INFJ & ENFP - The most compatible relationship?

INFJs are the rarest personality type in the world. They are idealists, advocates, and dreamers. INFJs are equally idealistic when it comes to romantic relationships. ENFPs are characterized by their charisma and enthusiasm. They are creative, charming, independent, and energetic. When it comes to relationships, ENFPs also bring their enthusiasm. For people with this personality type, relationships are a joyous process of mutual exploration, and a chance to connect with another person. Though INFJs and ENFPs seem like different personalities, they are quite compatible. Watch this video to find out why!

Disclaimer: The MBTI is a personality inventory designed to roughly identify a person’s personality type, split into 16 categories. As such, it may be prone to not quite hitting the mark for everyone: so take it as a list of rough tendencies rather than strict classifications. This video/article’s primary intention is for providing entertainment and light-hearted content backed up by properly-vetted professional sources.

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[genasi]

INFJs just gather together in MBTI YouTube videos instead of actually meeting new people. That's why there's a lot of us here. :^D

[ICEcoldJT]

“Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people.
You shouldn’t drink poison just cuz you’re thirsty.”

[Saliha]

I'm an ENFP and my fiance is INFJ. One of the greatest compliments he ever gave me is that I quieten his mind. I love him so much because we communicate effortlessly, we literally complete each other's thoughts most of the time; it's borderline telepathic. We make each other feel so loved and cared for and respected. But I will say, if you want an ENFP and INFJ relationship to work, both of you have to have the same values, since INFJs have very very strong values and ideals. I just feel so lucky that my and his values coincide so well.

[Kkwbia]

As an INFJ, I was literally amazed by how my current boyfriend who is ENFP flew through all those social layers that I created to isolate myself to get to me. Just wow.

[Jonesy]

I once heard that ENFPs are INFJs but just inside-out. ENFPs tend to wear their childlike/playful approach to the world on the outside (so this is what most people see at first) but have quite a reserved inner world on the inside. On the other hand, INFJs tend to wear their more reserved self on the outside but have a childlike, explorative inner world. It would make a lot of sense considering ENFPs and INFJs have the same cognitive function ordering but inverted.

[bummie]

the infj’s in the comments are talkin about us enfp’s like we’re on amazon prime 😭

[thehumanbeings]

when i did the test a few years back, i was an enfp but recently i am an infj, so i guess i have the most compatible relationship with myself :")

[sorcha]

I'm an ENFP and my ex was an INFJ and we had A LOT of conflict. There's a lot more to people than their personality type. In romantic relationship for example, attachment plays a huge role. I was avoidant, she was anxious, and so we were both triggering each other and caught in an anxious-avoidant loop for 4+ years. Yes, we shared similar values and visions, we were both creative and idealistic, we had a lot of fun together, and to a large extent, we just got each other right off the bat. But unfortunately we didn't last because we couldn't work many other things out. As interesting as these personality categories are, they can be way too generalised.

[haru-fkyu]

Psych2Go : INFJ &ENFP the most compatible couple
also psych2go : INFJ world's rarest
me an ENFP : no wonder im still single

[Prismpunk]

I just met my INFJ. I’ve never felt this connected to someone else as an ENFP. I’m honestly just stunned. I never found what I was looking for in over 30 years and she walks into my life and changes everything. I’m in tears right now. I’ve never been this happy.

[angelasheppard]

ENFP here 🎉🎉🎉 You INFJs are the most amazing people. You understand me! What a breath of fresh air in a world full of people who don't see the beauty in the world.

[itsnemosoul]

As an INFJ the difficulty I've seen is ENFPs being very fast paced with the expectations for the relationship. The INFJ takes a long time to trust and form meaningful relationships. If you push them too far they might feel like you're not seriously emotionally invested and shut you out even though you're just at a different point in thought process.

[somethingcreative]

As an INFJ it’s good to know there’s alot of ENFP’s in the world because I’m totally gonna leave my room

[haru]

to all single infjs reading this, i hope we will find our enfp soon :)

[november]

I FOUND MY ENFP! I REPEAT, I FOUND MY ENFP!!!!

[peachi_mixi]

As an ENFP girl and has an INFJ bestie, this video perfectly sums up our relationship. I literally cannot imagine a life without her like I LOVEEE her so much. We’re like peas in a pod and have never seperated since meeting in primary school. I remember constantly meeting her every week and it got to the point where we became family (her brother married my cousin) and now she has a boyfriend (i was wing-woman :^) keke) which made me so happy and proud of her. I can proudly say we’ll stay together till we’re old and gray 💚

[alexandrina]

If anyone’s interested, It’s also down to their cognitive functions.

INFJ = NiFeTiSe
ENFP = NeFiTeSi

Their functions mirrors each other, that’s why they’re compatible

[samanthaeichler]

I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. I can say this relationship has been the most compatible and healthiest I've ever been in.

[shiftagamingfps]

Emotion is not a frequent visitor for me as an INTJ, but this video of INFJ and ENFP compatibility was a truly touching exception. I found myself moved in a way that's quite uncommon for me. Seeing the profound understanding, connection, and mutual respect between the INFJ and ENFP characters was deeply inspiring and genuinely touching.

The emotional intelligence of an INFJ, their depth of thought and their quest for authentic connections, complemented by the enthusiasm, creativity, and warmth of an ENFP, struck a chord within me. I couldn't help but envision myself experiencing a similar connection and harmony in a potential relationship.

The complexities and beauty of this unique relationship dynamic brought a rare tear to my eye. I appreciate this empathetic and thoughtful portrayal that extends beyond common stereotypes about personality types. Truly an emotional and enlightening journey!

[jiji_lilzie_]

My boyfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. I relate to everything in this video. We never argue and always talk to each other if we feel that something is slightly wrong. We thrive from bringing up small annoyances and constantly changing to adapt to each other.