The No. 1 Rule to Avoid Heartbreak

remember: Your value is your value.

#shorts #MatthewHussey #Heartbreak #DatingAdvice

[IsabellRN]

I swear this guy never fails to speak directly to me

[idathelioness]

I realized when I loved myself more than my partner and finally I was happy living alone..here is my self-worth...I am special, I am perfect and I love myself as I am ❤❤❤

[talking_Twinkle]

I have my own value nobody gives it or takes it away

[CrystalDatingCoach]

That's why it's Important to keep your STANDARDS while in a Relationship.

[ValentinaWithFeathers]

I do love myself, but I also grew up in a highly dysfunctional household unable to form stable relationships with the people who were supposed to love me unconditionally. When this pillar of life is missing, it's really hard not to succumb to loving being in a relationship, feeling unconditionally loved for the first time and feeling like dying inside when the relationship fails.

[judyperri]

It’s sad if you think your value is only because of someone else😢

[Djkarmena]

I gained so much value when i walked away from the last mistake 😊

[LuckyPeonyFlower-szqk]

Nobody has ever pointed this out before... and its been dead on accurate with me

[jensrasmussen]

That purely depends if the person that you were in relationships with was a narcissist. that can truly cost you your values

[Amber]

Spot on💯💯💯 It is also important who you hang out with. The right people make you believe in yourself and stand in your strength. The wrong people make you feel small and make you believe that you need them. so important to realize that they are the problem. Self-esteem is only destroyed by the wrong people.

[Lexi_Con]

When someone's words/behavior conveys they don't respect or value you, continuing to tolerate that tells them it's ok to repeat it. Don't be afraid to lose someone who doesn't appreciate your worth. If they don't make an effort to prove otherwise, then maybe they don't really deserve you anyway.

[olady]

Thank you❤
I almost lost myself.
Thank you for reminding me 🎉❤

[joannagabrieli]

Interestingly enough everyday I was with him, I lost more and more of me. So I lost who I was and lost my self I like who I am now that I've taken the time to heal

[daljitvirdi]

This is deep Matthew. ❤ your self first to the point that it means you see your value and worth! If people value you fine if they don't you should be OK with that!, 😊💖🙏

[jakeindyrealtor]

Being honest…I did this. I didn’t realize I was doing this until she left and I had time to process my feelings. But I was absolutely doing this exact thing.

[lindaalfonso]

My value has nothing to do with anyone else.

[nuzairaintikhab]

Learnt this the hard way. Was dumped then was proceeded with a friendship after 2 months that i didn't agree to feom the heart but had to say yes to as i was afraid to lose the person. After some months i realized that was the biggest mistake of my life. As he got comfortable with disrespecting and not to mention the friendship was on his terms only.

[johnsonjj]

I think the issue is, it doesn’t matter how much we value ourselves….when someone we want to value us doesn’t, it hurts. That’s the reason so many kids grow up damaged, because they just wanted to feel valued by their parents but never got that.

[Seraphim]

Amen, value never came from Anything or Anyone outside of ourselves, So Good🎯💯💯

[amygerstle]

❤❤❤ unfortunately my value is affected by the way i am treated by other people, relationships and friendships and situations that became toxic and i am becoming more and more of a hermit to avoid mistreatment and being hurt.