If You Feel Like You LOST The One, WATCH THIS! | Matthew Hussey

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We’ve all experienced this relentless form of self-torture . . .

Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today.

Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel universe you’ve created in your mind.

This week, my brother Stephen and I answer the question, “Is it possible to ‘blow it’ with the right person?” and share how you can turn self-loathing into a better relationship with yourself (and your future partner).

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[dn]

A doctor once told me:
*“If a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does”*

[celestemaldonado]

“If it’s meant to be, you can’t mess it up. If it’s not meant to be, you can never get it right.”

[jubaerrabby]

The quote that helped me " If you can love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you will love the right person"

[andreaharris]

A qoute that helped me is that "you did what you did because you felt how you felt and now it is what it is"

[sarawilby]

My self forgiveness mantra:
‘I trust myself that I did the best I could and that I’m still doing the best I am able to’

[mpolokeng]

"People change when they are ready, not when they think it's a good idea" - Matthew Hussey 👌🏽

[marionenzer]

"Wishing to have done something different is wishing to be a different person". Powerful

[AEsir]

A favorite quote I wish I had heard ages ago; “ it’s possible to commit no errors and still lose, that’s not weakness it’s life”

[s.andrade]

A quote that has helped me and is fitting for this video: “What happened happened, and couldn’t have happened any other way... because it didn’t” -Peter Crone

[milaalt]

Sometimes when you get with the person you always wanted after you did all the right things, you realize in the end that they still were not meant for you.

[elizabethrose]

he said "You did what you did because that's who you were then" and I burst into tears.

but it's very true

[missfiiona]

I've been watching Matthew Hussey for years but this video broke me down to tears. I'm currently going through the worst heartbreak of my life and having a terrible time accepting the breakup due to feelings of guilt and constantly thinking "what if I hadn't said this or done this." Thank you, Matthew, for constantly guiding viewers like myself and helping us see the light at the end of the tunnel.

[maria-irocharokopou]

For anyone who is struggling with guilt, shame, inner critic and self-hate as a pattern, please first look deep down to where it comes from, and then remember that it is so unfair for yourself to carry the 100% responsibility of this relationship's viability on your shoulders. There are two players in this game, and it's rarely just one single thing that kills a solid relationship.

[IEVAKambarovaite]

*And sometimes you realise your dream person is not your dream person at all.* And then you're going through the most challenging inner battles, experiencing personal heartbreak with yourself trying to figure out where to go/what to do next..

[randomlywonderworld]

It's hardest part is to see them move on so quickly. Like whatever you shared doesn't matter anymore

[Jules-]

I think i ruined my relationship because I was acting based out of fear and not allowing myself to be vulnerable.

[vernvilar]

Matthew's still saving us thousands of dollars in therapy. Thank you.

[paulabrown]

When I need a little self-love during heartbreak, there's a quote that I refer to that has been helping me and I'm hoping it will help anyone who is going through a tough time and needs some comfort. The quote is: "My heart may be broken but my vision is clear." It helps you tell yourself - lesson learned! Hugs to all who are heartbroken and in the process of healing. ❤️

[Jessica_Dufour]

“I don’t get the insight without the heart break.” Absolute gold! Not all relationships are meant to last forever. Souls come into our lives to help us transform and evolve. Losing an amazing person is such a transformational catalyst!

[maysboy]

I think it’s important for me right now after being completely heartbroken to remember that yes there are things I need to improve but there are also things about my ex that needed improved and I was only half of the problem. Having a relationship that lasts requires both people to want to grow and evolve together. I would have done anything for her but she wouldn’t even admit simple faults of hers. I believe the one will be as committed to understanding and loving me as I was committed to loving and understanding her