ENFP & INFJ: Questions We’ve Never Asked Each Other Before

Meet Theo (ENFP), one of my dearest friends who's presence has always made this lil INFJ feel incredibly valued. Theo and I thought of questions we’d never asked each other before to explore new understandings of our friendship dynamic with complete honesty.

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[armalvior]

INFJ = Extroverted Introverts
ENFP = Introverted Extroverts

They're the waking paradoxes

[MrsAna-yzkn]

...and that’s what happens when you put an ENFP and INFJ in the same room, constant moments of ongoing laughter.

[silentgrove]

One of the things I notice with ENFPs is the eye toggle. This seems to get more rapid the more deeply they are processing ideas. Especially when a new idea hits this goes off at an astonishing rate. I suspect this is Ne being seen on the outside, exploration. Ni eyes seem to stay fixed as ideas just pour in and get absorbed. If I had to state this poetically ENFPs explore truth while INFJs witness truth.

Watching in certain parts 5:26 feeling a deep warmth from the INFJ engagement towards her ENFP friend.

My favourite videos in this community are seeing ENFPs and INFJs together.

[megantyler]

As an INFJ, gearing yourself up emotionally/spiritually for challenges and fearing ignorance is too real!

[octavia]

I think the self reflection that an INFJ does alone, in ENFPs happens when taking to others. I need friends to listen to my story and get feedback and the more I tell my story the more clarity I get. I also converse with myself too and think about solutions to problems but I always love to confront my friends. ENFPs can really be blindsided and ignore red flags and negativity around them because they focus on the positive, which is often enough to keep them motivated to go on. I need my friends to tell me "but what about this aspect?"

[claudiarivas]

I got watery eyes when you told him you appreciate him being so interested in trying to listen and understand what you say. My type is INFJ, too, and in my circles of friends and family I've got no one with this eagerness to listen and get what I have to say. I got used to people talking over me.

However, about a year and a half ago, as I became an online English conversation tutor, I met a student from across the Atlantic with a great level of English. The thing is, he was the first person ever who, I saw, wanted to listen to my deepest thoughts. Not only did he wait for me to finish speaking, he also asked me about what I said to deepen his understanding of it. Naturally, it felt weird for me, but it was nice-weird. I felt seen, heard and appreciated as never before. And there's this easy going energy I feel whenever we meet.

I don't know if his type is ENFP, but I said all of this just to point out how important it is for me as an INFJ, who is used to being the listener and observant thinker, to connect with people who want to know what I think.

Loved your video! It is a lovely friendship you have there ♥

[Boogernaught]

Oh my, enfp understanding you’re not lacking assertiveness but patiently giving the most considered response! ❤️ And Gianna, appreciated you explaining the priority for objectivity and diplomacy.

[io-rjsk]

yo i got an enfp friend and he has like the exact same smile as theo 15:46 holy shit. i wonder if its typical for enfp males to have slightly goofy but really kind looking smiles like that

[favouradis]

When he said I like to ask questions I was like true ENFP 😂😂😅

[thanj]

How surreal. This lady listens intently and mmhs while she listens like I do. I had a similar conversation with an ENFP about 2 months ago! Milestones, things I was proud of and I honestly responded that I have yet to get there, almost drawing a blank and yet 3 years ago I had achieved a major milestone in my life by any standard! We as INFJs tend to feel there is much more we can do and achieve according to our own standards..

[formulafacebookfan]

gah there are so many things that i want to reply; it'd be an essay!


"I just have a fear of ignorance" is 100% me. But also, ignorance is truly bliss.

[adrienaste]

In the eye's connection to the girl INFJ, she inevitably resembles me knowing that I am INFJ-T too

[GO-FORTH-MINISTRY]

This interaction reminds me of my day to day conversations with my mother. She took the cognitive test and got ISFP but to me, I always thought she was an INFJ. She's very much nurturing with everyone's thoughts even if it is against her morals--she'll listen. She's so patient to explain things thoroughly, step by step instead of throwing up a bunch of words at the speed of light, like me(I'm enfp lmao). She has a way of delivering her words and connecting ideas flawlessly. Also her values are everything and she's great at routine. With all that being said, I could go on saying more but this interaction speaks to me because I am an ENFP with a low level of extroversion and I get along so well with my mother than with my father, who's an ESTP but he's more on the unhealthy side as he's quite abusive. All in all, my mother definitely keeps me grounded and she made me value 1:1 connections, and I provide her that extrovert cushion whenever we go out. She's super introverted, not shy as she's not afraid to speak up for herself but reserved. It's difficult for her to initiate conversation with people so I encourage her by starting it off and once she finds something to relate then she starts feeling comfortable. Anyways, just wanna give a big thank u for making this video Gianna! Your friendship with Theo is so genuine. You rock!! 💖💖💖💖

[jaegeristsupremacy]

the moment i saw the thumbnail, i knew who exactly who was enfp..

enfp over here :)

[berkaytugrel]

You guys are the cooolest ENFP-INFJ type ever! I am an INFJ and it reminded me, me and my best girl friend ENFP. Love uuuu... You're amazing by the way.

[heritage.home.crochet]

I agree with him about not really wanting to take advice from others, the Fi is so sound in us ENFPs that we don't really..."trust" others' advice UNLESS it strikes very much in harmony with what our Fi is telling us.

[freidenkerin]

Awww so much love in this comment section! 🤗

[octavia]

Hahahah look at the ENFP struggling because he's not the one talking first 😂

[kuro_tadori]

Love how genuine you guys are, great video. And to hear another type talk is always so helpful when I try to learn more about them.

[bchilii]

Love this video, Gianna! I thought it was so sweet that your greatest accomplishment was the kind of daughter you have been for your parents. I think we take that for granted sometimes and underestimated how beautiful and lucky we are to have that connection (because a lot of people don't experience it). When you are so used to it, it doesn't seem like an accomplishment but rather just a given. So to hear you describe how valuable that is to you, it really warmed my heart and reminded me of how big of an accomplishment these connections actually are. Once again, loved this video <3!