can this situationship become a relationship? | tea for two

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credits
Director: Sari Arambulo, Nicole McCullough
Casting Coordinator: Bridget McGuinness
Casting Associate Producer: Karsyn Hughes
Production Manager: Emma Pek
Equipment Coordinator: Pat Saulo
Assistant Editor: Kirsten Hoang
Editor: Dane Stilwell
Post-Production Coordinator: Claire Chung

0:00 intro
3:40 What about your life do you wish could never change, and why?
5:03 What's the worst thing someone could say about you?
6:15 In what area of your life do you not trust yourself?
9:05 What is your most consistent and greatest fear?
11:15 When was the last time you really cried?
15:31 On a scale of 1-10 how ready do you feel to be in a relationship?
19:55 Say something you're too afraid to say to the other person while they're wearing noise-cancelling headphones
25:33 4 minutes of eye contact
27:42 final decision
29:46 the fast way

[ninatanlaven]

Not so sure why people fear so much to be in an official relationship these days. If it doesn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world, but if you like someone enough to be exclusive with them and want to be around them all the time, then why not? It seems that people want to have their cake and eat it too, but that’s not how human relationships work.

[aaronrowe]

Jordan thinks that protecting her from himself is doing her a favour as he has concerns with his own mental health and confidence. Brother, what she feels for you is some of the most genuine emotion and you won't experience this many times in your life, let it happen and be happy that it did.

[gabriellec]

genuine human connection is so beautiful, I can't.

[haepoioaejojaef]

This is a classic anxious avoidant pairing. They’re both uncomfortable with being vulnerable in their own ways. They seem to be in a similar place in term of emotional maturity. I don’t think they’ll last but hopefully they’ll learn from this relationship

[nacsar]

You can tell she's afraid of getting hurt. Fear of being vulnerable and telling the truth might mean the end of what's just ok for now.

[fbspin]

aww I'm so happy for them. It's never easy at the start so I'm glad they had the chance to really talk things through here

[piknick]

they are scary close to each other wow, i so hope they can work it out, they seem perfect for each other!

[becca]

This reminds me so much of the last guy I liked. We flirted all the time, he seemed to reciprocate, but then backed off at the last minute saying he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Looking back, I think he realized he wasn’t mature and emotionally available enough to be what I wanted. And he was totally correct. At the time I was devastated about it, but now I’m grateful. I hope these two work out, but if they don’t they’ll have learned a lot of important things about themselves and relationships.

[davidengel]

when he confessed his feelings while she was wearing the headphones, i couldnt hold back my tears, it was so cute and heartwarming to see and hear

[wildflowerone]

I can't stop thinking about this episode. This one made me emotional for so many different reasons. They seem like they're passionate about each other. I knew as soon as she walked on that she wanted something more, but that she was trying to suppress her feelings. From what I can tell, which is a miniscule amount, they seem to be together. I think they'll always love each other and have a special place in the others' lives and hearts... I don't, however, think they are the others "person" so to say. Soulmates perhaps, but in a way that they'll both move on and move forward in their lives at some point... perhaps even a similar 500 days of summer type scenario. That's what I gather. Not that it matters, I'm just a passersby! I wish them both the best. These are some wonderful individuals.

[abnormaltexan]

They are already a dating they just don’t realize it. Everything they are going through and the fact they talk out and work through what they’re feeling is far beyond the level of friendship. 6 hours in a car in tears expressing your fear of not being able to get relationship expectations and telling you that her life is better with you in it. Take the leap already! It’s not even a leap of faith at this point you’ve done all the work to shrink that scary leap of faith with all that fear of the unknown down to you two holding hand while you step off a curb! WHENS THE WEDDING! We better all get an invite! ❤

[xodanny]

She was so strong and looked emotionally mature when it was the solo interview and then she immediately folded when they interacted . She seems like she needs a restart . She’s scared of losing him

[MMateo_official]

Listen guys if you stay in the state that you are right now you're gonna lose it at the end.
I was in the same situationship or whatever and the other person is now with someone else and that is killing me inside.
I want to keep the friendship that we've build thru the years and I definitely will, but it is really hard.

So my advice is to just give it a try, if it work out you both win.
If it doesn't at least you've tried.
Don't let the "What if" ruin what you've already build.

[piknick]

tea for two, you don't know how much i've missed these 😍😍😍

[djnuikt]

You can feel the chemistry the second they see each other @2:12

[ImaginaryNate]

These two will work out. Give it time.

[happywings]

“If you cared about him you’d be his friend” oh the most unfortunate 20 year old advice . I really wish the best for her and him

[elijahpierre]

Very happy for them. The love there was present. Very evident

[charlenecampbell]

i’m crying you guys absolutely deserve each other ❤

[TheKatarinaGiselle]

These two have great chemistry! They could absolutely become end game!