How to Avoid UNHEALTHY Relationships

Have you ever found yourself struggling to notice the red flags in someone, and how did you overcome it? Tell me in the comments.

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[BagznBirdz]

Yeah. My parents showed me example of a dysfunctional, violent marriage and raised me to be a people pleaser with no boundaries. Now, at over 40 yrs of age, I'm finally seeing it and working through it.

[Dragonmoon]

Another perspective to go with this, is when seeking advice. Asking those close to you, how they feel about you now. Have they noticed changes in you, both posotive and negative.

One story I heard was how when it came to him and his spouse that all their friends mentioned the positive changes they brought out in each other when they where dating.

[FaithTruthAndGod]

Excellent advice matthew. Thank you. I actually do this with a couple in my apartment complex who have been married for 63 years and are the most adorable loving couple

[katierosecohen]

it is so difficult. 34 years old and i have literally NO CLUE what is normal/healthy. i know some things that definitely aren't ok but i am over-analyzing everything now and it is horrible.

[varsharajput]

I miss u Shrey.. thts the guy who showed me what love should look like..❤

[caffinatedirl]

Work on building a strong friendship with a few good people who are in calm and grounded relationships first, put in the effort, maintian the solid good adult relationships. This can lay the groundwork for a supportive network when you begin dating again. Distance yourself from unhealthy co-dependant or people pleasing friendships and strive to find good, soild supportive friends. It doeant happen overnight. Its hard work just like relationships are, finding the right person requires a supportive network of people to fall back on. And also trusting your own intuition. If it feels off or weird, discuss it with a solid friend. Dont ignore it then double down on someone who isnt right for you. ❤

[shayafendez]

I have a tribe of people who keep me safe from making stupid mistakes coz I gut check with them all the time. Thank You Jesus for this wisdom ❤

[whiggygirl]

Everyone I know has been TERRIBLE at relationships 😢 Who do I ask?!

[nicolecato]

I find ppl want me to listen and be there for them and even if I think I can trust them they don't really want to listen or help me. They don't stay for long in my corner.

[ingrid]

Yes, that's me. I didn't have good examples and good role models around me.. I'm learning!

[kjshow]

Objective reflection of the self is a key for future growth and success.

[SC-gpkt]

You must correct your own dysfunctions first, and get healthy, THEN and only then, will you be able to have a healthy relationship, and you'll be able to recognize wrong behavior in others.

[ulltravioletvenus]

And detecting them but deciding to make the most of it by throwing rose colored glasses on is no longer working for me... at all. Doesn't matter how good I am, it will not come back to me from rotten eggs.

[michealanthony]

Mathew absolutely right i believe you ...i avoid them around the world even my relationship only i accepted positivity persons i've relationship for them ....that all

[artandculture]

The people around me were the worst people to consult. If one is weak in knowing what a romantic relationship should be, one’s circle can be part of the toxic frame of reference. Some like to see you fall.

[REBEKAHJOHNSON-lhxh]

I am SO glad I have my big brother. My parents are divorced. My mother is a cover narcissist, my dad was usually either working or sick, so I didn’t get him much (and I’ve seen some toxic patterns). But my brother is basically my guy filter. And he’s taught me how to filter as well.

[KG-bliss]

A beautiful way to know what could benright or wrong... as long as the person is willing to learn and take in the advice...

[ancientmage]

Look it's harry potter all grown up using his magick again❤😂

[esthers]

Thank you always this insight is really needed

[Dana-fz]

Thank you Mathew‼️‼️‼️appreciate your great advice so very much 💯💯💯bless you friend for sharing 😊✅✅😊