Tactics and Mind Games of the Female Covert Narcissist

If you are dealing with a female covert narcissist, this video will explain the exact tactics and mind games she uses to not only lure you in, but also to anchor you into the relationship so you feel like you can never leave her... at least not without feeling extremely guilty and like a complete failure.

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About Me
Hi! I'm Lise Leblanc. I am a therapist, life coach, and author of 9 self-healing guides. I have over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles.

Introduction (0:00)
Who is she looking for? (1:25)
P.H.I.L. (2:12)
Phase 1 - Luring You (3:08)
Phase 2 - Reeling You In (5:45)
Phase 3 - Anchoring You (7:03)
Her Goal (8:45)
Controlling (9:45)

#narcissist, #NPD, #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder, #covertnarcissism, #femalenarcissist

[TallSilentGuy]

1:51 "If you are in a relationship with a female covert narcissist there is no happy ending."
I beg to differ. Getting rid of her is a happy ending!

[Kevin_Knox]

Dear god this is eerily accurate. I paid her bills, I accepted her kids, I accepted her horrific past. None of it was enough.

[nugzila]

Both my parents are narcissists. Took me 28 years to stand up for myself. Run.

[rtm]

I’m six years divorced from a female narcissist. The break-up was hard but after a few months I found I was happy again. I now live a much happier life free from guilt. I’ve traveled the world, remodeled my house and enjoy my life without her.

Thank you for this. It was reassuring.

[silvalinan]

The “abusive ex-boyfriend” who “also did that” is a frequent and effective tactic of hers.

[gogo-biqh]

Men – this is gold! We’re taught girls are sugar and spice and everything nice, so to think that a psychological abuser can be packaged like a pretty girl defies our logic. You’re not gonna get this info in couples therapy. That will just be used as another vehicle to make you think you’re the problem. It took me 60 years and YouTube channels like to this understand it. Hopefully this kind of content will save young men from the same fate.

[brucelawson]

This happened to me four years ago. I found out that she was seeing many men. She was in control.
I actually moved to a smaller town and jumped off FB and changed my phone number. It worked, and I have peace of mind.
I learned allot😊

[modernrustics]

My name is PHIL. I’ve been through this twice now. Alone feels pretty good these days.

[roadrunner]

When you're IN this kind of relationship, you feel like "this is just the way things are." Then someday when you're with a mentally healthy partner, you can see how wrong and abusive it all was.

[Umtree]

12 years in.
It NEVER gets better.
Can’t escape because of kids.
It’s a sad existence.
Run if you still can RUN

[mawoods]

i only stayed because i could not leave my kids, if we never had kids i would have been gone years before

[deathculture]

This video, along with many others, has opened my eyes. I left a relationship of 5 1/2 years just last month. I left by packing my car and leaving our home while she was at work to drive to another state. In this time, I've discussed the relationship in detail to many friends and family and realized who she really is. I was under everything you've explained in this video and in just a few weeks I've never felt so alive and free. This has helped me in my path to healing, thank you.

[MrElliptific]

My rule of thumb in relationships is that if you don't feel good about yourself in the relationship or if the person doesn't make you feel good about yourself then you need to step out. That's really the make or break test.

[RealCoachLee]

If you ever notice that you are doing things for her that you can't imagine her doing for you...walk away. Even if she isn't a clinical narcissist, she is a society-made narcissist and it doesn't really matter what diagnosis they have - if she acts like a narc, you want to get as far away as possible.

[ChapMeifan]

I almost fell into this trap twice with the same manipulator. We split for good in December and she told me I had destroyed her and she would never trust again and never live with someone again. Despite saving her home and kids and destroying my health I was the villain. March 12 she announced she’s in a new relationship to a new guy and she’s presenting the same goddess and sexually vibrant and fun personality that lured me in and who vanished the minute I became her protector and savior. I think I’ve dodged a bullet.

[robertdemeter]

Of course they constantly act as the "victim" and constantly claim you're the villain. Because "You are only rebellious in the eyes of those who can't manipulate or control you."

[Breauxmann]

“The only thing worse than being in an abusive relationship is being in an abusive relationship one more day”
Just wow!

[examind]

We have so much more information at our disposal now. I knew nothing about mental illness going into the relationship. In retrospect, I ignored a godzillion red flags. She kept me on my heels and reeling the entire time. Before I knew it, 23 years had passed. If you see yourself in this situation and are fortunate enough to be reading this, run like hell. Don’t look back.

[stonewall]

This video is the last 24 years of my life. From being married for almost 20 years to deciding to separate when I couldn't take it anymore. Then to finding out she cheated on me and lied about it for 22 years. To top it all off to the final lie and coming out baby trapping me 4 months into our marriage. If you ever find yourself in the relationship with one of these women, RUN. Run like the rest of your life depends on it, because your future happiness sure does.

[mggoose]

You just described my relationship with one of the most evil women I’ve ever known. I swear, she was your case study for this video. Fortunately, I’ve escaped from this insane woman!