Are You Trauma Bonding?

preview_player
Показать описание
Trauma bonding can sound like sort of a scary term, and a lot of us can skip over it because we think, well, we didn't really have childhood trauma. I'm not bonding in my current relationship over trauma. But trauma can show up as you know, a parent who was critical, and we mistake that for love. And then we get into those kind of relationships as an adult. And one of the things I always look for to see if someone is trauma bonding is when they can't really say why they're in the relationship. You know, they say he's just so special, or there's just something about her, they can't like, name it. That's a problem. In any relationship, you should be able to say, Oh, they have so much empathy. They're so kind, they always have my back. They're reliable, they're trustworthy, you should be able to say all the things while you're there, if not, might be trauma bonding. So really think about that and follow me for more tips just like this.

❤️ LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE!

Check out my recent videos!

🎧 Listen to more in-depth, weekly tips on the Relationships Made Easy podcast:

👋 Say hello on social:

#Short #traumabonding #abbymedcalf
Рекомендации по теме
Комментарии
Автор

Wow... so simple and insightful.

When my therapist asked "What are the good qualities of (your ex)? Why do you love her?"

My response:
"Well, in the beginning..."
"And, also in the beginning..."
"Oh, and here's some more good memories from the beginning..."

😳

douggy
Автор

I have a hard time bonding probably because of my life and what happened when I was 9 by a brother in law. Years later my family told me I was disowned but couldn't say for what. I didn't do anything. The hardest music I listened to was John Denver. Now my marriage is suffering.

Marie-Artistic_
Автор

@rita.M889 may i wish you the compassion, strength, energy, empathy during your quest for answers/when you get closure, but most of all while you heal my friend. * I can see this is important to you.
What a frustrating situation to be in!
Your in my thoughts
May you be blessed with Love Luck & Laughter FOREVER AND EVER

Oilboss