How To Deal With My Girlfriend Who Yells At & Berates Me

What you should do if your girlfriend yells at and berates you so you can set and enforce healthy boundaries.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who says he’s read 3% Man, 15 times. He has been with a verbally, emotionally and mentally abusive girlfriend for 2 years. She constantly nags, yells at and berates him. He asks her to constantly stop treating him this way, but then he doesn’t enforce healthy boundaries. He is enabling her behavior and inviting more of it because she obviously doesn’t respect him as a man because he never stands up to her. This email illustrates why setting boundaries but not enforcing them is useless and only invites more abuse.

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[manny]

I dated a girl just like this which brought me to Corey's work. Leave her ASAP!!!!

[HawaiianKong]

Had a few girlfriends like this. You can do everything right to put her in her place for the time being, but it will just keep resurfacing repeatedly. It’s just who they are. Just pull the ripcord now, because there ARE easy-going, easy-to-get-along-with girls out there.

[keithklickstein]

I went through this for 2 years and finally walked out the door and didn't look back. Someone who acts like that is likely a covert narcissist., mine was. In the end, no matter what you do, they will not change. The only thing to do is leave and enjoy the peace of not being with an abusive partner.

[deankraft]

Pepole like this will never ever change. No matter how good you are with the work, I'd walk away as soon as possible. I dated someone like this, and it's toxic narcissistic behavior, and I can personally relate to a lot of this. Things will just get worse, and what you do will never be good enough, and these types of people will make your life a living hell. It isn't worth it, and then when this shit ends wether you left or she did, it's a bitch to heal from this. Trust me, I've been down this road, and thankfully, I had the knowledge from the book to walk away before I wasted a full year.

[jroll]

She has no respect for him & unfortunately the only way he’ll ever regain any of it is leaving her for good. It’s done. He never set any boundaries in the beginning & now it’s too late & it will only get worse the longer he stays

[DavidReilly]

My dad told me that overindulgence is one of the subtle ways of abuse. We all have to learn about boundaries and show examples of what happens if they're crossed.

[ako]

Could have used this advice last year. Tried setting boundaries, she continued. After one more painful month of that, I left. Some baggage just isn’t worth dragging.

[jamespostle]

i used to date a girl like this. she never took any accountability for the words that came out of her mouth and it was infuriating. She always said she "didn't have a filter "as an excuse to being verbally abusive and cursing me out over things that i had no control over.

[stevis]

This guy's mother was just like this, that's why he's attracted to her. The girl's father was willing to take abuse just like this guy, that's why she's attracted to him. I too went many years of my life thinking abuse from women was just something you had to deal with, as my family was filled with "strong women"

[mattsmith]

I made this mistake great relationship for two years slowly turn into disrespect, not appreciating things that I do. Painful lesson I will not repeat healthy boundary will be held up now on. Disrespect bye-bye

[sailing]

I have been in this as well with clear verbal insults. It is tough feeling trauma bonded.

[brandon]

From the hotel room on a Friday! Love the determination to get content out and help us all. God bless coach, enjoy your weekend

[willthorburn]

Had this before. The toxicity and the stress ain’t worth it, takes its toll on mental and even physical health. Get out of the situation

[wayweh]

Coach you deserve the vacation. All the best. Thank you for taking the time for the videos.

[gaipontiff]

This email sounds very familiar to me. I was in this type of toxic relationship for about two years as well. Get out as soon as possible. Eventually, she treated me like a child and or an employee.

[poremechen]

There is no weapon for that.

You can only remove yourself from situation and punish her with lack of atenttion while comunicating you dont like this or that kind of behaviour. Your only weapon is atenttion and be a chad enough to replace her and never look back.

Thats all folks.

[johnnorman]

Everything you've said is right. Ive always been nice to everyone and they have always shown me respect. The only person who has ever disrespected me is my girlfriend. Ive never experienced this behavior so its hard to move on. But i think i need to leave. It just hurts

[willthorburn]

It’s unacceptable to take that treatment and there’s danger of you continue to take it.
2 scenarios can possibly happen. 1. The emotional abuse takes a toll on your health. 2. That nightmare scenario when one snaps and this turns into a domestic situation you sometimes hear about from people you may know or on the news.

[murphytoadster]

Its almost divine timing that this video came out during my current issue. Wayne is George Washington of relationship advice

[christophervanzetta]

My ex was like that. Don’t regret one bit dumping her