Can a Fearful Avoidant Become Secure and Trust Again?

Can a fearful avoidant learn to trust again?

Discover the steps necessary for someone with this attachment style to effectively build trust, lower their defenses, and become more comfortable with vulnerability.

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Question from @art_by_yulia
#AttachmentStyle #FearfulAvoidant #Trust #Betrayal #Relationships

[DinzyLinzy]

I learned I was an FA four years ago. I've been working on it, since then. I still get the triggers, but I can see them when they're happening now. I see the choice. So I use the tools to soothe myself, and work through the feelings. Before, I always felt like I was at the mercy of everything going on inside of me. It was dissociate, or be engulfed. I'm so grateful for everything I've learned from these videos. PDS has truly changed my life. ❤

[r_and_a]

one of the endless reasons PDS is my favorite resource for attachment theory material is how inspiring & motivating it is to know thais "earned secure" after being FA 💜

i know we can be an incredibly frustrating attachment style for those who care about us (as can most "insecure" types, tbf 😇) & wish all the best with their personal development

[aspiringrootwoman]

#1 made me burst into laughter 😂 I've noticed the expectation of perfection lately bc without the illusion, there's a real uncertainty and anxiety over not having a clear way to tell if a person is good for me or not, if I'm ok or not 😢

[MsCaitlin]

Good thing I’m not fearful avoidant wheww

[polo]

Well. It's a pitty that she never understand it and she discarded me without any good reasons and my fault

[ChristopherBaillarie-mcoi]

That's aftter passing the several walls of defensiveness that would most probably prevent them from hearing you and whatever boundries you might share with them...

[BebeLove-vm]

When you Love someone enough and seek God's help.❤❤

[nickus]

And when you do that, you see them stonewall you... it can be such a lonely feeling..

[art]

Imposible! They are a hopeless cause.