signs you're in a TOXIC FRIENDSHIP #shorts

[milk_cookiesz]

some big red flags for friendships:
1. They get mad at you having other friends
2. They say rude things to you then say “oh well that’s how best friends work”
3. They tease you then can’t take a joke back
4. They don’t understand that NO means NO
5.they get mad at you for not responding to their text messages
6. They try to upstage you in everything
7. Spreading rumors or saying “it’s jsut a joke” after insulting you
8. If your feeling down they try to make you feel bad for them by blaming everything on a past tragedy

[Soyaaaa_pikchuuiii]

Whos has been in a toxic friendship
👇

[marierosedato]

Another one: always hangs out with other people, and only talks to u when their other friends aren’t there

[nothing]

"Their name makes you stress" True

[Aldccccccc]

Guys some more signs are

1. They make jokes about your loved ones or make jokes about people in your family leaving

2. They say there you best friend and then two weeks later go to another person and don’t include you and come back


3. They get mad or roll there eyes at you when you have other friends


4. They get jealous when you hang around people they are friends with

[magnaxish]

For me, my friendship went from the best to toxic real quick.

[PR_FailingFish]

The ''hanging out with them is draining'' isn't necessarily because of a toxic friendship. You might just be uncomfortable with the fact of hanging out, it could be because of the place, the activity or the amount of people around you

[lilithursin]

some more signs from someone who had a toxic friend for all of elementary school:
* they demand things from you and blame you if you don't give them what they want
* they threaten to end your friendship/call you a bad friend for every little thing
* getting a text from them makes you dread reading it
* they convince you they're entitled to everything they want because they're your "friend"

[froggy_simp]

I was in a toxic friendship for 5 years it was really bad my mental health was bad and I hated life

[kattykato]

Can someone tell me if this is a toxic friendship?
-cant take the joke back
-cant accept not being 1st
-brags about what they accomplished
-make you feel bad
-insults you when they aren’t part of a conversation
- doesn’t talk to you and crys and runs away when you confront them
- insults your appearance ALOT
- Makes a lot of excuses
-my friends are aware of it but whenever we try to confront her she runs off and comes back and acts like nothing happened
I’ve been her friend for 7 years so I don’t know

[MrScrelli]

When they say they care about you, but don't care about what you have to say. When you can't share your interests, because they will talk sh#t about it, or mock you because of it.
Run...

[lessy.x]

Also, my COMEPLETELY toxic “best friend” gets REALLY ANGRY when I hang out with other people and acts so dramatic and the drama lasts for hours.

[faeriie_.]

when toxic friends are the only friends you have..

[yingo.shingo]

I was in a toxic friendship, but she was really controlling and manipulating, because she always blocked me over small things and tried manipulating me into thinking that I was the rude one, and I lost like half of my friends because of her. Stay safe and out of controlling relationships/friendships!

Here are some more signs:
-Competitive
-Mad/jealous when you have other friends
-Trying to take your stuff
-Always asking for your stuff and never giving it back
-Clearly lying (ex. like if they say they need money because they’re “poor” but have a ton of money)
-Always playing the victim but never apologizing when they are rude
-Being rude and playing the victim
-You feel uncomfortable around them
-Negativity comparing you to other people (ex. If they say oh, you’re really bad at this compared to me)
-Laugh at your problems (ex. One time I was talking about how my dog died, and when I showed my “friend” a picture, she burst out laughing, saying “he’s… I guess cute?” Then kept laughing)
-Agreeing with rude people when you didn’t do anything (ex. If someone calls you rude, they would say something like, “well, maybe you can try to be a little nicer then” when you weren’t rude)
Let me know if there are any more!

[ang]

Favours don't need to be "returned", they should flow naturally from their inner energy. Don't EXPECT to have something " In return", aim for the same energy

[moonoftheblood]

Their name doesn't make me distress, but seeing their notification pop up is like a damn jumpscare

Update: I got rid of them :) took me a lot of strength, time and effort to get them off my back, but we are officially not friends anymore. I'm free!

[jennayoung]

They make fun of their other friends with you. And you wonder why they are still hanging out with them, if they hate them so much. 🤦‍♀️

[Laughable-Umbrella]

Bro this is how I feel around everyone even my best friends lmao
Doesn't matter who they are I'm a massive introvert, it will always be draining 💀💀

[floflop]

Lol you just described my friend in every way possible, gave her expensive things on her birthdays and she never gave me anything.She also gets super mad when i talk like 1min with other ppl

[Your.local.Pickle]

I remember I was in a toxic relationship. It was fun for a bit, but then I started actually paying attention to what was happening to me. Luckily, I left that friend a long time ago and now I have a better friend replacing her