Toxic Relationship Signs

Are you currently in a relationship or about to soon be in one? Here are some warning signs that your relationship could be toxic.

Timestamps by 에낙시Enakshi
1:05 1) Being too dependent
1:38 2) Being too independent
2:21 3) Manipulation
3:12 4) You emerge Identities
4:09 5) Acting Selfish and making demands
5:13 6) Confusing Love with emotional hunger

#toxic #dating #relationship

Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Zuzia
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

Who here is single? Raise your hands ;)

[jaemmissie]

Hoping that everyone here won't be in a toxic relationship

[enakshi]

*Timestamps*
1:05 1) Being too dependent
1:38 2) Being too independent
2:21 3) Manipulation
3:12 4) You emerge Identities
4:09 5) Acting Selfish and making demands
5:13 6) Confusing Love with emotional hunger

[pumpkin]

*Last relationship left me with the panick attacks because i was sexually assaulted but my present partner is so supportive to me and helps me heals :)*

[escherichanja]

If People talk like this, they show their toxic nature, that gave no room for real interaction: "I think it's hilarious you think I'm the one being disrespectful, mean and abusive. Have you read any of your comments.?! Your contempt is astounding!" As if this kind of person ever care about how they talk as long as they get from others what they want, as if they are a teacher, just because of the fact that they watch everything from the outside.

[Kathryn_m]

Who else wants a full video on Emotional Hunger

[Twztedcheerio]

I can easily say that I have dropped all of my hobbies and pastimes to adopt my partner’s hobbies and pastimes. Realizing too late that I’ve lost who I am because I don’t do what I love anymore. I am also probably emotional hungry and very well could me mistaking it for love at this point. Wonderful video, greatly appreciate this awareness

[annemeownie]

I'm watching this just in case I DO get into a toxic relationship.

Gotta be prepared, thanks for the lesson!

[Simon]

It’s bad to be selfish, and it’s bad when you always listen to others.
We can try to strike a balance or set some healthy boundaries for ourselves.

[justamerose]

I would be interested in hearing more about the topic of emotional hunger.

[ComicalRealm]

Me: *is single*
Brain: Just in case bro

[DrLizListens]

This is a sign that it's okay to say no.

You have permission to protect your boundaries. Stretch the corners of your mouth up. You are enough. You are worthy. You are loved. You can do hard things.
💗 Dr. Liz

[pingguuuyah]

when you get rid of a toxic relationship it feels good. But the people who will you meet will be affected, trust issues, being too emotional, overthinking, and we become sensitive. sometimes we got the toxicity because of our past, but then we need a partner to gradually understand us, feel secure and gain out trusts. its not a fast phase, but a step by step so we can had a peace of mind in our new and next relationships

[KM-iqod]

Don't get me wrong, but it is not always that your partner is toxic it can be you too but you may not realize. If you ever feel you're in a toxic relationship first think then talk with your partner. Whenever you have a problem leaving a relationship is definitely not a solution. Talk let them know how they behave, or if it is you think if you can change that behavior. Not everyone is perfect, people have flaws. As mentioned in this video changing in a positive way matters example may be working on your toxic behaviors to change them. Hold on to your relationship if you think maybe you or your partner can work on these issues, if it still doesn't work then maybe you should consider leaving. Communication is the key part, when you talk with your partner you can work on many issues if you have any. Whatever it is talk let them know. Running away from problems ain't a solution for anything try working on it if it still doesn't make any changes then you may consider leaving.

[MissSirenita]

I broke up with my girlfriend because she was too dependent. She needed me at every hour of every second. And when I went to work or hung out with my friend, all hell broke lose with her.

[sprout]

I feel like my the relationship I had with my toxic partner was super one-sided. I would always put my effort into giving him support, time, and so much love. While he kept talking about his own interests and not letting me talk about mines without him pushing them away or questioning me about it. He'd never support me if I ever reached a goal, he'd only get mad at me for it and say that he's not good at anything. Which made me feel like it was my fault. I think I had the right to slowly avoid him from time to time, because I really didn't feel loved enough. Just felt used most of the time. In the past, he would also get upset with me if I did one thing wrong, he'd call me stupid many times. I stayed in that relationship with him for 8 years. He did became a bit more nicer but it felt like he only wanted me for his own benefit and only cause he felt alone. I also had a gut feeling something bad was bound to happen soon. It was so hard to trust him. After that, he started to cheat on me with someone younger because I gave him less attention and I was so depressed talking to him. He moved on so quickly like if our relationship really meant nothing. It still breaks my heart to see he never apologized for anything he's done to me.

[diana]

i remebember having someone who used to manipulate me into doing what they wanted(they would say they're gonna leave me if I dont), i also used to emerge my personality and be too emotionally hungry. it's a big difference now that i'm aware of it and not around them anymore. take care you guys♡

edit: i just realized we were on and off for 4years and 5months, that's such a long time omg🥲

[sparkley.dragon]

These signs are not just for romantic relationships, but platonic, friendships, and family relationships too! All of these signs perfectly describe the best friend I had for 44 years!! Some of the most toxic people are the ones that seem the closest to you!! 💕💕💕💕💕

[jester]

got here real fast dont know what to say but drink water and take care of yourself, everybody!

[escherichanja]

Toxic people talk like this, just because they think the know who they are and how they talk: "whatever you said?!. I have no clue what you are blading about incoherently. I never mentioned any of that. Please don't explain either it will fall on grayrocked ears." Narcissists know how to focus on their victim as if their own nature is nothing bad at all, only "selfprotection", not gaslightning or blaming or slander.