Understanding Trauma - Part 3 - Results of Shame

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Many of the characteristics of Complex Trauma are connected to shame, the greatest negative consequence of Complex Trauma. What is the ripple effect of shame? How does one heal from it?

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[c]

Extremely powerful. These videos should be shown in schools.

[EsseQuamVideriSeen]

Tim is so knowledgeable about trauma and shame. I feel like he's teaching me a PhD on these subjects.

[middleofnowhere]

People have abused me all my life and now everyone criticizes me that I'm "negative." people don't usually develop a sunny disposition from decades of abuse. So this is a catch 22 it seems.

[chuck]

At last someone who definitely knows what he's talking about. This guy is extremely intelligent and detailed. Glad that he's giving this great presentation.

[cfelix]

This brings my whole life full circle. Its makes so much sense. Its too bad a very small percentage are self aware, the majority of people will never wake up to this. So powerful.

[Ilovemusic]

This man is a genius. He can talk for hours, no notes, no podium wow

[saffloweroyl]

I live in a constant state of shame. Seventy one years old, and it still grabs me by the throat and shakes me hard.

[yomama...isaverynicelady]

So deep. So incredibly deep. Its so great to be able to listen to stuff about childhood trauma and actually be able to listen instead of getting triggered by trauma and escaping into fantasy and thoughts the whole time.

[susie]

I recognize so many people from these descriptions. So sad that they don't have a clue. I wish this was presented to every high school class in the world.

[ThePoppy]

This is life-saving material. Thank you so much for normalising shame, its effects and the healing required. This video itself reduces feelings of shame.

[joanfolds]

This is an excellent series. The seven mountains of influence in our society need to hear this entire series.

[jenrich]

"Welcome to getting wrecked with Tim on Friday nite" 😂 appreciate your work kind sir.

[arazohassan]

(I wish I wasn’t the way I’m) I told my self that sentence for thousands of times in my 25 years of living and I’m so thankful I could change even abit thank you lot sir your videos are extremely helpful ❤

[manny]

I’m eternally grateful for your support and service!!!! You are helping me understand how at 43 years of being unconscious to who I am today as a human being and addict attempting to get and stay sober as well as deepen my relationship with my Higher Power! Thank you and God bless you and yours!!!!

[theselfwithinus]

Aha...now I get it! I had to watch this three
times to experience this! I now understand the core of my shame and will guide it through in how God sees us all. I bring understanding with compassion. Shame has carried so much pain and abuse. It deserves love. It served its purpose and did a great job doing what it could to make me a better person with how it thought it could. Today, I hold it close to my heart and accept a new way to be together - with respect and compassion. I see it now, after the session with my coach, the inner child workshop and now, after hearing your words, Pastor Tim!
What a beautiful moment, what a wonderful experience - thank you for this! Wow

[Lonewolfcigar]

I’m grateful to have found you. I connect too much to deep shame and didn’t know I had deep shame. Mind blowing. Mahalo

[nathanielgray]

This guy should have millions of views

[aliciabadashian]

I’m all three perfectionist, people pleaser and procrastinator.

[JuliaShalomJordan]

This is so foundational for deep healing. Thank u.❤

[AmareProfunde]

These videos have been so informative and it helps to understand what's going on and why we act and feel the ways we do. A point that stood out for me is don't try to be authentic with unsafe people. That makes so much sense. I appreciate Tim sharing his knowledge 🙏