Is there Still Hope of getting YOUR AVOIDANT EX back

Is there still hope of getting your avoidant ex back?

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[rambojohnj.]

For avoidants, the grass is always greener on the other side.
Avoidants float in space but want the world. You give them the world, and
they want space.

[fitzbournejack]

Let exes stay where they are. Especially the ones that walked away thinking they'll do better

[edc]

If they dumped you, you have to detach and let go. It's time to focus on yourself.. If you get better, they will reach out and see what that's all about at some point in the future, so remember this: If/when this opportunity comes, they will just be another option for you. Don't waste the pain. Get working on yourselves.

[tredd]

Why do Avoidants come on so strong then, in the first place, only to run away when you give them exactly what they were seeking? Bizarro world.

[komissa]

it because if you broke his or her heart, even if he comes back, he will never be the same anymore

[susanrudge]

My avoidant ex came bk after three and a half months Just leave them alone give them time & space.

[willow_pillow]

As a person with a disorganized attachment style I know both sides of the story.
The anxious and the avoident are equally afraid of being hurt. The anxious seeks closeness and validation to feel safe, just as the other attachment style seeks peace in their own company to feel safe.
There must be communication and honesty on both sides. "They have to change, pointing outwards" does nothing for anyone

[ketor]

I spent 14 years with one, and I was so totally confused by her behavior. 2 years later and with my new found understanding of her, I understand that there isn't anything I can do than just "be".

[RamboPresident]

You really have to let go. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I decided to invite a new chick from tinder to my place just today. I couldn’t even get it up because I missed my ex’s kisses, skin, smell, taste, just everything. Too attached still. Not that easy to let go though!

[DanSarbz]

What’s good coach! My ex left me last September and I’m doing everything I can to level up. Your vids are a big help

[Cluedup]

Honestly guys you don't want a avoidant in your life.

[DetroitNative]

I don't even want her back now honestly. She can stay over there where she at!

[MsPatriot]

By the time I had a clue what was wrong with the man we were broken up. According to one enabling therapist on YouTube there could never be any disagreements and you basically needed to understand and tread lightly when you were on the roller coaster and they were suddenly nowhere in sight since, once again, they needed space in a romantic relationship. Forget YOUR needs. Even if you had expressed them you had definitely done it wrong. You were also very much to blame when you didn't know something because they didn't communicate it whatsoever and your attempt to clarify was perceived as being disagreeable. I have watched a million videos about this mental condition and I'm sure he has it. To say he doesn't know is not true. HE KNOWS. So- all I get from this is that there is no hope. That's great. As Christians we both know there are very few real possibilities in dating world and we were a very unique match.

[Flufero]

As a 70% secure and 30% FA who was recently monkey branched after four years by my FA ex, I would never want to be in a relationship again with an avoidant. I like my space, too, so I guess that's the reason our relationship/situationship lasted so long. It's true, unless they are willing to put in the work to heal, it will not work. It's exhausting.

[tysonmcvicar]

My DA ex destoryed my mental health. I tried to show up 150% as the best partner in the world for her, and that got me broken up. "I can't give you what you need. You deserve someo e who can reciprocate the love you and effort you give" ect. Coming up 3 month NC and thinking about her each day, but its getting easier to see that actually i did deserve better all along

[jonathanhouck]

Y’all should just move on . Don’t even think about this other person . Go about your life . They probably slurping up someone else right now as we speak so go do you !

[jtothec]

Coach, I've been seeing other videos though that say an avoidant won't come back. That there is a period/stage were they eventually move on, especially if you use no contact. If there is silence for so long, they will move on and apparently they tend to not reach out.

[mikewalters]

Great topic and wording. Getting them back and getting them to stay.

[LEOBOI-]

Ok....ok been married almost 16 yrs, having this same problem now!!! Her being an avoidant is an understatement!!! Ive started to take the time to work on myself and, putting in lots of work. Ive always tried to be that stand up man, father, husband! So the topic of separation came about recently! At first I was I mean doing all the simping, pleading, guilt trips I have to got me NOWHERE!!!! Have started the NC. What should I look for? Signs, actions etc????

[andreatorluemke]

Triple threat. Man! Backwards baseball cap. Glasses and guns? Damn that’s every weakness of mine rolled into one. Masculine and gentle. Thank your mama for me. Jesus. I can’t even listen to this one. Whatever pain brought you to this place of wisdom. Whatever woman taught you to love. Thank you so much! Happy Valentine’s Day (I’m going to say brother to keep it clean). Rock on