INFJ and ENFP Relationship | Why they're perfect together

✨Dive into the ENFP & INFJ magic with me.✨ This stunning pair compliment each other in what I believe to be one of the most compatible relationships of all myers briggs personality types. We'll look at...

- INFJ and ENFP attraction
- INFJ and ENFP compatibility
- INFJ and ENFP chemistry
- INFJ and ENFP friendship
- INFJ and ENFP differences
- INFJ and ENFP similarities

...and...

- The PROs and CONs of an INFJ and ENFP relationship.

In the end, I hope you'll begin to discover the beauty and magic INFJ and ENFP relationships. INFJ and ENFP relationships are some of the most beautiful in the world to me. I personally have been in an INFJ and ENFP relationship, and it was the best romantic relationship I've ever had (and one of the best friendships I've ever had too!) Honestly, our friendship connection was just as beautiful as our romance. INFJ ENFP relationships aren't perfect, and I'll show some of the differences and cons of this pairing. INFJ and ENFP conflict is real too. However, if both the INFJ and ENFP love each other and invest themselves selflessly into the relationship, I don't think you can find a more magical connection. I poured my heart and soul into this video, so I hope you enjoy it! Let me know if you want to know more about this dynamic pairing.

All my love,

Christine

*Here's the Paired Life article on "Why the ENFP and INFJ are Perfect for Each Other"! Such a great read:

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[luizbezerra]

I’m INFJ and my girlfriend is ENFP, and it’s being my best relationship so far! (I’m 33 btw)

Edit: we got married recently and everything is being awesome!

[sucetonraisin]

The hugging part hit me hard. I (INFJ) remember exactly how I felt when we hugged for the first time. Felt so safe, understood and accepted by the other person.

[ROXIERAWLS]

I'm an INFJ my late husband was an ENFP. When he died only 2 months ago my world fell apart. The energy between us was unbelievable. Hugging him was medicine. I am so lost now.

[animag]

I'm ENFP. I had INFJ gf 8 years ago but the hugging thing and communicating without words hit me HARD so I cried like a baby. It was hard to me to explain back then (I was like 25, unaware freshly graduated college student) that we felt like we can own the world and achieve everything from day 1. Even sitting in silence was mesmerizing. I have never experienced anything like that again. We were together only for almost a year but it felt like we were married for 20 years. Unfortunately I screwed up and burnt a bridge behind. So stupid and cursed fool I was. Now I am older and working as a leadership trainer, luckily smarter, so I won't let go another girl like her. Well, only if I finally find such a girl in the world. Anyway, everything best to you and thank you for the video. It was like a time travel to me.

[arayascurls]

the infj-enfp pair is God-sent! i’m an infj and he’s an enfp. we understand each other. i always say we’re the same, but opposite. two halves of the same circle. we grow together. sitting in silence, long night drives, communicating through eyes, random text messages and inside jokes. a “safe space.”

[CWatsonD]

I've been with my ENFP husband for over 30 years. It's still great.

[blossomingwellness]

The INFJ / ENFP bond is truly unparalleled :)

[bodid]

I’m an ENFP and I met an INFJ playing video games. We talked and played until after midnight for 4 nights before her boyfriend shut it down. I’ve never connected so quickly and easily with anyone before. We spoke the same language. Now my heart is hurting because I miss my friend. 😢

[darkbluealpha]

I had an INFJ-ENFP relationship once. (I'm INFJ and I'm sure she was an ENFP because the description fits perfectly.) What you said about differences in core values is absolutely true. It was one of the main reasons she broke up with me. What I also might add : looking back, it seems to me that she kind of felt too restricted in our relationship. I was often "down to earth", structured and she felt like she couldn't be totally free. That was never my intention; I wanted her to be happy.
INFJ-ENFP relationships are often romanticized and presented like they're meant to be. But if one of the people in this relationship has lived serious traumas from the past, it'll be very hard and energy-draining to maintain the relationship. In my case, she told me about emotional, physical and sexual abuse which resulted in negative reactions towards some of my actions or statements and some of her resentment towards me.
I did mistakes, too. I've gotten better in articulating my emotions but even today I find it really difficult to express them well spontaneously. I've also learned to see behind my trigger points and express what really matters. Learning about how to argue properly will also be a huge benefit, especially as an INFJ.
I'd absolutely be willing to engage in an INFJ-ENFP relationship again. I know the potential of it and with what I've learned from the past, I'm sure a next one will be a lot better in terms of harmony and love.

