12 Signs You're in an Unhealthy Relationship

Unhealthy relationships are more common than you think. Often times, we get so wrapped up in ourselves, we don't even realize our relationship problems. So, how can you tell whether your relationship is unhealthy? If you suspect you might be in an unhealthy relationship, here are 12 signs of an unhealthy relationship.

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[Psychgo]

What’s your unhealthy crush? Comment below! ;)

[hrtshota]

If you had to search for this video, that’s a red flag in itself

[Instawise]

Everyone should keep in mind that your partner probably doesn’t even realize they are doing these things. So it’s a better idea to point them out to him/her first and try to see if they work on them before just throwing away the relationship. Just a thought.

[illusionarymeow]

The toughest part is leaving such partner, coz by the time u realise that ur relationship has becoming toxic, u have become quite attached to that person

[romxhlr]

When you realise you don't want to leave but you _need_ to.. that hurts so bad ngl

[ossen]

*Don't get me even started on emotional and physical abuse*
There is no coming back from that. Let go and heal.

[LoreCatan]

"No relationship is better than an unhealthy relationship"

That's a tough one to swallow, considering how many people stay in those situations because for them it's better than being alone.

[rosettesionne]

Lastly, they get angry each time you try to openly communicate with them but expect you to listen to them when they communicate with you

[_Martine_]

Im 40 and I've been single for 10 years, i left my ex because i realized i was the toxic person, i wanted her to be happy.

[vinnilakk]

I'm not even in a relationship but ima watch this anyways

[emargaux]

I was personally in an unhealthy relationship but instead of breaking up, we loved each other too much for that. So we talked things out and made changes little by little. It's worked.

[MDev]

Here's the issue with the guilt and insecurity ones: if you've experienced longterm abuse from other people, you sort of get stuck into always feeling guilty and insecure no matter how people treat you, which is why those who have been in abusive relationships, had abusive family members, etc have a hard time knowing whether or not a relationship is healthy.

[aristarko]

It's hard when your relationship is like a rollercoaster, sometimes you feel or know that you are in a unhealthy relationship but moments after you start to create courage and think about ending things over, your relationship starts to have a really good time and you can only wish that it would never end... It's good till bad things happen again, like a never ending circle.

[ossen]

*Whenever you feel that*
- your energy is drained, not recharged after spending time together
- you don't feel uplifted after meeting your partner
- your partner constantly pokes at you, making fun
You have to go separate ways.

[TheAyumuxChan]

Thanks to all the videos on toxic relationships, I was able to see that my boyfriend wasn't good to me. He was very manipulative and always played the victim card. Thanks to you I was able to break free from him and end our 3 year relationship.
Now I am happier than ever ^^

[stuartharber]

I've just ended a relationship with someone who, on the surface, was perfect and open with love but due to so many past abusive relationships, tended to take insecurities out on me, I ended up putting my life on hold too afraid to admit to her what I was doing as I knew it would end up being an argument which would only end when I took full responsibility on why it started even if I didn't. Did everything I could to make her happy but at the cost of my own happiness.

I've been doubting if I'd made the right decision and this video helped to see that our relationship was actually very unhealthy. Thanks Psyc2go

[guineapigsarecute]

13: when you think of your future, you don't see your partner anywhere.

[summersalix]

1. You fight... A lot (yelling matches)
2. You hide things (lying, dishonesty)
3. This way or the highway (no compromise and discussions)
4. You feel guilty
5. It's one sided
6. They put you down (and dont support you and your dreams)
7. They refuse to Do things that matter to You (no respect)
8. You are Codependent
9. They make u feel insecure
10. They're abusive (verbally, physically, sexually... Get help and get out!)
11. You change yourself to be what they want (they don't love you for you)
12. You're unhappy

[kiyanasimmons]

I loved so much that i had to let my boyfriend go. The relationship felt too codependent that without me he can’t live. Literally. He threatened to kill himself. I had to step away so he can see clearly of the mental abuse he put me through. Making me feel guilty about not being with him. I couldn’t take it anymore.

[synnbloodsuccubus]

Im actually really codependent and insecure. Though my bf does everything he can to make me feel secure the comfort and reassurance doesnt live long and i always revert back to overthinking and all my irrational paranoia. Struggling with bipolar in a relationship is extremely difficult. Sometimes you end up being the one causing all the problems or believing there are a million issues when in reality everything is just fine. Like something in your life is always getting caught on fire somehow and instead of just getting a buvket of water to put out a little flame you think you saw you end up calling for emergency vehicles all for what was just a lightbulb or firefly all along. It sucks and its so confusing not knowing the difference between whats imaginary and whats reality.