7 Signs You May Be With The Wrong Person

Are you currently in a relationship or dating someone? Do you wonder if your boyfriend or girlfriend is the right person for you? Does your gut feelings or emotions tell you that something is wrong with the relationship? If you're looking for some relationship advice, then this video is for you. All couples or potential couples have their doubts from time to time.

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Credits
Script Writer: Elliot Figueira
Script Editor: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Grace Cárdenas Cano
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

References:
You Can't Seem To Modify Your Expectations To Fit Your Partner

You Knew There Were Problems When You First Started Dating, But You Suppressed Those Feelings
- same link as above; the passage basically states that in the initial courtship stages, people often willingly ignore obvious problems. They're seeing everything through "rose-tinted glasses."

Your Partner Doesn't Seem Very Conscientious

You're Too Similar

[Psychgo]

What's your favorite Netflix series? Comment below!

[ossen]

*When you*
- Feel drained on energy, instead of being invigorated
- Don't sense any passion, instead more like a friendship
- Ask yourself "Are we compatible?"

[MisterGoose]

Can’t be with the wrong person if you’re not even with a person in the first place

[ricoco]

Worst part is when you're unsure if you're just a self sabotager or if theres something actually wrong. I wish I had clarity over which one it is.

[evadebruijn]

when you feel chronically misunderstood. I'd rather be alone than feel lonely in a relationship because the other person just does not understand you

[melo]

I relate to the first three ones, but the problem is me creating problems and scenarios in my head and being too idealistic. I wish it could stop.

[reginaprince]

Sounds like I shouldn't be with myself anymore. Well...

[gtgrandom]

I think it's important to note that doubt is normal in a relationship, especially after the honeymoon stage. You will see your partner's flaws and have to decide if you can learn to adapt to what you perceive as shortcomings. Also, for those with anxiety, it can be hard to differentiate generalized stress and anxiety from your relationship. A lot of the times, our anxiety targets our relationship because our loved one is at the forefront of our mind, not because there's anything wrong with the relationship. Step back and look at the facts; don't rely on intuition.

[mitzilou]

its hard when you have growth mindset and your partner have fixed mindset and no willingness at all to grow

[dinagalall]

1- You’re constantly unhappy
2- You’re experiencing high levels of stress
3- You’re expectations aren’t being met
4- You knew there were problems at the very beginning
5- Your gut tells you something is off, but you can’t seem to pinpoint it
6- Your partner doesn’t seem very conscientious
7- You're too similar

[lightsai]

sign you're with the wrong person : you're doubting it by watching this vid.

[FlufflyKitty]

8. You can’t see yourself marrying them or wanting to marry them.

This becomes a huge one when you can understand the spiritual logic of marriage.

[Imtoobusyslayingrn]

me: _in a happy and healthy relationship with my boyfriend_
my anxiety: *p r e s s*

[fyviane]

"Did you enjoy this video?" Why of course, I enjoy suffering.

[minervaloves]

I left my husband last week. I know I made the right decision, but I’m still in so much pain 😔

[karuymaru]

I want to trust my gut. But my gut also be like "I think you too crazy sometimes, you need to relax" lmfao 🤷‍♀️

[Psychgo]

Who here is single as a pringle? Comment below. You might just find your next love.

[NenaLavonne]

We have to listen to our gut when we innately feel that something is just "off". If we are constantly unhappy or stressed out, it's not worth it. We can find someone new eventually, or enjoy time with ourselves that is peaceful. <3

[davidnyro]

Two key, salient points:
1) BEFORE any relationship, we need to be the right person for us first! In a perfect world, right? Nearly impossible. And most of us can't wait 'til we're healed, conscious, emotionally intelligent, evolved, self-loving, etc. For a lot of us, that would be when we're in our 50's and 60's. Or never!
2) Another point: trusting one's gut is something we hear all the time, and the premise sounds good and makes sense. But we also all know the saying, "garbage in, garbage out. Data in, data out." If one has low self-esteem, had a wounded childhood and/or has lots of issues, is negative, fearful, angry, etc. that may color one's so-called "gut" and "instincts." It may be biased, colored, slanted, skewed, and not in a healthy, beneficial way or a way that's fair, rational, in touch with reality. Oh, our pesky egos creating all kinds of selfish, biased realities! (You can check with your family and friends for a "reality check." They know you, love you, and know your partner, hopefully, and are much more objective about it all. Ask them...and pay attention. Their guts may actually be a better barometer of what's really going on - with you, your partner, and your partnership.)
Good luck! (And fair, or not, luck actually plays a HUGE role in whether you find/end up with the "right" partner. I have found that it's often chance and the luck of the draw for people finding the "right" person. Fate. Though we can certainly be proactive and do our best to prepare ourselves for these opportunities of good fortune...and I would strongly encourage all of us to work on that! Again, good luck! :-) )

[DulceRodry]

I didn't realize these signs before. In my previous relationship I felt quite trapped, anxious and very sad, although I did not know why, the boy I was dating was very good to me and did not give me any bad reaction, but something deep inside me told me to move away, we just weren't compatible.
Keep it up, I love watching your videos, they always help me a lot to get more information ✨