Trauma Bonding Explained in 4 minutes (Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment Styles)

Trauma Bonding Explained in 4 minutes (Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment Styles). What, how and why of trauma bonding. Are you an anxious or avoidant attachment? Definitely watch this video to the end!

[MoyaSima]

For the avoidant attachment, it’s important to say they strongly think that their needs won’t be met, and unfortunately they attract people who won’t meet their needs.

[imusiccollection]

Trauma bonding. Like attracts like. They both have unhealed faulty self beliefs. Ignorant of their true creator power and authorship of their own lives. Two people resonate and amplify their combined vibration. So they mirror each other. The real love is felt inside oneself, not from another. Learning to love ourself is the real work. Then we can share love. I guess we grow as we go. And in relationships we'll know, one way or another, if we are loving ourself.

We are all naturally self centred, including the one who plays the "victim". Help yourself and your idea of a relationship will evolve, and the person who reflected back to you, the way that you love yourself, could still join you on your expanding journey or it could be another.

Different faces and places but still you at the centre. So start with yourself, as any particular relationship simply shows you what energy you have got going on. How we feel is in our control. When we experience this, then our relationships reflect this. You will come to know that you do create your own reality and responses. Feel your worthiness.

[sherondadavis]

I saw this video for the first time and my heart started pounding so fast. This is so me and this is the first time ever even with therapy you summed me up completely 😢.

[dollytenbrink]

It's good that these two types attract each other. It's precisely the intention. There's no such thing as a perfect love relationship. The purpose of being in a relationship is aimed at healing your inner child parts that were traumatized in your childhood. There's a profound spiritual message hidden in the uncomfortable and painful experiences within the relationship. The challenge lies in exploring, amidst the pain and joy, love and suffering thrown into the interaction between two partners who are both wounded, what this mystical message holds and how you can use it to establish a good, healthy connection with the Self.

[simjam]

I think avoidants even turn mostly secure people into anxious types. Although truly secure people would jist leave and not put up with the bs.

[dee]

Great explanation for this, exact explanation for me and my ex. We loved each other so much. I am healing my attachment style every day thank you for your channel.

[ChumpanZees]

Wow, that video was so well done. Thank you so much, could you please make a version with either no music or lower volume music so its easier to listen to the words being spoken? THANK YOU!

[denisedevoto]

This is a great explanation. Thank you so much.

[taymikataymika]

This was well said u did a great job 👏🏾 ❤

[thebestversionofme]

Awesome video can totally identify with the anxious

[livingoncetwice]

Yes this we a very helpful video! Thank you

[basiaramona]

I wouldn't call it a trauma bond - it's with a narcissist. This is what you explained (very well) it's an anxious-avoidant trap.

[bojack]

Worth watching the Heidi Priebe videos. She's done loads of work on this

[romacesare]

Pls skip the music...
It's so distracting and I can hardly hear your voice...

[cloud]

Hi, can we please have a video to help us work on a relationship between Avoidant and Anxious?

[thekundalinichannel]

Very concise and poignant. Do you have a video on the way to heal these apart from joint resolution and communication.? Peace be with you

[ImpressDivinity]

I completely see where I am anxiously attatched and I trauma bonded in the past and accepted the emotional instanility (which is abuse) of partners and their toxic behaviors matching mine...but I cant see how amy of this comes from my childhood. My parent did have struggles but wasnt abusive or neglectful. I dont see how it came from my childhood except maybe the homelessness and lack of family structure. Having no extended family and stuff like that ...moving around a lot. Thats all I cam think of and maybe when I met my father that was a bit of a negative I dont know.

[muhammadkallouj]

Oh my God you nailed me!!! I was in a such relationship!! I subscribe fpr that Talent to explain it? Where did you get such infos? Thank you deeply fuch a such revelation!

[Metqa]

Does it ever reverse? Like if the anxious person gets fed up with the lack and decides to give up and give the partner their "freedom ", and the avoidance partner suddenly realized what they've lost and starts seeking the closeness that no longer exists for them?

[V_V]

I'm a little creeped out because I literally wrote this in a short story once: "On the one hand, we are lonely, so we want to know what others are thinking, on the other, we don't; because, we are afraid, of being choked to death, rended, and ripped apart, by their thinking, I had thought: we're afraid of being engulfed and subsumed and manipulated and ruined, by others."