10 Behaviors that Destroy Relationships

Why do relationships fall apart? Relationships can be complicated and fragile. Small mistakes can destroy yours of love, passion, and trust. But you may not realize what you’re doing wrong until it's too late. So, to help you avoid these behaviors, here are a few common behaviors that can damage any relationship.

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Writer: Tristan Reed
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Nayeli Meneses
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[MindPalaceASMR]

Don't enter into relationships with emotionally unavailable people!!!

[danielchoate]

This is incredibly hard to watch when you have left the honeymoon phase, especially if you are practicing some of these habits. I can say that right now I am feeling my heart sink watching this and will remedy my actions because the person I love deserves better.

[madelinevlogs]

The distraction one bothers me so much. With friendships too. If you’re gonna be texting someone else the whole time why bother hanging out?

[BriDoesEverything]

Didn’t realize how many toxic habits I had.. thank you for showing me what I can work on 💛

[tobyisbetterthanmilo]

I had to end my relationship because we could never do anything without his “girl best friend” it put me in an uncomfortable spot, once I asked if I could bring my boy best friend to meet his “girl best friend” and straight up said “Are you cheating on me!?” I was confused.. I ended up finding out that they were secretly dating so ended that relationship.

[megnicole]

When trying to share this video with them becomes a literal fight...😢

[NecroticWes]

To anyone in a relationship

Do NOT constantly bring up old relationships constantly. Don’t compare your partner to you ex ever, whether they were a good ex or a bad ex. Either way you’ll make them feel insecure and terrible. Don’t try and make them change some things about themself just because it reminds you of an ex. It’s damaging to the relationship.

[jennyneon]

*Having a partner that doesn't love you but you love him hurts the most.*

[dreamondreamer]

"You expect your partner to know what you want and what you're thinking all the time, but that's entirely unfair to them. It's your responsibility to vocalize the things you want. If you don't express yourself, your partner will never know anything is wrong. If you expect your partner to magically know all the answers, your relationship may slowly fall apart." this 🙌

[ggamergyall]

Watching this made me realize how much I’ve grown, where I used to display a lot of these behaviours in response to being in a toxic relationship (which I left) but now I can happily say I do none of these things 🥺 thank you for this, I didn’t realize how far I’ve come over the past year

[nox_cadit]

I think you should add "not knowing when to apologise" to the list

[CaveyMoth]

Friendships are like plants; if you don't water them, they die.

[kassietheobald]

me and my partner both do many of the things on the list and we’re certainly in a rocky patch. the relationship could very well end. this is helping me pin point some of these behaviors and i thank you guys for that, hopefully this video can help us both keep from sabotaging our relationship down the road

[mainoble]

I watched this about two months ago and realised I was doing two of these things, which I immediately addressed and now I have rewatched and smiled knowing I now do none, thank you for making me aware of my behaviours, because of this video me and my girlfriend were able to talk about this and change and now we are healthier than ever!

[kendallkhoward]

Not gonna lie, I exhibit some of these things, and I worry about losing my girlfriend over this. My girlfriend already tells me these things, but sometimes it’s hard for me to see them. I needed this today especially: thank you for sharing and helping me realize my faults so I may fix them and keep my relationship alive.

[zen]

You can’t imagine how much you have helped me for the past years..

[danialmuhayat]

I made some of these mistakes ngl.. especially idealizing my partner and expecting too much. and she too made a few of these mistakes. Combined, it became our downfall.

I was so ready for a relationship.. I was so ready to make it till the end. It broke me when we can't make it work. I know we love each other, but I don't think we have the same definition of love. Our language is different, and she wasn't open to make a change. And I wasn't open to accept things how it is. It hurts.

[SonnarGaming]

I used to do a lot of these. I just recently got into a new relationship after taking a 4 year break from dating to just work on finding my true self and I can happily report, older, wiser me no longer does these things

[sophiea]

Behaviour that destroys relationships: not liking me back 😔🤚🏼

[datboi]

1. You stonewall your partner 0:44
2. You're too distracted 1:18
3. You get defensive 1:43
4. You criticize too often 2:22
5. You idealize your partner 2:45
6. You ignore your past 3:09
7. You mislead your partner 3:39
8. You create competition 4:13
9. You shame your partner 4:38
10. You expect too much 4:58
I hope I could help! :D