Even when a narcissist moves on, they could still try to control you. New supply doesnt mean freedom

Even when a narcissist moves on, they could still try to control you. New supply doesnt mean freedom. Narcissistic people think they you belong to them and that they are entitled to you. So even if a narcissist or toxic person moves on, they could still try to control your life.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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[nancymessina]

Now that you are saying this about the ex, I remember in the very beginning of our relationship him saying she was crazy and made up all these stories about him when he professed to be the victim! Thank you for the insight…appreciate you

[TheLilypad]

He was juggling the two of us until I started wanting emotional support then all the sudden he had to dip out of the situation

[mikabasavel]

He said on the last date we had, after completely ruining the entire thing, “Go ahead, baby. No matter how far ahead you get, I’ll always catch up.”

[coachfeliciad]

Yep my ex said this while we were together. He said I'll always owe him and he will always have access and have me. I fell for it initially and thought it was cute. But now I'm irritated that he us that arrogant to think I'll always want him and be available to him. Nope not anymore.

[kappytina]

Thank you so much for all your work on this subject matter. You literally changed my life. Literally just ran into this full an hour ago. The first thing he asked me am I dating? The second thing he tells me how much he misses me then proceeds to tell me he would lose his mind if I were with anyone else. The same man that starting up with some chic he was "training". Then she became "just a friend". Then we were moving too fast (3 years). Now they're dating. I swear the text messages have not stopped about how much he misses me and will love me forever. Can he see me later? Hell no! I will never be reduced to a side chic....thanks for the conformation.

[vanessaschlund]

This is exactly what my now ex did to me, every single time he discarded me and then would tell everyone that I wouldn’t leave him alone 🤦🏻‍♀️ he would go out get drunk fight with his new supply and show up at my house all hours of the night. He literally even told me he owned me. This video is so accurate. Thank you for bringing awareness to this disorder ♥️

[aamandabeauty]

I’m currently struggleing with this situation with my ex narc and his “wife” aka new supply who isn’t really his wife but the new supply is crazy also and he actually has gone back and forth to this crazy for years on and off. The new supply blew me up the other day and I was just trying to communicate with him about our kid and how he missed our kids birthday and Easter! I need to email you Lee !

[eljoy]

I have an ex narc sleeping on my couch right now. Even as a self-invited houseguest, he broke my only rule (no alcohol), fabricated a disagreement, yelled at my cat, and then didn't come home last night! It's only been 2 days. Lol. Fascinating how they continue to want supply & control.

[femaletribefitness]

This is He got a new Yet texting me calling me every 3-4 Before my healing I didn’t know … much about narcissists and their I would reply, talk and etc now I am ignoring calls and he got angry at me lol then call me again and text me saying I am his property and he wants to know what’s going on in my life! He wants to know everything, cause he is interested! I was like dude… I don’t know much abt u and don’t care! U got your life, new relationships! Good for you, clap for yourself… why r u texting me ?! And interested abt my life ?! And he would say because I know u still love me… Omg … and u r soooo right ! He just needs to be in control Gtfo

[chloelageaux]

The narc I know doesn't reach out in a romantic way because he knows there's no recourse! He prefers to try to impede on me through trying to control child support. It isn't working out well for him! Lol. Good riddance to him and the new supply! Two foolish clowns in a circus!

[LeoSpiritGenX]

So this is so wild. My ex-narc is moving thank goodness over 4 hrs away. However he is still trying to find a way to control my movement and sleep with me. I’m like wth 🤦🏽‍♀️

[scc]

He cheated on me, I found out and had to look for a place, in that 1 month I suffered so much - sometimes he would want me other times he would treat me like shit so I move out. The day I moved out he called me 3 times, said he missed me and also messaged and emailed me whilst he moved In the new supply immediately. No contact for almost 1 month! Can’t wait to hit more milestones!!!

[bethrhyne]

Always good info Lee. Mine finally left me alone when he got remarried

[itisfinishednowtimetoclean]

What goes through my mind is PLEASE, PLEASE CUT ME OFF😂😂😂😂😂.

[maithaalkaabi]

Mine was covert narcissist!! He discarded me to marry a lady, I already told her before to marry him, I was him for 10 years, I am very happy with no contact

[kendras]

My SO told me they’ll always love me and there’s still love there but it’s not enough. I don’t think they ever loved me. They told me they love me turn less than 30 days later, they said they fell out of love. Damn that was quick. LIES!

[Pigments_of_Imagination]

The arrogance ive seen this guy exhibit is STAGGERING… the lifetime entitlement to anyone who’s had the misfortune of getting involved with him, the double standards… 😂 he actually gets offended by the thought of his exes going out having a good time without him. He’s learned he can do whatever he wants though and at least one girl will be willing to temporarily let him back in… he’s just got an ever-growing Rolodex of validation sources. My only consolation is knowing it’ll never be enough to fill the infinitely ravenous black hole inside him and the best he can do is momentarily use people to distract himself from the misery at his core

[-Penny]

They can get to you thru “Parental Alienation.” It’s listed as child abuse, but it’s “narcissistic spousal abuse 101, ” the ex is the target, not the child, and if they have control over a child to alienate them against a loving parent, then there’s the control of the target. My ex just passed a year ago, after 30 yrs my yearbooks, junior high photo album, HS diploma, HS Xmas formal pic with my HS sweetheart was returned to me by my son, he had something I valued, so he has control, I knew about the yearbooks, but all the other stuff I had no clue he had them

[kirstenchelsea]

My ex was covert, and his much like you Lee. Very private about his new supply and he hasn’t tried to contact me since I found out about the new supply. The most his done is unblock me on Instagram but that gave me a chance to block him. So much peace

[mattiematthews]

No way the NS was my saving grace.... Still trying to get divorced but my God no more daily, weekly stress. No more rages whewww peace