[MsYellowSkies]

ENFP: so i used to work at an office in my university and whenever i would go back to visit i would see how stressed everyone was. So i went around to each person asking how they felt about getting a hug to lighten their day. I then put up posters of affirming statements and i wrote empowering poems on their dry erase boards. Now whenever i visit everyone lines up for their daily hug which lasts a minimum of 20 seconds per person to ensure they can actually feel the love.

And on special days i stay behind to let them vent and i encourage them with reminders of what they are capable of.


Its my favorite part of going to college. 😂

[getreadywithmemamma]

ENFP married to an INFJ and together for nineteen years ;). By the way, after years together and going through so so much there’s always the playful times, but also the ENFP INFJ work when the ENFP’s inner baby core of emotions meet the wisdom sage and steadfastness of the INFJ. Also, the ENFP eventually finds the inner INTJ ass of the INFJ and then the conflict can happen and the real work and wonder of these two can literally stop, or start wars and bring balance and peace to any system. It’s intense, it takes a long long time to synergize ( new word haha sorry spell check) this amorphous intense power to appear and it takes time but it’s truly beautiful. We are magical and our NF life has been an adventure. Our meta meta meta conversations are intense ;). And now with a long history ;), it’s rewarding. Yep, so easy the whole time to talk with and INFJs are so intelligent, but even more so emotionally intelligent. You guys are beast like in your sage wisdom like being with a wizard :). 😊😊🎉❤❤❤❤

[optimus]

Now I do believe in the observation that most of INFJs women are beautiful, charming, elegant and unique. Moreover intelligent as well. You're wonderful and really fit in what I have just described. Do you know or can you guess what type am I ?

[bryancny]

I have an INFJ best friend, I would call him my soulmate, as an ENFP, we are different and similar at the same time, if I can, I want to have him beside me until the end of the world (ENFP😂)

And he always let me be myself, comfort my soul and emotions, pushes me to be the better version of me

And I just want to say I love him, even my smallest cells from my body, we all want to shout how adorable he is

And I just want him to not work so hard and relax for a little bit and if there is a chance, let me know I am kinda important to him as well … not only me talking about that all the time

However, he makes effort to hang out with me every week, sometime only we two person, sometimes with our friends, so I assume that’s a sign ?? 😢

[ovaiskaku]

Sad that this great video received such few views... I am an INFJ and I agree with everything you said

[brentmcculley]

After listening to you for 30 seconds it’s so clear you are an INFJ. INFJ females are so interesting. I can see your mind moving it’s just like mine. I’m 33 m INFJ

Insanely good vid. Started dating an ENFP 29 f and it’s electric. Trying to keep things slow but I am literally bursting at the seams. I’ve never felt so understood and safe in my entire life. Got out of a long term relationship (11 years) with an unhealthy/depressed INFP. Complete day and night.

[Delphin_Selesthe]

INFJ here! I have just met an ENFP on this few days in my best friend's birthday. We talked a bit and I could see the conection there, it was so cool! She's a bit older than me, but she was so kind and interesting! I think now I know why it was easy to talk with her.

