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00:00:00 - Intro
00:00:30 - Sign #1: Consistency
00:02:54 - Sign #2: Clear Communication Of Needs
00:04:09 - Sign #3: Needs Are Communicated In The Positive
00:05:07 - Sign #4: They Will Text You Back
00:06:03 - Sign #5: Open Up In Smaller Ways
00:06:39 - Sign #6: They Will Let You Know They Need Space
00:07:59 - 7-Day Free Trial: Dismissive Avoidant In the Six Stages of A Relationship
00:08:48 - Sign #7: They Will Bring You Around Friends
00:09:33 - Conclusion

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[ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

DAs! Does this video resonate with you!? What would you add to the list?

[ollis]

Being with a DA is like constantly idling your engine, waiting to start the voyage. Only to find out that your tank will be empty by the time they want to start.

[iAmCoded]

It's the fact that you need to watch a youtube video to figure out if they like you

[rashidarowe]

It's a push and pull dynamic, hot and cold, you can never get comfortable around them, if you want a healthy relationship, don't get involved with them.

[cappygurl]

Save yourself the heartache. Become secure so you can attract and find a secure partner. This is from someone who went from very insecure to secure. Get out of the insecure dating pool, you will be glad you did.

[brownell.landrum]

The key distinction here is that this is how they behave at the beginning of a relationship with there is no threat of emotional intimacy. Everything changes when that happens.

[lafemmeprada]

The journey with the DA ex ended a few years ago. I’m still on this journey to undo what he did to me. I’m so damaged.

[ummjunayd]

Regardless of what the explanation is, you can be considerate without having to partner with someone. It’s not your job to fix anyone’s attachment style and if you’re not being loved the way you need to, staying with someone who doesn’t have the capacity deprives you of meeting someone who actually does. Don’t explain your feelings away. If it hurts and affects your self esteem then leave it.

[dmitryisaev]

Their input in relationship with you feels like nasal drops and that is spread over long period of time… Virtually it is a torture being with them…

[TrueMa-kc]

Recently learned I'm a DA. Now I understand some of the dumb things I've done to blow things up right when it was getting good.

[lil-]

The 7 signs in the video:

1. Consistency: they will operate in fear versus interest. The pivotal part is that fear appears when they find they are getting attached at some level, not at the start. Shame, rejection, etc. they do not come in line, but when they start feel vulnerable.
2. They make an effort when needs are communicated directly: they will put the work when they are interested and you communicate needs correctly. Because of this, when not communicated directly, they can understand you do not have them.
3. They make an effort when needs are communicated in the positive: “you never do the dishes” versus “I could use your help”. If interested, they will show up when in the positive.
4. Texting back: not as quickly as other attachment styles. DA will take longer to respond but at a slow pace: 24h at most…
5. They will open up but in smaller ways: “I enjoy spending time with you” but not “I miss you”. They are less vulnerable than other attachment styles
6. They will let you know that they need space: that is what they expect. But they will want you to understand that if interested in you. If not, not interested.
7. They will bring you around their friends: not immediately, not a lot of them, but they will. Slowly but surely.

[louisaross]

Great video. Made me realise that my DA ticked all these boxes. 6 weeks ago I asked him if there was anything between us after 15 months and he couldn’t answer me. So I had no choice than to walk away. I’m so sad about it, but know I can’t guess forever. This video made a lot of sense. Thank you

[FrankM]

I admire Thais spinning dismissive avoidants in such a positive light, where they actually communicate. I really want to believe this fantasy, but I wouldn't want to waste much time on a dismissive avoidant.

[grabbelton]

Texting back is something that almost seems impossible. I hate that. I stopped texting

[madelinecadieux]

I am a DA, maybe not on the extreme end but I am married to a secure attached and have learned a lot from him. I've actually dated more extreme DA in the past and that was not easy, but I think I managed it because I have the same traits. I can't speak for everybody, but I go through the world alone and I don't believe anyone should help me. Asking for help doesn't even cross my mind most of the time. I find being vulnerable very difficult and worry about people's judgement when I open up. I'm slowly learning how to go about it. It takes a lot of work, recognition and self reflection to change these habits learned from childhood. I know people are really rough on DAs (trust me, I know it can be a nightmare to date one) but some of us at least..when we find someone who loves us and teaches us what real love is, I am sure we can return that love in the way we know how and work on ourselves.

[careitina]

It is so sad that one's self-esteem has to be so severely damaged to the point of getting attracted by crumbs of attention...like-if the person texts you back at all !

[mdmcpherson]

And for some people like an FA like me these things will still not be enough

[elizabethmusser]

Guess my DA has never been interested :/. He says he loves me but doesn't text, isn't consistent and doesn't care about my needs when I am clear and direct. Tired from this better without.

[RoyPragyan]

It doesn't matter if she likes me or not. This kind of relationship is not good for my mental health. So I have to leave her even if I like her. It's just not possible for me...

[Sifu_Black]

I can attest to this video as a DA. These are in fact things I do when first getting to know someone. However, I do these things to make sure the woman I'm interested in reciprocates that interest. There's no use in "letting it all hang out" if she isn't interested in me. 🤷🏿‍♂️ Great breakdown!