The Secret to Getting Closure When They End It

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[carmenkamberos]

“ Divorce is okay. Breaking up
Is okay. Moving on is ok. Being alone is ok. What is not okay is Staying somewhere you are not valued or appreciated.”

[Rebecca-xwji]

"It's so pointless to ever worry about who we weren't enough for in the past, because you're not who you were in the past." Spot on. Thank you!

[tomdrummy]

There are many people that will never give you a straight answer……..or they may not know the answer themselves.

[thenotsostarvingartist]

The cognitive dissonance between who we thought/wished they were can be so difficult to reconcile. Accepting that reality is just all we can do, I’ve learned

[funnygirlever]

Sometimes there's no closure for now or ever. His actions says it all. Have your own closure. You know your worth. Make peace for yourself. You dodged a bullet again. He came to teach a lesson and learn it fast. Let go to make room for better. I'm letting go and making peace with my own answers. I had enough and I know what I did. I deserve better and won't settle for less. Bye! Peace out! Thanks for the lessons and showing me I need to love myself better and more.

[janelupo]

"Don't distract yourself from the moment in your life when it's your turn to be chosen by obsessing over a time when it was your turn to be rejected". DING DING DING! WINNER!!! Thank you Matthew!!!

[coolbreeze]

It's so interesting when you start hanging out with someone you haven't seen in decades and realize that a lot about them hasn't changed. I never know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

[jenmks]

The takeaway for me "there are more of them out there for you, you must apply all of your learnings to the next person. its very tempting to over emphasize the importance of "the one that got away" and feel you need to go back and get something more from them or fix or change something you did to get closure with THAT person, that is a trap. You must realize, it just was not the right time, you are valuable just keep going, keep learning and you'll free yourself and find your best mate.

[WebProfitSolutions]

My partner of 9 years has just broken it off. She can’t give me a reason why. The weird thing is that we get along brilliantly (even now), we have a heap in common and we rarely argue as we are both good at considering one another’s viewpoints. I know she isn’t seeing anyone else either. It would make it easier if she could at least give me a reason, but without that reason I cannot do anything to rectify any issue that I’m not aware of. Physically on the outside I am a big strong male… but on the inside I feel weak & broken. I want to be angry with her but I just care for her too much to be angry . I just feel sad and am still in shock 😢

[wootenkristy]

This is the video I needed because my ex-boyfriend blindsided me by breaking up very suddenly, and I’m struggling with moving forward after it. I now feel much better about my own mindset now. I was battling with myself over what I might have done wrong. Looking back more clearly now, it wasn’t about me. It was about him not being in the place he needs to be for a more serious relationship, which I now see. Thanks for all of the wonderful advice, Matthew. I’ve read your book and have been a subscriber, and the growth I’ve been able to achieve over the last 2 years since I’ve been following your advice has been immeasurable.

[goodshepherd]

One point l liked so much" don't think he or she is the only person in the world who can make us happy. Forget them if they ignore you and live life to the fullest, make some changes in life, eat, and do exercise read books and develop hobbies. Thank you so much Matthew your great fan from India.

[zerooskil]

I would love to forward think and ask them the question the problem is no one is honest and yet everyone wants everyone to grow and learn, but like how tf would that be possible if no one is honest, honest real answers are what gives learning worthy information and nothing else. 🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻

[satarupaganguly]

I'm going through a very rough breakup and thank you so much for this video. I hope I get out of this alive.

[mytwilightobsession]

sometimes they give you a reason thinking it will provide closure and it doesn't. I was told during the breakup that i'll be the one that gets away and i treated him the best of all others, and that i was the nicest/most thoughtful, that he was attracted to me... Yet he didn't "feel the things he should feel" - this wasn't closure for me, it was for himself.

What it left me with was feeling confused. If i was so great, why didn't he feel like he could love me? Been wracking my brain all week. I guess i just need to accept what is and try to move forward, no matter how hurt i am.

[sheioyella]

Been trying to get closure but he doesn't want to have a sit down talk with me. And now I have to heal the hard way

[vaidap]

Much more difficult has been for me to get closure when I’m the one that had to walk away

[sahirarahim]

One word; Matthew is one of a kind and genius. ✨ He is a mind-blown!

[sarahhalawa]

I’ve been following Matthew since I was 18 and I’m 25, never disappointed me Im really glad that I was lucky enough to find out about you ❤

[m_hall]

I've watched some of your videos on and off over this past year. Absolutely hands down the best video you've ever made. Spoke directly into how I've been feeling lately. It's always good when you feel understood and not alone in circumstances. Appreciate the work you do. Sounds like the area of "challenge" is definitely the biggest area to work on my life. You should make more videos on this subject (if there isn't already I'll have to check)

[planecard]

YOUR NOT A PRISONER OF YOUR OWN FEELINGS. THE DOOR IS WIDE OPEN. FREE YOURSELF, LET GO..