Identify A Narcissist On The First Date: 7 Subtle Signs NOT To Ignore

Do you ever wonder if you could identify a narcissist on the first date? There are ways to spot a narcissist immediately, and it's ALWAYS going to involve your intuition. Check out this video to learn 7 subtle signs of narcissism you shouldn't ignore.

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[annahappen]

I believe it was Maya Angelou who said "When people show you who they are the first time, believe them."

[angaeltartarrose]

If a man really likes you, he will want to know all about you. Talking about himself constantly is a huge red flag.

[MichelleMy_Unwell]

If you want to weed them out real fast, cause an "embarassing" situation. Accidentally spill your water or accidentally trip them or bump them, knock something loud of a shelf. Most people will try to make you feel better or help you and laugh it off, but a narcissist will get angry or silent or poke fun at you so everyone knows it was your fault. They can't help it. A little embarrassment is worth not having to walk on eggshells for years with a malignant narcissist.

[jessicagiuliano]

I'm not so sure about the conversation being about them.. usually I find, the narcisstist when first meeting u listens very well. Bc they're studying u

[t.l]

My narc test is say "no". See how they try to bulldoze your boundary or dismiss your no.

[jcsrst]

Online dating is the perfect hunting ground for narcissists. Tried it years ago and found it incredibly dysfunctional.

[ValHeartNDHeartSuqquNoHeartPat]

1. Humble brag
2. Dominate the conversation
3. Love bombing
4. Blatant lies or embellishments
5. Sense of superiority and entitlement
6. Playing the victim
7. Cold or mean-spirited (lack empathy)

[NunyaBiznez]

My sister is a covert narcissist and she wouldn't do any of these things. Beware, covert narcissists are much harder to spot, yet so much more damaging to you.

[Envlo]

A personal sign of narcs for me is constant fallouts with friends and its never their fault. There’s always some close but short friendship which went sour and “i didnt do anything”.

[wendyposten]

I’m an empath and am a magnet for narcissists. I’m on to them and recognize the signs very fast. My most common experience is being love-bombed. The very first clue i notice is pet names like “sweetie” or “baby”. Another one I notice right away, is when they claim all their exes are crazy. Reeeeally, bro?

[annebos]

My experience, if things annoy or disturb you about a person in the very beginning, that's usually just the tip of the iceberg!

[laurenharper]

I don’t even date anymore. Being alone is not really fun but it does feel good to have no perfectionist a-hole bugging me and putting immense pressure on me.

[missminti]

It’s the aloofness that shows me. Nose up in the air, laughing at their own jokes, touching you randomly, pet names after knowing them for a few hours. Way too comfortable razzing you or using inappropriate sarcasm. Talks shit about people and exes. Everything seems like they are forcing it. Disingenuous vibes.

[gwillis]

When someone ignores your accomplishments and refuses to praise you for the good things you have done, that's definitely a narc.

[educatedgypsee]

I fell for the sneaky narcissist
Asked all about me
Question about everything, he listened to use against me later

[christinagiannaros]

I think one of the big issues I've noticed is people lose confidence in their own 'gut' feelings once they have been in a narcissistic relationship or other abusive relationships, they can't work out or trust their own feelings, are they over reacting or not, that is where the danger lies, having lost faith in yourself and that's where the vulnerability and risk of becoming a victim (again) is.

[narcissistessays]

Lookout for red flags 🚩🚩🚩. Red flags are things you note for reference if needed later, know your deal breakers, which is the boundary crossed where you have to walk away. Enough red flags can make a deal breaker. It’s worth writing your boundaries down and sticking to them like law for our own protection. Sending lots of love and strength to those of us victimised by a narcissist 💕

[brendabanuelos]

I think I heard somewhere that narcissists talk about themselves, meanwhile sociopaths keep you talking about yourself to get all the info on you they can

[TinaSotis]

My ex-narc did these -He complained about his marriage, love bombed me, texted incessantly, and had a really high opinion of himself, but was super-nice in an over the top kind of way. My new narc signals, painfully learned: ANYTHING that's over the top and not appropriate for the situation: too charismatic, too nice, too good to be true, too loving, too talkative, too anything - and I'm out of there. It's hard for me to spot the lies - unless they slip and say the opposite later on.

[alicec.]

I have recently dated a guy that on the first few weeks was already showing devaluation and passive aggressive comments... Acting like he knows better of everything. I've been trying to cut him off for ages but he keeps coming back, now trying really hard to please me. Yuck.