Matthew Hussey: Dealing With Breakup

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[alexzheng]

Matthew Hussey is such a wonderful being. It takes courage to leave or to forgive, but it’s only a matter of time that sooner or later you’ll heal anyway, but with this mindset/idea you’re more likely to be happier sooner or to make peace with yourself.

[anaramos]

Many times you expect too much from the person you're having a relationship with, and that person cannot give you as much as you'd like to. Sometimes you create the image of a person that doesn't exist in reality, it's only your wish of finding the "perfect one".

[junecash]

To be honest and quite frank, I do not believe most people set out with bad intentions. I believe there is more misunderstandings, misguided perceptions, social pressure, generally poor communication, confusion and fear. more than intended evil. When people hate or bad talk an ex usually that means they actually probably still have intense feelings for that person. Fine line between love and hate. It's easier to blame someone than to take responsibility for ones mistakes. Plus it makes them look bad hello you picked that person!
My truth I may get mad, even yell and cry but then as I grieve and calm down and look at the bigger picture I am able to forgive and even if I am angry, ie hurt I don't hate that person really I hated the act that hurt me.

[samantha]

I think just forgive them and let them go is doing yourself, self-worth for loving yourself.

[transcendence]

The only person that can make you happy is you and that goes for everyone.

[Liz-dragon-street.]

We wanna say that the person is evil. But in fact the person doesn't love you.
Exept it and move on.
And yes you can love the person without getting love but you have 2 let go and wish them all the best.

💚🙏

[araceligil]

That is so true. It is a perception of the person in the relationship and the wounds carried into it as well.

[teresalopez]

Well said. That just hit me. Been going through this right now...thank you. You are right.

[mikewizoski]

My ex has Aspergers he was the most wonderful and terrible person at the same time. I miss him my heart is broken

[binishrizvi]

This was much needed to hear 😇Thanks Matthew 💕

[joanneemerson]

I can agree with this except where that person is a Narcissist. Narcissist are evil and knows exactly what they are doing. I am in therapy to heal from the evil he did to me. Yes, no matter a good/bad person or Narcissist we do need to leave the relationship for peace & happiness.

[fayekalantzis]

You're absolutely right everybody has different dynamics with each other

[pareltje]

This is true. We want to know why.. we questioning allot.. But it is as it is and was. It just did not maked you happy, but it drained you.. And God created you to life your life to the fullest. You have permission to choose you. You re worth it!

[FlowerChyld]

I believe that "hatred" in relationships happens when we feel the entitlement of the other person to make us happy, fulfill our needs and when they Don't, it's a powder-keg of anger from Years of feeling disempowered finding a light.

[nancywong]

Thank you Matthew. So succinctly explained.

[angelap]

I think this explains why I've never had bad breakups. While i may not accept someone in my life, I don't mark them as evil, just not right for me. I naturally see the good in people. I never associated this to why I am still friendly to all my exes.

[ggribok]

Oh he was evil, selfish reasons why I lived with a broken heart.
Closing the door to this chapter so I can have my life’s ambition back. My soul is good & will not be stomped on.

[bobbythekid_music]

When you realise being kind is the strongest version of yourself

[shripadnerurkar]

Matthew’s insights are so so helpful ❤

[WenRes-texo]

So true. . . So many things we can't force. . . You said it right so many times love only isn't enough. . .