2 Secrets That Get Him to Commit to You - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

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“OMG I went on a date with the most amazing guy!”

Your girlfriends get excited. He’s handsome, he's tall, he has a master’s degree, and he runs his own successful company.

Could this be any better?

But wait! Are you moving too quickly? That’s always the risk that worries so many women I speak to.

When we realize we REALLY like someone, it can be the scariest and most dangerous moment in our relationship. We rush ahead of ourselves. We commit our time, our emotions, our energy – and that’s before we know if it’s really going somewhere!

In this video , I’m going to give you the 100% TRUTH about why so many women jump the gun in the early dating stage and give you two important secrets that you must remember if you truly want a guy to commit.

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[MimzMasinga]

"Don't invest based on how much you like someone but based on how much they invest in you "

[kimhandley]

I wish 2 people could meet and just like each other. No thinking, no strategies, no changing how you are to make somebody like you. Just wish I could just BE with somebody without having to ' tweak' anything about myself. Free love.

[JAH.]

Fun fact. I watched Mathew Hussey, took his advice and valued myself and didn’t chase but was honest in what I wanted. I got rejected a lot and was so upset but fast forward and I’m engaged now❤️

[flavialm]

The fact that my husband was so invested in me from the start, I believe was why I fell in love with him, whenever I would go out with someone and they were hesitant I lost interest, this includes my ex (he spend 3 years trying to get me back later on, it was too late for me). With my husband he asked me to be his girlfriend in the 3 date, and 3 days later introduced me to his family, then in the same week he met my family and then throw a barbecue to introduce me to all his friends, we been together for 9 years now, married and all.

[xXzombchickXx]

At this point I've watched so many of these videos I don't know if I'm watching them for the advice or just to look at Matthew

[lovemecom]

I believe that many women invest quickly because generally women are naturally givers so they tend to do that when they start caring about someone.

[fettatoumert]

The one thing that I realized through my relationships, is that you should take it easy and keep in mind that this person may disappear anytime. This way, you will be always happy(at least not devastated).

[unforgivingboy]

this is why I invest in stocks and bonds. much simpler.

[angelaknox]

"Our heart isn't a possession it's a place." I like that.

[juliesmith]

A person can only invest in a healthy manner once they are in a stable, healthy and happy place within themselves.
Great content Matthew! Thanks.

[kelseycoca]

I really like the sentiment of "your heart is not an object (to give), but a place they can visit" awh, perfectly put

[ajh.]

This is the difficult thing for me. Several years ago, I invested too much, too soon with a guy. Now, I'm afraid I don't invest enough/show interest because I don't want to seem like a leech. Finding that balance is challenging. I do want to improve though.

[tanyaakh]

"The thing that really gets people attracted is when they realize that in order to get our investment they have to invest too'. WOW.

[mihui]

Thanks for this. This is actual advice my dad gave, too. Don’t invest in someone you like, invest in someone who invests in you. At least I know and recognize this now.

[TheAttractionTriggers]

*From building a strong emotional connection to creating a shared vision for the future, this video reveals the key ingredients to secure his commitment.*

[JayofallTrades]

u just explained everything i do when I start a relationship

[DearSybersue]

I always say "In Fast, Out Fast!" Take your time and keep a little mystery in the air. Chemistry is a powerful thing but can lead us astray when we let it take over. Another great video Matthew. <3

[NatashaKatsara]

i just realized why i'm single since 2011

[luccabetta]

Matthew, what you are saying here is really hard work for either person. Because what attracts is the relationship you have with yourself. The type of mood you carry with you on a frequent basis is what you Attract!!! So if you are happy, pumped eager for life, enthusiastic, appreciate life, see the good and positive aspects in people and life generally that is what you attract. So a happy healthy mood feeling sexy and delicious inside yourself will attract the same in Simple! Simple simple!

[NewJohariClassic]

Exactly!! I stopped acted on all my attractions because usually the really attractive guys I like are mean & treat me as an option