Dismissive Avoidant Breakup | How to reach out

Dismissive avoidant breakup! How to reach out to your avoidant ex! Especially if you’d like to make amends with your dismissive-avoidant ex-partner. Is your dismissive-avoidant not responding? This video will support you to break out of the anxious-avoidant trap and get on the path to a healthy relationship especially if you’re in an anxious preoccupied and dismissive-avoidant relationship.

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[mikewho]

Just don’t. A DA is more likely to ghost you completely a second time and string you along. Once they have disconnected from you once, it’s even easier for them to do it again. If you’re a anxious person, this will only prolong your suffering. Why would you want to do this to yourself. Move on, work in your self, and find someone who is more secure and open with their emotions. The only way a DA is going to discuss any of this with you is if they are doing the hard work through therapy. Even then, it’s still going to be a rough road.

[Tiggerinas]

All of this advice is probably relevant with the wisdom of hindsight. If the 'victim/recipient' of the DA's treatment had no idea who he/she was dealing with, they would naturally assume that it was their own lack of appeal that was the explanation. It's taken me some five months to realise that it's not my lack of appeal, but rather the DA's inability to show any feelings. This partially restored my confidence but at the same time made me realise that I'm on a hiding to nothing if I want to pursue this - the comments below make me very, very doubtful if it is advisable to go down a one blind alley.

[jjc]

I am a secure attachment style and my DA made me feel anxious attachment. Never realized these types until now. Currently in no contact phase and not sure I ever want to talk again.

[guadalupevega]

My DA ex broke me...I would run from a DA. I wasted time, money and feelings on someone who ghosted me after two years. He told me he had lost interest, I made him unhappy. Then came back like nothing 3 days later and I wanted to talk about it on the phone I was not pressuring him or anything. Then he ghosted me...I went from secure to anxious 😒.

[tysonpadilla]

These avoidant people are such a turn off!! Starting to remind me of a corps!! No life in them! Good for nothing but sex! No emotions! Hardly a chance of reconciliation if godforbid you make a mistake! Cold fish love and affection. Good what are these people good for other than sitting at a desk as a corporate slave serving some selfish purpose in life for the rest of their life LOL. Good God guys leave these people to their demise

[natalie]

I love these comments! Good to know I'm not alone. Why would anyone want to reach out to a dismissive avoidant ex? Maybe if you're also a dismissive avoidant and having SO LITTLE is enough for you, but otherwise let that person go.

[indiana]

I reached out to my DA after 6 weeks of no contact, I just asked her if she would like to go for a walk with me in the coming days, she responded very politely and said that she would. I didn't see a need to talk at all about our relationship and I'm glad I didn't. I'll save that for a better time when it needs to be discussed.

[escalera]

Geez, don’t reach out. Life is way too short. Go get a puppy instead.

[oldkingpole]

Apologise for what? There's nothing to apologise for! Other than being unaware that my ex is a DA. And wanting to progress the partnership.

[madinjun]

So great, their ego gets stroked meanwhile they will either not respond at all or they will give you a polite friend conversation. They will almost never change or even aknowledge change is needed. DAs are not worth the effort and are honestly toxic and taxing.

[michaelvokes]

You are so so underrated on this algorithm of coaches. You seriously RULE

[kathrynnelson]

Why would you want a dismissive avoidant back? If they haven't done their work and you're doing yours, you could have a relationship with someone secure.

[pure-pisces]

What I don't understand is the partner of the DA has to go out of their way to do these things... but where/when is this reciprocated???

[philphil]

Never ever reach out!!!! Don't do it you'll regret it.

[lsqtiqs]

I have nothing to apologize for. He told me he loved me 2 days before he broke up with me. We never had one argument, ever. Then all of a sudden he had a million excuses as to why he needed to take a step back.. it's not me, it's you. I asked if there was any hope he may want a relationship with me and he said he didn't want to string me along. He wants to be friends. After. A. YEAR of dating. I told him if he still felt that way in 90 days, he could reach out to me. Day 60 today. I don't think he will reach out and if he does, I can't go backwards into being his friend after he blindsided me. Ugh. I believe he got scared by his own feelings. He broke up with me on the phone.

[ZhengSW]

Your video accurately describes my ex so well...I'm completely overwhelmed with this knowledge.

[cherylthompson]

In time, I will be a friend. But, at 58? And being blocked by him? No, thanks.

[stirry]

You are Amazing! This guidance and perspective seems to
Reflect the actions of a DA. Dating a DA is not for the faint hearted

[lungisanimoyo]

My DA recently asked for break because i asked her why she seemed to be pulling back. She said she need to find her self, saying she hadnt been ok since her father passed away. I was there for her during the grieving process. After 6 weeks of me reaching out atleast once a week, she eventually agreed to meet up for breakfast. We spoke for an hour and both agreed our relationship wasn't a bad one, but she insists she doesn't want to be in a relationship at this stage. My anxiety is crazy at this stage because i still want her back but ive done enough apologizing for my faults. Dont know if ill ever hear from her again, but will have to wait till she reaches out. I think ive embarrassed myself enough already lol

[evaollie]

My DA went to therapy, therapist sucked and he still sucked in relationship. Their brain is really scrambled in area of vulnerability and trust. You have years to give this person for a very small chance, very very small, of the making improvements…good luck with that