A Female Covert Narcissist Will Never Admit These Things

No matter how long a female covert narcissist lives, she will not admit the manipulative and abusive things she did to you. In this video which is part 2 of 2, I describe 5 things a man would need to hear after the relationship has ended to help him resolve cognitive dissonance and break the trauma bond. I will also explain why never in a million years will you ever actually hear these admissions from a female covert narcissist. Note: This video is based on the reflections and insights of a man who wishes to remain anonymous.

Video chapters:
Introduction (0:00)
#6: Admitting the Psychological Abuse (1:01)
#7: Acknowledge Devaluation (2:42)
#8: Appreciate Your Effort (4:25)
#9: An Apology (6:15)
#10: Explain the Discard (7:41)

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[SomeGuy-xfbc]

I still struggle trying to understand if they are innately evil or just deeply wounded. Practically it makes no difference, because you aren't going to be able to fix them.

[exsalafi]

I've learned to take no BS and zero tolerance.
These twisted minds cannot be undone

[Ret]

Thank you for this perspective of a man, abused by a woman.

[davidhynd]

As an encouragement to others. I was married to a covert narcissist for 32 years. In the end I thought I was going insane. I've now been separated 9 months. As close to zero contact as possible. I thought I would never heal. However, after lots of time with a counsellor (an understanding ear really helps) and the months of no contact I can tell that I'm starting to find myself again. It's not easy, but it is doable.

[aubreyleonae]

So, So, very true. 20 years with no apology ever. They only take everything, that's all.

[JohnSmith-wons]

Saw her yesterday, haven't seen her for a while. She looked amazing, more attractive than ever. Really threw me. Have to remind myself of the chaos and toxicity that comes with her beauty.

[iniquity]

This is like the apology i never got. After hearing this i stopped shaking for a moment. Thank you...

[jayhova]

Thank you Lise. The real world doesn’t see them for who they really are long term and behind closed doors

[carparthero]

a female covert narcissist will never admit these things (part 2 of 2)

6-admitting all the psychological abuse
7-to acknowledge their constant devaluation
8-to understand and appreciate your efforts
9-an apology for any pain they caused
10-to explain why you were discarded

cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[jaredmello]

You are never going to your reality and perspective validated by them. The quicker you can accept that the better.

[mukesh.dhimar]

It's maddening. I know I gave a hundred percent for her and her children.

The devaluation still affects me right now and I just never feel right. I don't feel good. I feel down all the time.

I know all this was caused and still is caused by her even though I haven't seen her for 10 months. It feels like it will never end.

[antelopeslr]

I’m struggling with the picture of the tree on your wall not hanging straight…

[davidsmith]

The closest she got to telling me that she cheats without saying it. Or admitting it. She stated "I've never been caught cheating ". The hickey or her neck was a different incident

[scottmatznick]

I've gotten used to action as apology rather than words. She'll never admit to being wrong for stealing my children, though I've noticed her making an effort to be more open with me about the future.

[baldersn]

Tbh i domt know many women Covert or otherwise that admit much accountability or say sorry 😂

[michaelsmith]

Lise: I so appreciate your commitment to helping us understand the CN person and recovery from the abuse that they put on us. My CN even took our child to live with her boyfriend who lived 2500 miles away. I want you to know how grateful I am for your work. Michael

[Flame-Bright-Cheer]

I'm not sure if you planned this doctor but just hearing it from you is really helping me heal because it's the closest thing I'll get to ever hearing it and you're saying it quite perfectly and as always thank you for your videos

[distinguishedelegance]

My ex-wife told me to my face how she manipulated me to get me to marry her. She said “if knew me, you wouldn’t have married me.” She was smiling as she told me this.

[nickus]

The last two videos were honestly both soothing and triggering at the same time. It was touching to feel seen, heard and understood. Every single point was spot on.
But the two that personally stand out from the rest are: to hear my efforts were appreciates and to get the apology for the emotional turmoil it left in my life.

[SilverlakeStare]

Thank you Lise! Your videos have helped me cope with these relationship issues immeasurably! You are truly an angel sent from heaven here to save the lives and minds of heartbroken, confused, used and abused men. I am indebted with gratitude for your caring insight and intelligence.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 🙏