggling you are important. God loves you cry out to him, give all your prayers and concerns to Christ. You deserve the best in life.

[michaeln]

I have found with a narcissist that the “apology” tends to be vague and they never really admit to anything specific. Meanwhile when they are complaining about your behaviours, you will get a very detailed list.

[mannywilde]

"They wet the bed, and blame the blanket."
Perfectly said!

[tina]

They tell lies on you and threaten you. Try to turn others against you

[patriciaharris]

I married a man that was 12 years older than me. I started noticing how he was very over protective. It was fine at first but I began to notice how it was getting extreme. If I did anything with anyone else besides him he was jealous so I had to keep reassuring him that he was first. Then he didn't want to be around my family. If he said he didn't want me to go, I wouldn't, . Than it was faking sick. He would go as far as not taking his insulin just to see me jump into action. If I lay it out for him he would purposely not take it when we would go to church. So I had to start beating him at his own game buy having his insulin in a thermal bag that looked like a purse. When it stopped working on me and I started calling him on his stunts he started thinking he could scare me because he had isolated me from my family. One thing he didn't count on was that I stopped being intimated. He would try everything, but he didn't remember that I had kids. I had plenty of practice so I could see the signs

[timmiller]

I have yet to hear a narcissist apologize. They must believe they are never wrong.

[beckyreynard]

“They wet the bed and blame the blanket” This expression really got me rolling on the floor.

[JetBossLauraSavino]

Common practice is to convince you that ‘everyone’ agrees with them - about whatever they are accusing you of.