Narcissist will keep you on as the backup to the new supply. accepting a lesser role in their lives

NARCISSIST WILL KEEP YOU ON AS THE BACKUP TO THE NEW SUPPLY. ACCEPTING A LESSER ROLE IN THEIR LIVES.

EVEN WHEN A NARCISSIST MOVES ON SOMETIMES THEY WILL KEEP THE OLD SUPPLY AROUND AS BACKUP JUST IN CASE THE NEW RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T WORK OUT HOW THEY PLANNED IT.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

You can find me on -

Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[LetJesusTouchUrLife]

Hey bum, I’m comin’ to fight you
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[samia]

They will keep you as “friends” but what they really mean is “placeholder” because as SOON as they find someone else they will discard you in the most brutal way. Happened to me.

[drlarrymitchell]

If someone tries to put you on a shelf, never be afraid to burn that shelf off the wall.

[annamarienyc]

**the disrespect is the closure** -- Lee, this is a terrific line. I'm putting it on a Post-It. Maybe expand on this if you feel like at any point? Because these 5 words, taken together, makes me feel this on a visceral and unavoidable level. No justification possible if these 5 words are actually internalized and repeated. "The disrespect is the closure." Remember it folks. Wisdom here from Lee Hammock! Thank you, sir, for putting this content out here. It's been very helpful in an ongoing way. Been watching for a few months now.

[annecanazon]

.... after it was all over he finally told me the truth.... “I didn’t marry you because I loved you, I married you because of the way you loved me.” .... 30yrs later it still blows me away ...

[JasmineReiki]

Normal people don’t say that . They let you know it’s not working out and let you get on with your life not try to drag things out

[MeliLeani]

“They have nothing to offer you! They can clap your cheeks real good?!” 😂😂😂😂 he could barely even do that! 🍤 👌🏼 your videos are SO HELPFUL, it’s truly helping me see him for what he is & that I’m not the problem. We literally had this exact conversation, he said “I’m not sure if I’m IN love but I do love you” and I asked “what do you want?” And he said “I want you to wait for me”. He must be on crack

[glendacordova]

Mine was always discarding me for someone new. He’d come back when he got bored with them and me like an idiot I’d take him back. I didn’t know why, I just thought it was love. I realize now It was trauma bonding. These videos are really helping me.

[jjones]

Preach it! This is spot on! Those of us that have wasted so much time on the "bum ass" narc need to hear this!

[eebjd]

Agreeed...the "Disrespect IS the Closure!!"🤩🤩

[charmainebrothers]

This is on point. I just got dumped by a narcissist. The way he did it was almost like he was talking to a homegirl or something. He acts like everything is great and like I'm supposed to be ok with everything, but I am DONE. I dealt with this person for 10 years. I know my worth and there is nothing he can do or say to me that will make me accept him back. I am working hard to heal from this trauma bond. Thank you for shedding some knowledge.

[tm]

I've watched this video 5 times...."the disrespect is the closure ". Fuck yeah - it's what everyone around me has been saying for years. I guess it just clicked now..a "threshold " I guess. Thank you Lee. You've literally saved my life 🙏💖

[Lisa-bkwm]

Whoa Lee... " When you try to fix a broken man or a broken woman you inevitably get a broken heart" that was truth 💯.

I always said the generosity of people to overlook such flaws is astounding.

[ccook]

Wow! Thank you. This just what I needed to hear. My ex told me the exact sentence of “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” He already had the new supply up. I needed to hear how disrespectful that is.

[SassyDiva]

Lee, your realness is helping trauma bonded people wake up! Thank you

[shannonallen]

This was so good Lee! exNH tried this when having an affair with new supply who knew he was married. He tried to sabotage me covertly from leaving him. I finally got out 8 months later. Been No Contact for 2.5 years. He hoovers twice a year or tries. I ignore, ignore, ignore. The trauma bond is serious but this lady GLOWED UP in a way I KNOW he never saw coming. He is living like a bum with bum new supply. Good for them and better her than me.

[kd]

My "EGO" was fighting for something that wasn't NOTHING. However, I've learned that I was addicted to the toxic energy, the toxicity was like a DRUG, i needed to get my fix. Ego and toxicity is a recipe for disaster.. Thank you for your content; you have helped me tremendously..

[donnahale]

Lee ur telling the truth..my ex narc had NOTHING TO OFFER me ...no job and NOTHING..he was a leach.
I HAD 2 LEAVE

[mysticalmoongoddess]

You are a narc guru... you definitely validate us as victims.its like hearing it from the source.which is odd cuz the narc in my life will never. I've lost so many years trying to decifer this toxic behavior.

[angelaaudley]

You helped me win Lee definitely...you helped me face my trauma bond and you helped me break it! Love your rages an passion but you make me laugh so much when you do 😆 thank you though Lee seriously. I'm really liking raw motivation too I know he's a friend of yours I watch both of you.