How To Get Your Avoidant Ex Back

If your ex is an avoidant person, you may have difficulty when the time comes to reconnect. They tend to be more stubborn, less able to admit their mistakes and more difficult to reach. But there are actually a few reasons that avoidant exes may be MORE likely to give you another shot if you’re able to break through these walls.

If you want your ex back... and they're an avoidant person... this is a must-watch!

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[MsPatriot]

I've listened to a billion videos about avoidant exes. NONE of them offered any hope for the future at all, as in the avoidant turning back and working with the person set aside. This avoidant person is forever hopeless for a relationship according to them. But....your video gave some hope!
I did put my foot down at almost the 6 month mark. That's where I finally showed self-respect and I really stood up to him about not showing up for the relationship. I also told him NO about being friends and walked away. Now we're in No Contact. You said all of this is necessary. Other "coaches" basically say this is the death knoll since the avoidant sees this as abandonment - the very thing they always fear. I felt I had absolutely no choice though if I was to have any value in his mind or mine own.

[brysonadams]

Against all odds me and my girlfriend got back together the other day! I owe it all to you!

[Jo-riiy]

YO BRAD I JUST WANTED TO THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING. Although I did not get my ex back, you encouraged me to work on myself and ive finally moved on! I hope your channel grows and you help millions of other people that are in the same situation i was in🤘

[venkadeshofficial]

Brad After i followed all your tips after 3 weeks of no contact she contacted me today she told she missed me alot itseems Now we are back together stronger than before All this came thru bcz of you!❤ Brad....💯

[hangbachang]

Guys I'm telling you ive tried everything he said and follow the no contact for 30 days and it really works. I've got my ex back. Thank you souch for all the tips and guide. And during this 30 days of no contact even if you don't get your ex back you'll feel better alone and enjoy your own company which eventually makes you happy and independent. So it's a win win situation. You either get you ex back like I did or you enjoy being alone and find another soul mate.
Please pin my comment. So that my brothers and sisters can see what you did for me❤❤❤❤❤

[theneettoknow]

This describes my current situation. I am now stuck between the decision to attempt getting them back or completely letting go. I do want to let him go, as much as I love him, because I can’t see a life with an avoidant partner.

[inyouall]

*A TIP* : To fully engage in a relationship, you need to get to know and love yourself.

[francispellerin]

my ex had issues with two previous toxic relationships. Everything was great with her had an intense two months of pure happiness. at the end we had a small argument on something and probably ended in a misunderstanding on her part. she became instantly cold and distant even on our date the next day she was different. three days later she left with no explanations and had set up walls since the argument because of her past resurfacing. she decided, in my view, to run and avoid the problem.

i've tried to reach out 4 days after she left to tell her i was open to meet and talk about what happened. she said we needed time and would reach out when ready (which could be never). it's been two weeks into NC and wondering if her attachment style will hever tell her she was wrong for not communicating. Hopefully her therapist will shine a light in her thoughts.

[fdias]

Really a unique video I've never heard of this avoidant thing before. I believe now my ex matches this description. During our relationship I've texted her first way more often then she did.

Few days before she broke up with me I asked her what was happening because in my point of view not initiating contact was a sign of disinterest. I told her our relationship may not work in the long run.

Well, no contact is over. We've been chatting for a few months and I think she still likes me. The same thing goes on, she rarely reaches me out.

Based on this, is she really an avoidant person, Brad?

Enjoyed your content.

[samuel.baumgartner]

Hello Brad, looking back it makes so much sense. Your description fit her almost 100%. You said it's important to be a bit more upfront with avoidant types. Do you think it would be a terrible idea to very carefully mention attachement types after a few in person meetings? I know one shouldn't talk too much about this stuff when trying to get back together. I'd just like to nudge her in the right direction so maybe she can realize this about herself. Thank you for your videos!

[marguskiis]

I like how carefully they edited the videos some years ago and how simple are they now.

[heae]

Just hungout with my ex and she mentioned she thought we jumped into our relationship too soon and we both got scared and fucked it up, she also mentioned she isn't ready for a relationship to which I told her I wasn't either but I still wanted to date her, and if we want this to work we have to let go of the past to move forward and I asked if she is OK with that and keeping it casual, and she agreed. Old me would want relationship or bust, but I realize now that is just the neediness and insecurities talking.

[sivasankarc]

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Thanks brad for your valuable advices..from India ❤️

[DarkestVoid]

My ex is even like this with her mom who she’s basically the closest to besides me. Exactly 2 months today since we initially went on a “break”. We live together and have pretty much since we started dating over 5 years ago. We still absolutely care about each other and I hope giving her the space doing my own work and knowing more about who she is will show her that we had something genuinely special.

[oddlyrelaxing]

Brad you have exactly described my ex 💯💯💯! That’s how he broke up too. He really didn’t give me a solid reason other than that I’m a really good person and he should have let me off in 2017 already instead of dragging it until 2021. All he tells me is his family and friends don’t believe him when he tries to tell them that I’m a good person for him to be with.

So now he texts me all of a sudden with “how are you **”(addressing me the way he use to address me when we were in a relationship) and telling me how a video he saw on YouTube reminded him of me.

As excited I am to read the text from him, I decided to follow you advice and not respond. After and hour he called me!! Again I was crying inside for not picking up his call… did I do the right thing?

[luverdomusic]

Hey Brad,

My ex is going through some things. She is having a tough time now. She told me that like 2 months ago and until now there was no sign of contact anymore. So my question is: Is it possible to blend and support her or is it a sign for me to move on?

Enjoy your day Brad!

[viriato.t]

This is the video I was needing, I already knew your channel and I knew when I go through this sort of situation this is where to find answers.
Brad, I'm confused, in my case, she's not my ex, she said she didn't love me anymore out of anger and wanted to breakup, but she agreed to let me fix things and make her fall in love again... so she's not my ex, or is she? She still wants to keep in contact all day, but will put up many walls, as if she wanted to talk to each other as just friends. She is cold on purpose and it's too obvious, it's like she wants to make things hard for me.

[normwollansky]

The exact same happen to me with my ex
She ran away before we could even talk about the issue with our relationship
(was bad communication which we both felt)
But in her case, she’s also very persistent person who not so easily let down their opinion or admit their own mistake
What can I do in case she’s still so convicted there is nothing to solve ? Should I act differently?
PS. Great vid keep up the amazing content!

[petitcoeur-qr]

These things don’t work. In the end they still dump you again. You can walk on eggshells all you want but ultimately the end result will be the same - discard and it will be worse than the first time because they know they can come back and you will have them back and cycle continues. I’m in the process of letting go and it’s hard.

[ayukelvis]

Brad thanks for always been on point
I broke up with my ex months back and did NC, actually focused on myself and we ran into each other she told me she misses me and has gotten over me 10% out of 100…still I didn’t push for a relationship I just played it cool and offered lunch sometime if it was ok by her and still stayed my lane for 3 weeks working on my goal
Then I realized she’s changed her numbers and didn’t text me the new ones
Is this a way of her to get me to chase her? Cos I really don’t want to or it’s her finally giving up and trying to move on
I honestly am working on building myself n doing the best for i and my mom