8 Signs You're With a Toxic Person

Are you dating a toxic person? When we are in love, we tend to see the good in them and hope that our love, care, and support will change them for the better. We ignore all the red flags of dating. Are you looking for relationship advice on how to draw the line between compassion and exploitation? Is someone worth sacrificing your mental health and self-love for? Watch this video to see if you identify with some of the signs. Share this video with someone who might need it.

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If you relate to this video, here is another video that highlights the 8 Side Effects of A Toxic Relationship:

Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Vanessa Val
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

Reference
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Holden, C. J., Zeigler-Hill, V., Pham, M. N., & Shackelford, T. K. (2014). Personality features and mate retention strategies: Honesty–humility and the willingness to manipulate, deceive, and exploit romantic partners. Personality and Individual Differences, 57, 31-36.

Knee, C. R., Canevello, A., Bush, A. L., & Cook, A. (2008). Relationship-contingent self-esteem and the ups and downs of romantic relationships. Journal of personality and social psychology, 95(3), 608.

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[Psychgo]

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[Nawnii]

Were my exes just uncreative and did every single one of these or..

[MeganCookiie]

The signs (just in case ur too lazy to watch):
1. They try to control you
2. They don’t listen to you
3. They manipulate you
4. They constantly criticize you
5. They take things out on you

[PolishCowvsJuan]

To the 1 person that’ll read this: *you’re cool and adorable stay safe*

[priyakalloria]

There are other red flags too:
1. They'll say not act
2. They'll let you do all the emotional talk and never take charge of being vulnerable
3. Even if they do become vulnerable, that's becs they wanted to do so, which is the third point, they will love you when they want to, and that's selfish babe.
4. The best memories you've had with them are sexual.
5. Just like in the video, they will bring you down especially by bringing your weaknesses up in public
6. Never sorry yes why? Becs they don't care and they'll rather blame you and make you feel sorry about them and fall for them again like their baby sitter.
❤️❤️

[kayla-gdtp]

Me: *reads title* “sees how to know if your a toxic person” me again: YES I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO! YES *sees title* oh-

[ohmcb]

Jokes aside, i found out that my ex is toxic and my boyfriend now is the opposite.. We all deserve a good partner and we should be one too ☺️ hope you all can get a partner that make you stronger!

[RogerStaysCreative]

Another example of manipulative behavior is empty promises. Saying one thing but doing another. Consistantly getting your hopes up to let you down. Emotional roller coaster

[LandonTroyer]

Watching this I feel it’s important to remember that it’s easy to just apply these to an ex after getting out of a relationship, but also take a moment to see if any of these apply to ourselves as well. That way we can all become better people (:

[xv_r]

I guess I am dating a toxic person.. He cheates anyways.

[PlanetPsych]

I think the only way to win with a toxic person, is not to play!

[xinyy]

Posted : 45 seconds ago
everyone : I am *SPEED*

[thepsychhike]

8 signs youre dating a toxic person:
1. they try to control you
2. they dont listen to you
3. they manipulate you
4. they constantly criticize you
5. they talk down to you
6. they take things out on you
7. they bring you down
8. theyre never sorry

[amyusesyoutube]

8 signs you’re dating a toxic person:

(these signs can also be evident in friendships!)

1. they try to control you (0:34)

2. they don’t listen to you (1:07)

3. they manipulate you (1:44)

4. they constantly criticise you (2:21)

5. they talk down to you (2:56)

6. they take things out on you (3:32)

7. they bring you down (4:01)

8. they’re never sorry (4:27)

[KoiFish.]

My mom is dating a toxic person and she knows that😔
Edit: All the negativity is getting too me

[dailydoseofmedicinee]

The warning signs include:👍

Checking the other person's cell phone or email without permission.

Constant put-downs.

Extreme jealousy, insecurity or anger.

Isolation from family or friends.

Making false accusations.

Physical violence.

Possessiveness.

Controlling behavior

[ashblackberry]

I don’t see any of these red flags in my friends/partner, I see a bunch of these red flags in my mum sadly.

[specimenairsoft]

I just broke up with a very toxic and manipulative person, we've been together for two years, and even though she's done so much wrong it still feels hard after the breakup

[MegaExo]

I don't even have a girlfriend and probably never will but this video will be helpful to remember

[JoyxStyx]

I think an important sign ist:
They're not giving you time or space to analyze your own feelings or emotions. Someone who leaves you just because you tell them your struggles with fears ist good for your health. I've been dating someone for a month and lately I wanted to open up to them with telling them that I have a fear of intimacy and I need more time to develop strong feelings. They shut me completely down and told me that I play with their feelings when I'm unsure of how i feel.
I think that's also toxic behaviour, especially when you're just dating