How to Deal With a Narcissistic Mother (Stop Her!)

How to Deal With a Narcissistic Mother. In this video, we cover ways to stop a narcissistic mother. You'll learn tips and tricks on how to deal with narcissistic parents to put an end to the abuse.

It can be really difficult and challenging to live with a mother who is too self-absorbed and thinks of her children as mere extensions of herself. Having this kind of a personality makes her a narcissist. She feels the need to be in control of everything all the time and to enforce unnecessary rules on her children. The children of narcissist parents feel like they are unimportant and don’t have a voice to express their own opinions. Not the ideal situation, really.
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[ilTHfeaa]

“set your boundaries” LOL she doesn’t give a fuck about my boundaries .

[deltasubliminals]

No contact is the only way to deal with such evil

[leticia]

No contact is best. What makes it frustrating is that she doesn't see her wrong. Reading the comments, I realize I'm not alone. 😣

[alekamoon]

It's actually very sad to realize that mum is someone evil and whom you can't trust to. Like i appreciate the moments when she's very nice, but then turn out to be manipulative and judgy, it breaks my heart.

[tenningale]

Rules for Dealing with Narcs:

#1 - Don't give them any information (all info is weaponized against you)
#2 - Don't react
#3 - Don't show emotions (they smugly use this against you to gossip and lie that there's something wrong with you)
#4 - Don't personalize their behavior (it's a function of their disorder, not you)

[la]

I can't stand my narcissistic mother. When she is not in my life I do not miss her at all. She only brings negativity and toxicity into my life. I am envious of women who have mothers that they can actually talk to and depend on for support.

[heydidiaz]

Came across this video because I have accepted that my mom is a narcissistic mother. However it’s so hurtful I can’t denied the pain.

[ehanoldaccount]

Their really isn’t enough awareness of these issues. Personally I find this form of psychological abuse just as bad as any other domestic abuse

[jemmawhitehouse]

Yes, my mother is 100% narc. Went no contact 3 years ago at 40 years old. Wish I had done it sooner

[fifrosqui]

No contact is hard when you live with the narcissist - my mum. I can't afford to leave or move out atm so I'm stuck in this traumatic household. My only form of no contact with her is just staying in my room and not initiating conversation with her.

[Miss_V]

My mother always plays a victim card and ask for more things. If I don’t give her what she needs I’m a bad child. Hmm this is very difficult. Suck to have a narcissistic mother…

[destinylover_.]

Just figured out my mom was a narcissist today after a bunch of research, after months n years of mental abuse I finally realized that I'm not the problem, I faced so much mental abuse and didn't even realize it until later on, I hope anyone who deals with a mother like this heals, and I hope your mother eventually heals from her trauma and tries to become a better person at least. <3

[helenegiroux]

My mother is in her 90s and I’m in my 60s and I am just now realizing she’s narcissistic. What a long strange and difficult trip it’s been. This video was very helpful.

[khattak]

I can’t believe it took me 24 years of my life to realise I have to break away or I’ll never be happy.

[shespeaks]

After trying several reconciliations I made the choice to return to no contact status with my narc mother. I dont have any regret or guilt because I did everything in my power to be a good daughter. My peace of mind & joy have returned without her presence.

[cumxrlb]

I am 61 and my mom is 81. This video has helped alot and I agree with the comment of no contact. I cannot take her anymore. She is so abusive and evil. She has been like this her whole life and I am mentally worn out and done with dealing with her. Can’t do it anymore. I had no idea so many people were going through the same thing. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone.

[milarosenrot]

I started therapy at age 32. That’s when I could finally set boundaries with my mother. Therapy is the way out !!!!

[DartmoorPaul]

I’m 54 and mum is 85 and this year through therapy I’ve learned she is a narcissist to a level that is utterly shocking and overwhelming. I’ve now experienced her narcissistic rage and it was pure evil. I’ve blocked her emails and texts (although she knows where we live, so has turned up & tried to get in. At 54 I feel empty, exhausted, lonely, totally destroyed and utterly upset. She has robbed me of self and coming to terms with her and my golden child brother is something I am really struggling with, even with therapy. Boundaries is something she has no regard for & just crashes through & sorry is a word she has never said. Your video is a source of help. Thank you

[knowledge]

5 years ago my mother came to my door and said she wanted to live with me (in my hous) without talking to me or asking for my permission. She said I raised you and now it's time for you to pay me back. She stayed for 5 years and turned my life into hell. Every single day she was telling me how miserable and dark life was, kept criticizing everything, and judged me so harshly. At that time my son was 6 ys old. She used to say that I didnt know how to raise a child and so much more nonesense. Eventually, she left and I moved. It's been two years that I haven't shared my address with her. I call her and say hi weekly. But she says she wants my address not tge phone calls. She has zero love for her children unless they do the stuff she likes.

[CloudffStrife]

I never knew what was wrong with my mother because I always felt like there was something wrong with me. I was never doing enough according to her.

A coworker suggested the possibility of my mother being a narcissist which led me to finding this video. I completely broke down crying listening to this because every word describes my feelings and everything she has put me through to the letter. I know my grandmother put her through the same treatment, but I refuse to perpetuate the cycle. Thank you for helping me to realize so that I can hopefully take steps to make things better between us or at the very least improve my mental health.