how to deal with TOXIC PEOPLE | 9 signs of a toxic friend and how to cut them out of your life!

How to spot FAKE FRIENDS...This video covers the 9 types of toxic friends, how bad friendships affect your life, how to deal with this, how to cut them off, cope with the loneliness and heal from the aftermath of a friendship breakup. (MY EARRINGS ARE MY OWN BRAND! Follow @ sajanastudio on Instagram xxx)

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[tamkaur]

which types of toxic friends have you had to deal with before? 🥴 me? I've experienced the thief, the snake, the energy vampire and the bad influence. 🥲

[twisted]

Friendly reminder if you’re watching this video because you fear you might be toxic that its a sign you’re not toxic, because toxic people never reflect on their own actions. Love you!! xoxo

[matilda]

friendly reminder that it’s totally okay to just stop talking to people that don’t respect you. you don’t owe everyone an explanation

[nazmin]

Having toxic friends gave me anxiety and depression, i used to always get negative thoughts and would be pessimistic about everything in life

[Rosy_Doodles]

one more type of friend: The Condescender. They make you feel bad about everything, and make sure you know that they are better than you. They always drop hints of why you aren't good enough, and nitpick everything you do. They make you feel stupid, and have a big enough ego that you can't hurt them back. They act clueless about what they are doing, and insist that they are your most supportive and helpful friend. But really they are just trying to undermine you and make you feel guilty for the life you are leading. Like the name, they are SUPER condescending, and will stop at nothing to make sure you know they are nicer, smarter, more talented, more helpful, and a better friend then you. BEWARE of this type, because they will make you feel guilty about everything and a lot of times you don't even realize they are toxic, you just think they are speaking the truth about everything that is wrong with you.

[stitch]

bro i love her so much i’ve been taking notes about her videos and everything. as a young brown girl, there aren’t a lot of brown girls in the industry so it’s nice to see one of us so successful.

[melaniegriesemer]

On keeping friends around just because of all the good memories/you’ve been friends for so long: “You are prioritizing your past over your future” 🤯 such a good point!

[holidayelev]

Never prioritize them too muchh they will definitely take you for granted, remember you're only their friend THEY'RE NOT YOURS!!. Set boundaries, never tell anyone about your personal life. LIKE NEVER because by chance if u ever get into a fight wid them, they'll definitely puke your secrets out and they'll laugh on you. LIVE RESPECTFULLY GIRLIES

[eyes]

One tip: always express yourself when you're with friends. Say stuff like "I don't think talking this negatively is good for us", you might actually make them realize certain things. If there is no change or respect for boundaries tho, don't tolerate that.

[innerdragonfly]

This literally happened to me last summer when I realized the people that were close to me weren’t right for my mental health. I literally lost my whole friend group, then simultaneously went thru a spiritual awakening and went thru a rebirth and more self trust and self love. Horrible and chaotic experience at the time but 8 months later I’m much better off. Now, I’d rather be alone and have no friends, rather than people who don’t value me.

[Greshymarrone]

I was the toxic friend and everything she saying I needed to hear soooo bad. My best friend cut me off because of a boundary I crossed with her and I understand now. This just encourages me to continue with inner work and healing myself so I can show up better for my current bestfriend and future friendships ♥️

[nikecontd]

Last year I got rid of FIVE people because I started prioritizing myself. Really, if you're a respectful, selfless person with good intentions you need to be so careful. Put your energy into the right people and don't forget you can't pour from an empty cup!

[Amy-G-Dala-]

I don't know if they're toxic but I've grown tired of my friendship circle. It just feels like they don't grow and accept what isn't good in their life. I feel drained about how they wallow in their misery and don't try to cheer me up when I face sadness / disappointed

[chandinisonena]

After watching this video I have realised I don't have any friends in my life who will stand with me, I feel sad that I couldn't make one good friend in my entire life.

[daniellem.gibson]

I think the running theme is learn how to be comfortable alone. It’s a hard reality.

[rekhakumari]

There is one more type of toxic friends in my opinion .
The one who will get to know your all secrets, they will even read your diary but when it comes to their secret suddenly they become so private.😅😅

[blzywilson]

Types of toxic friends 1:45
How this affects your life 7:13
How to cut them off 10:10
Are you a toxic friend? 17:04
Dealing with the aftermath 18:39

[OGmarzipan]

My ex best friend was like this and I cut them off completely because as soon as I started improving in life they completely turned on me. It’s taken me a year to comprehend it and I’m still healing from it. The fact that she checks off all the boxes you mentioned.. I was wayyy too nice. I left silently the minute I spoke up for myself and she treated me like I wasn’t ever a friend to begin with

[genevaelyse]

I'm going through a friendship breakup, I had no choice but to ghost them because they are so dramatic and never misses a chance when it comes to spreading hate and rumors. I really needed to let them go. Right now I feel a bit lonely (but I already have a good friend) but I tell myself that I'm making rooms for welcoming more secure and lovely people into my life but first I need to heal.

[JenniferTHEqueen_]

19:40 This was so well spoken! I just recently at the beginning of the year cut off a friend of almost 9 years. It was super super hard but I knew that no matter what the past was she wasn’t treating me the way I deserved to be treated in the present. At times I think I can’t believe I spent almost half of my life with someone and now they’re a stranger. She was my only friend and I was left with no one but I knew that being alone was way better then sticking with someone that was draining my energy and making me feel bad and alone. Cutting off people who aren’t meant for you anymore is definitely not easy but NECESSARY for living your life to the fullest.