[menoshac]

As an ENFP woman I relate sooo much to this video!!! I miss my INFJ man so much. I really rushed through the relationship and he wanted to take his time. He was a true gentleman and I was absolutely enamored with him. I still am. I had to block contact with him because I was scared it was gonna hurt too much. It’s only been a month since the breakup but damn I regret rushing through things and giving him hell. The relationship was the best I ever had and I felt so safe and secure. Never felt like that before. I felt so happy even doing the most mundane things with him like cooking and cleaning and watching movies lol. But I got scared because he was everything I ever wanted in a life partner. It was too overwhelming for me. I wasn’t ready. But now I just miss him every single day. He’s been trying to contact me a little because I didn’t cut him off on one app and I only realized yesterday he’d been sending me things throughout the month. I just don’t know if I should tell him how I feel or just take it slow. I wish I could pour my heart out to him but I don’t wanna get hurt lol. So I’m hoping and praying he feels the same and I’m just sending replies but it needs to come from him I think. Man this relationship hit me hard lol. I hope we can get another chance at Love. 🙏🏽❤️

[deepakkatarki]

Recently I came to know I'm infj through self reflection and assessment. When I reflect back my life, it makes all sense and I was right, all along.
Life's been tough soo far due to challenges but still optimistic about life. I think an enfj partner will be ideal fit for me and for both. Hopefully will find her soon 🙏.

[EXZ]

I had a lady INFJ in my ENFP life for years, until recently. She was my high-school sweetheart, met when we were 15, and we hit it off from there.
I fought through thick and thin over the years to be there for her, dealing with her unsupportive bigoted controlling parents, even transferring high-schools' in my last year to be there. After school, I wanted to help her get out of the household that had been so crule to her. I moved to a different city with her for a year. After We came back home to live with my Dad and I. We were a couple of free fun-loving spirts for a moment. I fully loved, respected, supported and cared for her. It was a couple of alright years, shit I thought it was REAL LOVE.. with some definite signs, I should've been more open to. She slowly opened my deepest secrets, hopes, dreams, fears, aspirations, she did the same, I thought. She had a drugged up mother that narcissisticly torched her when she was young. She NEVER wanted to anything remotely like her. I made a promise, the first one, that if I should be with her over time I gotta change all those things(Weed/cigarettes)she wouldn't like. Out of the blue, she set out of town for freshmen collage, I joined her a year after. Got a job tossing pizza to get by. I isolated my family, friends to be there, for Her. Subtly throwing everything, Ive opened up about, back in my face. Over the course of the next few years, she broke my heart countless times, every single day. When my Dad was having major health concerns, she even belittled his worries to me.
I foolishly proposed to her, not once but twice, She didnt like HOW I did it. She wore the ring for a month. No conversation about it. She kept me strung along, shameful, codependent, numb SHELL of a person, till recently. I helped her move to another town, by herself this time for an internship. She heartlessly kissed me goodbye, only saying to me: 'Time to rip off the band-aid'
The pizza job I had, was never 'good enough'. Unless it was supporting her long enough for the internship check come through. The day it was most convenient for her, she left. Discarded, it was the week of our 8 year anniversary. Not on her time, when I was there, visiting for our private celebration. It was a week after, over the phone. When I was supposed to be, THERE. At my cousin's wedding. EVERYTHING, is all my fault. I missed that wedding. All the empty promises about me quitting smoking for her had been enough.
I had a life shaking, personal awakening from God. A month after, in the the form of many signs, and synchronicities from the universe about what was REALLY going on. She NEVER wanted to use drugs or alcohol, like her Mom. In her own cold, calculated ways, she used people instead.
I had to surrender, listen, and trust the process. NO contact from there. I knew what I needed. In our last conversation I effectively grey rocked her at every turn, and told her NO MORE. 💯🙃
I WAS FREE!! It hurts like hell, but not like what it was, when I was with HER! 🙏🏼🙌🖤

[xxxPassionxxx]

I 100% agree with all of the things you said! I just LOVE this pairing SO MUCH, it honestly is such a blessing when these two personalities finally find each other in the world, it feels like coming home. They're literally like magnets, they're meant to be together. You should bring your boyfriend on the channel l, it'd be lovely to see your dynamic! Much love to you, keep up the great work. ☺️❤️