Your fear that the narcissist will REPLACE you

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[ChocoParfaitFra]

it's because we're always afraid they may change for their new person

[NarcSurvivor]

They keep you on edge thinking you’re not good enough and as though anyone else is better than you. It’s because they’re insecure about themselves. They’re projecting.

[awesomepossumstudios]

If you can sense the discard, you’ve already been replaced.

[marilynnorth]

In a nutshell, trying to have a "relationship" with a narcissist is like having a constant tug of war between your mind and your heart. Your mind says "this is toxic, let him go", but your heart holds on tight and begs "i can't let him go" 😩

[brittanyb]

I had a fear of being replaced and ultimately I WAS "REPLACED" and you know what...I'm ok 🙂

[reysparta_]

If you already have that feeling about them, they have already replaced you or are replacing you during the moment. You staying doesn't stop anything. Let them create hell in another person's life, while you heal. Some humans are empty vessels looking for a soul to snatch...over and over and over again.

[peachclip]

I’m at that point where I am like “thank goodness she replaced me.” Honestly, she is isn’t “better than me” and he isn’t worth fighting for.

[melissam]

After believing I was irreplaceable in his life, and then seeing how easily not only I was replaced, but he had been seeing other women the whole time he was seeing me and hid me from everyone. Soulmate wasn’t in my vocabulary until he put it there by calling me his. I have a hard time trusting myself now to know anymore what is genuine and what is not. That is where the real devastation is for me. It was so real for me, and it sent me into a tailspin that I really haven’t come out of yet.

[firouz]

Don‘t be afraid!
He is going to replace you!
He is in his second „partnership“ after me!
People told me his first one looked exactly like me 😂😂😂😂

The problem is not the fact that narcissists replace you. The problem is your deeply rooted fear that you are replaceable!

You are unique and precious.
Nobody can replace you once you know that!
Love yourself.

[uxygchi]

Let someone else win the idiot prize. I've done my time. I've learned my lessons. I'm ready for the real thing now.

[katie]

I can be replaced. He has already told me, I’m not all that. Replace me ! Sooner the better. I’ll help you pack...

[AugustAdvice]

At first I was jealous. But by now I'm sure she's being left on read for 6+ hours a day and being told what not to wear, so I dont care anymore.

[MomDroogs]

Been crap under my narcissistic mother’s feet all of my life. Tried for 60 years to “honor my mother”. She has replaced me with a surrogate daughter next door. I wish the surrogate well.. she has no idea!

[timmorodgers]

Being replaced is usually a good thing, they’re now someone else’s problem. It’s like selling a second hand car to someone with lots of hidden defects that won’t become apparent to the new owner until it’s too late. Take the money and run.

[NehaSingh-ulfl]

Dr Ramani you have saved me n constantly help me getting better

[Leafygreen]

This is off-topic, but just wanted to say: Dr. Ramani, jewel tones look so beautiful on you! This sapphire top totally rocks it! 😀💕

[Judyjlefebvre]

One of my ex narcissists started dating a woman soon after I left & she looks just like me. And my last ex Narcissist ended his life with hookers & blow before he died from that lifestyle. I don't look back in awe, I look back in relief, huge relief. Anyone who is dealing with this kind of person, I pray for. Find your grounding and strength. You don't have to stay with them.

[ximenamoctezuma]

Being replaced was one of my biggest fear. I would tell him “ I know that I’ll be replaced as soon as I leave “ he wouldn’t even pretend to say NO and would make sure I was afraid of the replacement. Till I caught him cheating being all sweet and nice to her. It really hurt. But I know it won’t last and it’s all pretend on his part. And that helps me. You are AMAZING DR RAMANI you are helping me through this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[MsCatholicforever]

I was hoping he would find a replacement...and he did....they just got

[sdcharger]

A narc replacing you is a great opportunity especially if you where strong enough to leave them. Now you don't have to be bothered with hoovering and on top of that tremendous growth occurs after leaving a narc relationship. It's like be unlocked and set free.